FabSwingers.com forum: general advice please :)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi,as a new member to this,and yes i know my profile is not selling myself atm,and perhaps even my pics arnt great,but could i ask as to why some ladies friend request you,you accept,send a message and they then proceed to just delete it,and also why ladies send messages asking to meet,you reply politely with a yes maybe lets chat first perhaps,which then also becomes just another deleted message with no explanation.Any feedback good or bad would be appreciated.

Regards.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

They friend request you to check your pictures out, if they don't like what they see they block or delete you - some ladies do it to avoid endless ping-pong messaging I guess.

As to the other deletions it's just people being choosy. The ladies get the pick of the crop, buyers market etc.

Women get far more messages in a day than most blokes get in a year so they do tend to ignore a lot of them to avoid spending hours replying each day only to be hit with a second wave of 'why not?' or 'you're fat and ugly anyway' messages again.

Sadly the good guys often get caught up in the mass delete or get lost in the rude 'wanna shag' and uninspiring 'hi, how are you' messages.

The only advise I can suggest is to make the first line of your message count, make it intriguing or interesting and add a face pic every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

???????

We contibuted to this thread, got answered, responded again....

Now half the thread has been deleted.

What on earth is going on?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/introductions/57378

2 threads the same so im going to close this one as its confusing people

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By *igblondeeWoman
over a year ago

Garstang

I add people as a friend to see their pics ..if I dont like the look of them ts a delete ...I couldnt reply to all would never get time to get down to business !!!

I Always try to respond to 'polite' messages tho..manners cost nothing !

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