FabSwingers.com forum: Such thing as to long a profile? And is my own?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So iv regularly seen other profiles asking for help or advice been criticized for lack of written dialog within there profile.

But is there such thing as to much or a bore to read, and is my own?

Mine feels like a short resume, it just all came out really quickly would you agree there are bits that should be removed or does it read well?

Do you enjoy reading lenghy profiles or prefer short and sweet ones?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

a) Yes

b) Yes

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"a) Yes

b) Yes

* thanks you for using this service, if you found this advice useful please visit my profile and fab a picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like reading profiles but maybe a litttle to long winded as nothing left to ask or talk about. Everyone so different on here though some may prefer that x X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"a) Yes

b) Yes

* thanks you for using this service, if you found this advice useful please visit my profile and fab a picture."

Thanks for option one.

But I made my own one instead. I'll leave a kind note of many many many thanks for your many and very helpful words instead

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like reading profiles but maybe a litttle to long winded as nothing left to ask or talk about. Everyone so different on here though some may prefer that x X "

This is true, each to there own, myself aren't one for loads of back and forth messages but I can think of a multitude of other things to speak of nether the less thanks for your opnion! X

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth

"So iv regularly seen other profiles asking for help or advice been criticized for lack of written dialog within there profile.

But is there such thing as to much or a bore to read, and is my own?

Mine feels like a short resume, it just all came out really quickly would you agree there are bits that should be removed or does it read well?

Do you enjoy reading lenghy profiles or prefer short and sweet ones? "

Somesay mines to long others say its great. Cant please everyone

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

Would be nice to know which town you are near ( or close by) connie x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So iv regularly seen other profiles asking for help or advice been criticized for lack of written dialog within there profile.

But is there such thing as to much or a bore to read, and is my own?

Mine feels like a short resume, it just all came out really quickly would you agree there are bits that should be removed or does it read well?

Do you enjoy reading lenghy profiles or prefer short and sweet ones?

Somesay mines to long others say its great. Cant please everyone

All down to prospective really I sopose!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would be nice to know which town you are near ( or close by) connie x

Leaves somthing for them to ask! Since my profile leaves no questions! Or anything to talk about

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would be nice to know which town you are near ( or close by) connie x

"
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Plus they can get the gist of it via how far one another are from there location

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth

"Would be nice to know which town you are near ( or close by) connie x

Fair 1, reason i say that is i travel all over the south west so i can be close by to anywhere

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

"Would be nice to know which town you are near ( or close by) connie x

Fair 1, reason i say that is i travel all over the south west so i can be close by to anywhere

thats fine if it suit you, when we are looking for a single male we just look say 25 miles local to us..so maybe you might show up on your postcode..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would be nice to know which town you are near ( or close by) connie x

Fair 1, reason i say that is i travel all over the south west so i can be close by to anywhere

I always have my who's near on, soooooo if they where to be in the area I'd pop up either way, plus you'd put the postcode of the place you where visiting in the search options and Bo 's your uncle NEXT!

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By *arumcoupleCouple
over a year ago

salisbury

In our opinion its far to long lost the will to live reading it. Its a profile not a CV !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read the first line...

and the last

but tbh the profile header put me off anyway, but

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah sorry mate, that is just a wall of text... I do get bored reading huge profiles personally. Saying that, now I'm wondering whether mine is a bit on the long side and might need some editing!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah hahaha! That's exactly what I said it's like I'm applying for a job, I was just writing then one moment I'd written lots of letters, letters turned to words, words turned to sentences and so on! And so on, see its happening again

Your dammed if you do your dammed if you don't, spose your profiles like a woman, got to find that sweet spot

Think I just have the ability to talk alot! Shameless!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I read the first line...

and the last

but tbh the profile header put me off anyway, but

You wouldent want to chew me up and spit me out! Are you a delicate lover

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Might even put a test in there, write I'm a chatty fucker in your message to prove you read my profile

If not DELETE!!! lol give some people a taste of there own medicine. Talking about not reading profiles then not reading profiles!

It's sickening joking it's not that deep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yours is a bit long and rambles on a bit for me BUT someone compatible with you would like that.

i don't mind lengthy profiles and will read them if i'm interested in the guy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I read the first line...

and the last

but tbh the profile header put me off anyway, but

Instead I'll use the profile header to advise people not to click on my profile,

People always want to do what people tell them not to!

Masta uv cunnin! Reverse psychology, plus it was save them a pain stake gurling task of reading my profile text

Such a helpful chap me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"yours is a bit long and rambles on a bit for me BUT someone compatible with you would like that.

i don't mind lengthy profiles and will read them if i'm interested in the guy."

Rambles! The cheek! Every opinion appreciated

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By *r Stagger LeeMan
over a year ago

torquay

had the same problem with mine. once i reorganised it into sections and loss some bit made it far more legible.

do find some profile ramble on a little too much

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But surely not coherently! All is useful infomation maybe I'm the equivalent of what a horder is for useless junk, I am for useless words it's a u fortunate disability, am I disabled!!

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Can you do a spell check on it as personally the amount of misspelt words would put me off! ( though others may not be bothered by that...)

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I think your profile and your pictures are pretty good.

I do agree that a spell check would be good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is a bit long,but then again no one is forced to read it,just like we aren't under any obligation to reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can you do a spell check on it as personally the amount of misspelt words would put me off! ( though others may not be bothered by that...)

Well evidently fate just so turns out for us not to be compatible, I had a whole load of other stuff going on during school years I'm lucky to still be sane! But that's how the cookie crumbles x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think your profile and your pictures are pretty good.

I do agree that a spell check would be good."

Thank you kindly! Well least I have the brain capacity to string a few sentences together, despite not been 100% on point with spelling, my phone doesn't have a spell check and to be honest I can't really be bothered to look for them manually!

I am a male after all cut me some slack people!

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I don't mind long profiles if they're interesting or funny to read. Rather someone puts in more effort than less every time.

In respect to yours OP, I read the first two paragraphs and stopped. Not enticing. A quote then saying you've been through lots of shit. I'm not being cruel here, I have and many others have. I come to fab to get away from the draining nature of people talking about their shit. Unless it's a close friend then I'm all ears. But a perfect stranger? No sorry.

Maybe rethink how you grab someone's attention in a better way? Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not talking, or expressing anything to anybody, I used to be a bad boy now I'm very much the opposite, it's more inspirational then anything if I'm honest!

Some body told me good men are hard to find bad ones are hard to resist, so what does that make me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far too long. Did nothing for me. It may appeal to others.

The spelling mistakes annoyed me but others may not care so much about that.

There was little of substance there - and I am always interested in why someone cannot accommodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I skim read long profiles if I like the photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Far too long. Did nothing for me. It may appeal to others.

The spelling mistakes annoyed me but others may not care so much about that.

There was little of substance there - and I am always interested in why someone cannot accommodate."

He's 21, I'm guessing he either lives with family, or house shares.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"So iv regularly seen other profiles asking for help or advice been criticized for lack of written dialog within there profile.

But is there such thing as to much or a bore to read, and is my own?

Mine feels like a short resume, it just all came out really quickly would you agree there are bits that should be removed or does it read well?

Do you enjoy reading lenghy profiles or prefer short and sweet ones? "
I prefer detailed and informative profiles as they avoid wasting peoples time.

However yours is all about sex and has no information on non sexual interests .

If we were to take the view that everyone on here is seeking sex , information on non sexual interests might help your profile stand out.

Well done on making the effort to write a detailed profile .

It just needs a little fine tuning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Far too long. Did nothing for me. It may appeal to others.

The spelling mistakes annoyed me but others may not care so much about that.

There was little of substance there - and I am always interested in why someone cannot accommodate.

He's 21, I'm guessing he either lives with family, or house shares. "

You may be right. It just all seems to be written from his perspective with no thought to what other people might want to know.

Ah, to be 21 again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, yes it's far too long for me. I think you can get across the basics of who you are and what you're looking for in 2 paragraphs max. I may be lazy, though.

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"So iv regularly seen other profiles asking for help or advice been criticized for lack of written dialog within there profile.

But is there such thing as to much or a bore to read, and is my own? No , you mean if you,ve been thoughtful enough to try to cover all angles to enable others to make an informed decision .........then no.....

Mine feels like a short resume, it just all came out really quickly would you agree there are bits that should be removed or does it read well?

Do you enjoy reading lenghy profiles or prefer short and sweet ones? "

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

No....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Op - I note that your location is even rather long.

Profiles and their reasonableness and user's ability to be appropriate, is all going to depend on the viewer.

More detail is generally better than less or none. It's about catching what works best for revealing enough of who you are, to catch the attention of others.

When I was at school I had a tape foreign language course: it used to send me to sleep, if nothing else. I guess the equivalent with a profile would be for someone to skip on to the next profile instead.

Endless repetition, too much detail and leaving nothing much to discuss, before proceding to the next step, is probably a poorer start than someone who's writing concisely and captivating interest.

The best thing is to experiment yourself and compare and contrast your results.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Far too long. Did nothing for me. It may appeal to others.

The spelling mistakes annoyed me but others may not care so much about that.

There was little of substance there - and I am always interested in why someone cannot accommodate.

He's 21, I'm guessing he either lives with family, or house shares. "

Nope, lived independently since I was sixteen live in a block of flats with people above me below me and beside me, good guess though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Far too long. Did nothing for me. It may appeal to others.

The spelling mistakes annoyed me but others may not care so much about that.

There was little of substance there - and I am always interested in why someone cannot accommodate.

He's 21, I'm guessing he either lives with family, or house shares.

Nope, lived independently since I was sixteen live in a block of flats with people above me below me and beside me, good guess though x"

Ah, a quiet wanker then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So iv regularly seen other profiles asking for help or advice been criticized for lack of written dialog within there profile.

But is there such thing as to much or a bore to read, and is my own?

Mine feels like a short resume, it just all came out really quickly would you agree there are bits that should be removed or does it read well?

Do you enjoy reading lenghy profiles or prefer short and sweet ones? I prefer detailed and informative profiles as they avoid wasting peoples time.

However yours is all about sex and has no information on non sexual interests .

If we were to take the view that everyone on here is seeking sex , information on non sexual interests might help your profile stand out.

Well done on making the effort to write a detailed profile .

It just needs a little fine tuning "

I'm interested in the state of consciousness before and after death, Mythology, Theosophy, mesmerism, Occultism, Transcendental physics, ethics, psychological types, and Archetypes, I mention I'm interested in many things any one with any interest to know can ask, but this is a sex site so I won't bore any one with it on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So iv regularly seen other profiles asking for help or advice been criticized for lack of written dialog within there profile.

But is there such thing as to much or a bore to read, and is my own?

Mine feels like a short resume, it just all came out really quickly would you agree there are bits that should be removed or does it read well?

Do you enjoy reading lenghy profiles or prefer short and sweet ones? I prefer detailed and informative profiles as they avoid wasting peoples time.

However yours is all about sex and has no information on non sexual interests .

If we were to take the view that everyone on here is seeking sex , information on non sexual interests might help your profile stand out.

Well done on making the effort to write a detailed profile .

It just needs a little fine tuning

Fook. You aren't eating my brains.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So iv regularly seen other profiles asking for help or advice been criticized for lack of written dialog within there profile.

But is there such thing as to much or a bore to read, and is my own?

Mine feels like a short resume, it just all came out really quickly would you agree there are bits that should be removed or does it read well?

Do you enjoy reading lenghy profiles or prefer short and sweet ones? I prefer detailed and informative profiles as they avoid wasting peoples time.

However yours is all about sex and has no information on non sexual interests .

If we were to take the view that everyone on here is seeking sex , information on non sexual interests might help your profile stand out.

Well done on making the effort to write a detailed profile .

It just needs a little fine tuning

Among other shite....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So iv regularly seen other profiles asking for help or advice been criticized for lack of written dialog within there profile.

But is there such thing as to much or a bore to read, and is my own?

Mine feels like a short resume, it just all came out really quickly would you agree there are bits that should be removed or does it read well?

Do you enjoy reading lenghy profiles or prefer short and sweet ones? I prefer detailed and informative profiles as they avoid wasting peoples time.

However yours is all about sex and has no information on non sexual interests .

If we were to take the view that everyone on here is seeking sex , information on non sexual interests might help your profile stand out.

Well done on making the effort to write a detailed profile .

It just needs a little fine tuning

Fook. You aren't eating my brains."

Where else do you think I get all my information from!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A page of text so it says enough for me to make an informed decision. Can't be bothered to scroll past a page especially if the profile starts with rants block capital rules.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

I didn't read it so I don't know the content but it does seem a little long

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