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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, I'm new to the scene, just a little advice needed...... Do I meet women/couples first or jump straight into the clubs ?

Thanks M x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally up to you. Most single men find it hard to get meets off here. The successful men tend to get the social aspect of swinging and can be found in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on what you want out of swinging? If you are new, then you need to learn about the etiquette first. You cant just walk into a club and expect all the women to be clamouring to have sex with you. There are a lot of single men on the scene so you have a lot of competition. Make your profile a bit more interesting, tell people a bit about yourself and what you are ideally looking for.... also Respect is big on the scene, treat people with respect. Single females are bombarded by single men on here all the time, so you need to be something special if you want to get a response. Women will always read your profile first to see if you are what they are looking for. Dont be offended if you dont get a response from single women, that is there way of saying not interested and too many times when they have issued a polite no thanks they have been abused for it. Good luck in your journey

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi all, I'm new to the scene, just a little advice needed...... Do I meet women/couples first or jump straight into the clubs ?

Thanks M x"

What would you like to do first?

I'm not sure what your expectations of swinging are but you will probably get more luck at a club (not guaranteed by any means) than here. It can take time to get meets from fab and you'll probably need to put some leg work in.

Good luck.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

P.S. if you aren't interested in single men filter them out from messaging you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you go to a club....you can meet women and couples. It's not mutually exclusive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club. Definately. I get a meet off here once in a blue moon so most of my liaisons are at Kestrels.

I think it makes a big difference when you can actually talk to people in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are always a good way to meet like minded people

As a single lady I find it less hassle,always guaranteed to meet new friends,never guaranteed I would play though

My single lady profile has everyone blocked I add people after I met them at club's.people see my meets up and know I'm there,can introduce in person I love it,I don't waste time chitchat

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