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"We have gone back to using condoms together. Mrsdpt tried the implant and the pill...both caused chaos with her body so we decided to go back to condoms. Doesn't make a great deal of difference " Drier sheets... | |||
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"If you can't even figure out to buy the right size condom then maybe you shouldn't even be having sex." Thanks for your input. | |||
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"If you can't even figure out to buy the right size condom then maybe you shouldn't even be having sex. Thanks for your input. " Welcome. | |||
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"Don't mind using them except the smell of them is nasty " I can't stand the smell of many conforms but the latex free ones are almost odourless and as such I'm happy to suck a guy with one on. | |||
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"Just a necessary evil I suppose. Perhaps they do take the edge off and then there's he interruption of putting it on...... But on the whole the sex is still pretty good" That's the hubby's comment but from my perspective I have to say I bloody hate them! Would never play without obviously but I'm so glad me and him don't have to!! | |||
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"Worthwhile thread - I wouldn't class myself as massively hung by any stretch but last time I used skyns standard size found them pretty tight and off putting - will check large " Yes try the large size of skyns. I find the standard size hard to put on, and feels so uncomfortable. Large size is easier to put on and feels more comfortable. Anyway all this is relative, as it depends on the size of you dick as well. | |||
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"Do make sure you are using the right size though, as they can also come off in the heat of the moment, that is not in any way something that adds to the moment!" Oh essential to use the right size. That's kinda the whole point of the thread. | |||
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"Do make sure you are using the right size though, as they can also come off in the heat of the moment, that is not in any way something that adds to the moment!" True. Getting the right size is very important. | |||
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"Had the snip but still use condoms, Ultra thin though for a better feeling " The snip doesn't stop stds lol | |||
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"Getting the right size definately helps, I wish there was better standardisation between brands. I must admit I had never thought of having other sizes for guests but it is a really good idea. How long does it take to get your eye in for guestimating sizes?" I use condoms from Mysize.com they tell you how and what to measure to ensure a great fit. | |||
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"Femidoms are fun if the lady wants to go from front to back several times. Inserting them can be part of the foreplay. Only thing is that they cost much more!" I tried femidoms years back, it was like having sex with a crisp packet up ya floo ...rustled and everything. No thanks | |||
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"I actually love using condoms Feels sexy " I find that they're a wonderfully naughty reminder that you're fucking someone you probably shouldn't be. | |||
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"Good thread Rachael. Those men who find them uncomfortable, may simply be wearing the wrong size. We agree that Skyns in large seem to work best for us. Nita" | |||
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"Thought I'd bring it up again ( pun intended) Guys, do you struggle to enjoy sex with a condom on? This may be because you're bigger than you realise. If the condom feels tight or won't roll to the base of you then it's too small. Once a condom is on and you enter someone you should really feel it's there. Condoms come in a range of sizes and vary in size by manufacturer. 'Large' for instance, as made by skyns, seems to fit many of my lovers. That doesn't mean they're massively hung it just means the standard size ones are actually quite small. I hope this helps even just one guy out there. " I use them. I don't notice it is on - no change in sensation for me | |||
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"We have never used them together ( hence the 7 kids ) and we leave it to the guest to decide whether to ware or not .. " May I ask; do you use another form of birth control? | |||
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"Good thread Rachael. Those men who find them uncomfortable, may simply be wearing the wrong size. We agree that Skyns in large seem to work best for us. Nita" Yep I always use them find them one of the best about. | |||
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"We have never used them together ( hence the 7 kids ) and we leave it to the guest to decide whether to ware or not .. May I ask; do you use another form of birth control? [/quote Together 20 years and pill in the past but sterilised now so no need " | |||
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"We have never used them together ( hence the 7 kids ) and we leave it to the guest to decide whether to ware or not .. May I ask; do you use another form of birth control? [/quote Together 20 years and pill in the past but sterilised now so no need " I meant with the 'guest'. | |||
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"We have never used them together ( hence the 7 kids ) and we leave it to the guest to decide whether to ware or not .. May I ask; do you use another form of birth control? [/quote Together 20 years and pill in the past but sterilised now so no need I meant with the 'guest'. " We prefer regular meets with 3 or 4 friends, start with protection after a while we leave it to them to decide, we are tested after meets and ( with hope) they get tested too if they have other friends. It's good if there's trust too | |||
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"We have never used them together ( hence the 7 kids ) and we leave it to the guest to decide whether to ware or not .. May I ask; do you use another form of birth control? [/quote Together 20 years and pill in the past but sterilised now so no need I meant with the 'guest'. We prefer regular meets with 3 or 4 friends, start with protection after a while we leave it to them to decide, we are tested after meets and ( with hope) they get tested too if they have other friends. It's good if there's trust too " We don't meet in clubs just home meets so we kinda get to know the guest a little | |||
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"We have never used them together ( hence the 7 kids ) and we leave it to the guest to decide whether to ware or not .. May I ask; do you use another form of birth control? [/quote Together 20 years and pill in the past but sterilised now so no need I meant with the 'guest'. We prefer regular meets with 3 or 4 friends, start with protection after a while we leave it to them to decide, we are tested after meets and ( with hope) they get tested too if they have other friends. It's good if there's trust too " It was birth control I asked about. Seven kids from not using condoms sounds like there is no birth control measures in place. So you leave it for them to decide sounds scary. | |||
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"We have never used them together ( hence the 7 kids ) and we leave it to the guest to decide whether to ware or not .. May I ask; do you use another form of birth control? [/quote Together 20 years and pill in the past but sterilised now so no need I meant with the 'guest'. We prefer regular meets with 3 or 4 friends, start with protection after a while we leave it to them to decide, we are tested after meets and ( with hope) they get tested too if they have other friends. It's good if there's trust too It was birth control I asked about. Seven kids from not using condoms sounds like there is no birth control measures in place. So you leave it for them to decide sounds scary. " It's only since being sterilised after our last baby that we sometimes don't use anything , before this condoms were always used with others , we started 12 years ago but been on a break for 5 years before starting looking again in August. Would never of risked pregnancy with anyone other than husband. | |||
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"We have never used them together ( hence the 7 kids ) and we leave it to the guest to decide whether to ware or not .. May I ask; do you use another form of birth control? [/quote Together 20 years and pill in the past but sterilised now so no need I meant with the 'guest'. We prefer regular meets with 3 or 4 friends, start with protection after a while we leave it to them to decide, we are tested after meets and ( with hope) they get tested too if they have other friends. It's good if there's trust too It was birth control I asked about. Seven kids from not using condoms sounds like there is no birth control measures in place. So you leave it for them to decide sounds scary. It's only since being sterilised after our last baby that we sometimes don't use anything , before this condoms were always used with others , we started 12 years ago but been on a break for 5 years before starting looking again in August. Would never of risked pregnancy with anyone other than husband. " Phew So that's a yes to having an alternative birth control method | |||
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"We have never used them together ( hence the 7 kids ) and we leave it to the guest to decide whether to ware or not .. May I ask; do you use another form of birth control? [/quote Together 20 years and pill in the past but sterilised now so no need I meant with the 'guest'. We prefer regular meets with 3 or 4 friends, start with protection after a while we leave it to them to decide, we are tested after meets and ( with hope) they get tested too if they have other friends. It's good if there's trust too It was birth control I asked about. Seven kids from not using condoms sounds like there is no birth control measures in place. So you leave it for them to decide sounds scary. It's only since being sterilised after our last baby that we sometimes don't use anything , before this condoms were always used with others , we started 12 years ago but been on a break for 5 years before starting looking again in August. Would never of risked pregnancy with anyone other than husband. Phew So that's a yes to having an alternative birth control method " in the beginning yes , not just for pregnancy though obviously. That's why we prefer regular basis friends ( although not guaranteed) a little easier to trust | |||
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"Yehh it's shit,i sometimes can't get them on and I'd rather have a wank tbh " Perhaps you need a bigger size then | |||
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"Don't mind using them except the smell of them is nasty " I totally agree. Horrid smell that lingers. Yuk! X | |||
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"Don't mind using them except the smell of them is nasty I totally agree. Horrid smell that lingers. Yuk! X" Latex free are the way to go | |||
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"Yehh it's shit,i sometimes can't get them on and I'd rather have a wank tbh Perhaps you need a bigger size then " It's the cock rings fault..my dick goes all King Kong and the fucker won't fit....ahhhh well | |||
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"Never keen, normally as condom is v tight & more feeling on tightness than enjoying the feeling of sex " This is exactly the feeling I'm on about. It's not supposed to feel like that big boy! Get a larger size and wear them with pride | |||
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"Getting the right size definately helps, I wish there was better standardisation between brands. I must admit I had never thought of having other sizes for guests but it is a really good idea. How long does it take to get your eye in for guestimating sizes?" Mysize.com do a number of sizes based on your real measurements They currently have a range of girth and lengths so you can really customisee to get a really good fit | |||
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"Worthwhile thread - I wouldn't class myself as massively hung by any stretch but last time I used skyns standard size found them pretty tight and off putting - will check large " length isn;t the issue with condom sizinf but girth is - and yes we know the stuff aobut how much you can stretch the ends once unrolled, but getting a condom on without havingto then 'burp it' like a drysuit means correct unstretched size | |||
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"Hi we use standard condoms on large dildos which are 12" long and over 2" in diameter so what is all this talk of condoms being to small,complete nonsense!" Does your dildo have nerves so it can feel how tight the condom is? I guess the condom manufacturers should have consulted you on this before wasting so much money on making a variety of sizes. | |||
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"I'm very clean good hygiene etc i don't like wearing condoms I take pride in my appearance " No one else has so I have to.... gob&£&/"! | |||
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"Hi we use standard condoms on large dildos which are 12" long and over 2" in diameter so what is all this talk of condoms being to small,complete nonsense!" I can get into a size 15" collar shirt.. it cuts the blood off at my neck but I got it on. The issue isn't if it will fit, but whether it is too tight and cuts the blood flow. Same with condoms. | |||
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" Mysize.com do a number of sizes based on your real measurements They currently have a range of girth and lengths so you can really customisee to get a really good fit" Interestingly they sent a user suggestion around saying that feedback indicates you should measure up as usual, but then buy the next girth up. I have tried this and have to admit that a less tight fit does seem to give more sensitivity. This is especially true if you put a blob of lube on the end. That way you get more slithering over the bell end, which is a good thing. The length, if properly measured also means that it fits tightly round the root of the cock so it won't drag off. It works well. | |||
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"I carry a couple of sizes in my bag and bring out what I think appropriate once I've seen him hard. " So I am not the only one who does this! | |||
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"I tend to experience "hydraulic lock" when i cum, which can spoil the sensation somewhat. " That's why you squeeze the air out of the teat end before you roll them on....problem solved! (Unless you are using too large a size?) | |||
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" Mysize.com do a number of sizes based on your real measurements They currently have a range of girth and lengths so you can really customisee to get a really good fit Interestingly they sent a user suggestion around saying that feedback indicates you should measure up as usual, but then buy the next girth up. I have tried this and have to admit that a less tight fit does seem to give more sensitivity. This is especially true if you put a blob of lube on the end. That way you get more slithering over the bell end, which is a good thing. The length, if properly measured also means that it fits tightly round the root of the cock so it won't drag off. It works well. " Or get two sizes bigger and pull the collar over your bollocks.....condom and cocking in one! | |||
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"I tend to experience "hydraulic lock" when i cum, which can spoil the sensation somewhat. That's why you squeeze the air out of the teat end before you roll them on....problem solved! (Unless you are using too large a size?)" Surely if it was too big i wouldn't have that problem? | |||
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" Mysize.com do a number of sizes based on your real measurements They currently have a range of girth and lengths so you can really customisee to get a really good fit Interestingly they sent a user suggestion around saying that feedback indicates you should measure up as usual, but then buy the next girth up. I have tried this and have to admit that a less tight fit does seem to give more sensitivity. This is especially true if you put a blob of lube on the end. That way you get more slithering over the bell end, which is a good thing. The length, if properly measured also means that it fits tightly round the root of the cock so it won't drag off. It works well. " | |||
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