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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

why do single guys inparticular think its ok to treat us single women like free prostitues??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll never understand why they do it - but that's why I've finally given up on men and have gone back to just loving other women....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coz ur way out their league n they do it to women of couples too.

Ur worth more than that block n move on n don't give em the satisfaction I learnt to have a thick skin v quickly on here. Some still get thru that thick skin but only if I having a bad day anyway now if I having a day of messages from tossers I hide profile to give myself some breathing space then come back on block n think fuk u ( or not gonna fuk u rather hehe)

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I have to say on reading the title of this thread I'm a little disappointed to find it's not a list of free prostitutes.

Block men that disrespect you, full stop. Unfortunately there are tiny minded twats in all walks of life.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Can I ask about the ladies who insist on the bloke playing for top hotels and champaign and stuff then?

There are a fair few of them as well so it's not just some blokes who are at fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do single guys inparticular think its ok to treat us single women like free prostitues?? "

I particularly love the guys who come into chat and say "when are you free?". Not even a "would you like to meet me?", just an assumption that if we're on this site, we must be desperate enough to shag anyone who offers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As in all walks of life there's men n women at fault but I see what the OP means as some days we drown in messages from men who want a piece of meat with no brain. A gal can b sexually active n experimental but still deserve to b treated right n I don't mean presents top hotels etc I mean consented activities n respect for any limits n wishes. Some males on here don't get the concept of consent n spoil it for the decent guys

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Respect and consideration should be shown by all swingers, be they singles or couples.

If they don't show it then block and forget it, save your energies for the good folk out there, and their are good folk out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree There are some fantastic guys n gals on here some in particular have restored my faith in b on this site n I sure not gonna let idiots stop me meeting the decent folk on here that's for sure.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i thought a free prostitute was a swinger

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By *sian_coupleukCouple
over a year ago

manchester

As a cpl we have come across many men who think the mrs is a piece of meat to be used. We are on here to have a good time, but with our rules, we don't appreciated single men implying she must be desperate for men to fuk her hence why on here. That is so not the case. U can tel with that kind of attitude if you met them they wud look to 'use' as a free prositute.

We do request hotels to b paid for by me. But that is coz we can't accommodate and they have more to gain whilst we all enjoy. If we paid for hotel we may as well have a good time ourselves alone...

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

i am a bit lost by how 'they have more to gain' are you assuming that all single men are so desperate they will do anything to have sex? Or maybe they would be so grateful to you for allowing them to play with you that any price is acceptable?

I feel you are making the assumption that all single guys are here for your amusement. Isn''t that in a similar vein to the op's point about some of the guys on this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i thought a free prostitute was a swinger

Lol ... I really did laugh... it never really offends me when get assumed that I'm available... as I do the same with guys mostly. Lol

It's when we want fun.... of course we like the guys to enjoy it too..

We get loads of stupid messages assuming that they can borrow me.

Katie..

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"As a cpl we have come across many men who think the mrs is a piece of meat to be used. We are on here to have a good time, but with our rules, we don't appreciated single men implying she must be desperate for men to fuk her hence why on here. That is so not the case. U can tel with that kind of attitude if you met them they wud look to 'use' as a free prositute.

We do request hotels to b paid for by me. But that is coz we can't accommodate and they have more to gain whilst we all enjoy. If we paid for hotel we may as well have a good time ourselves alone..."

"Paid for by me" and then you say "If we paid for hotel...."

Who pays for it? I am confused!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No time for disrespect from anyone towards girls or guys and that includes splitting any hotel bills down the middle.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

in this game... you get back what you give out..

if you have a profile that is anyway offensive, it will only attract people who are out for a reaction.

and if I am honest: do you really need to tell a particualr group of guys on here to fuck off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do request hotels to b paid for by me. But that is coz we can't accommodate and they have more to gain whilst we all enjoy. If we paid for hotel we may as well have a good time ourselves alone...

"Paid for by me" and then you say "If we paid for hotel...."

Who pays for it? I am confused! "

I am guessing the "me" should have been "men" so in other words, if you want to fuck my woman, you pay for a hotel room. hmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do request hotels to b paid for by me. But that is coz we can't accommodate and they have more to gain whilst we all enjoy. If we paid for hotel we may as well have a good time ourselves alone...

"Paid for by me" and then you say "If we paid for hotel...."

Who pays for it? I am confused!

I am guessing the "me" should have been "men" so in other words, if you want to fuck my woman, you pay for a hotel room. hmmm"

so lets det this straight the single guy p[ays cause he gains more...please explain i thought everyone was there for fun

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

We do request hotels to b paid for by me. But that is coz we can't accommodate and they have more to gain whilst we all enjoy. If we paid for hotel we may as well have a good time ourselves alone...

"Paid for by me" and then you say "If we paid for hotel...."

Who pays for it? I am confused!

I am guessing the "me" should have been "men" so in other words, if you want to fuck my woman, you pay for a hotel room. hmmm

so lets det this straight the single guy p[ays cause he gains more...please explain i thought everyone was there for fun "

i assumed he meant me,than read again,no wonder some single men complain.Every person playing should gain exactly the same,fab sex.

If the OP gives the impression the wife is some holy grail men should be willing to pay for, unless is no wonder men treat her that way.

Paying for the room=paying for sex in my book.

50/50 split unless one party wants to keep the room.

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By *ddiddyMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

well to be honest when we meet we pay for our own room and be it single men single women couples or whoever they pay for their own room then if nothing happens if they dont turn up or they dont like us we dont like them at least no one owes anyone anything and we can go and have a night away anyway on our own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I don't hold with anyone being disrespected, especially as we're all her for the same thing, some user names and profiles leave people open to abuse.

If I'm contacted by someone called bigknob69 it's an instant delete and a shudder: not for me, but I wouldn't be offensive! If the profile says NO FAT FUCKERS I'd block but others might take offense and respond.

You can argue you can call yourself what you like and have whatever you want on your profile: of course, but then drop the wide eyed innocent surprise if a "simple" man responds in kind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do single guys inparticular think its ok to treat us single women like free prostitues?? "

You need to reassess your selection process

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think its because some women let them. I had a message from a guy asking if he could book an appointment. Lots of are you free tonight, even today i had one that just said "free now" now either this approach has worked for them in the past or they are going to learn pretty damn quick that if they want a meet they got to change their attitude. I ignore them and block, they can go use their charms elsewhere

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Can I ask about the ladies who insist on the bloke playing for top hotels and champaign and stuff then?

There are a fair few of them as well so it's not just some blokes who are at fault."

LOL!! I can quite honestly say that no man has ever bought me more than a cursory pint at a meet, let alone champagne and 'stuff'. Obviously I am selling myself short!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Can I ask about the ladies who insist on the bloke playing for top hotels and champaign and stuff then?

There are a fair few of them as well so it's not just some blokes who are at fault.

LOL!! I can quite honestly say that no man has ever bought me more than a cursory pint at a meet, let alone champagne and 'stuff'. Obviously I am selling myself short!"

I could stretch to a bottle of wine, but it would have to be under a tenner.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Can I ask about the ladies who insist on the bloke playing for top hotels and champaign and stuff then?

There are a fair few of them as well so it's not just some blokes who are at fault."

Well if some bloke is stupid enough to coff up its his own fault. This is a swingers site, any woman that demands all that unless they are prepared to go halves isnt a swinger

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Can I ask about the ladies who insist on the bloke playing for top hotels and champaign and stuff then?

There are a fair few of them as well so it's not just some blokes who are at fault.

Well if some bloke is stupid enough to coff up its his own fault. This is a swingers site, any woman that demands all that unless they are prepared to go halves isnt a swinger"

Well aid diamond,if you are that desperate for a shag,book a sex worker,at least she will turn up!

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By *ausage and sizzleCouple
over a year ago

Barnstaple

How can you be free and a prostitute????

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Can I ask about the ladies who insist on the bloke playing for top hotels and champaign and stuff then?

There are a fair few of them as well so it's not just some blokes who are at fault.

LOL!! I can quite honestly say that no man has ever bought me more than a cursory pint at a meet, let alone champagne and 'stuff'. Obviously I am selling myself short!

I could stretch to a bottle of wine, but it would have to be under a tenner.

Be still my beating heart! *swoon*

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

All ive ever excepted of guys is flowers and wine. I would expect nothing more. I have over the years had lots of guys wanting to buy me stuff and i refused on every occasion. Im not going to be beholden to anyone.

By guys i mean guys for sex not guys ive been in relationships with

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

He he. Not sure its a good title to be posting under. May give the wrong idea....

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"Can I ask about the ladies who insist on the bloke playing for top hotels and champaign and stuff then?

There are a fair few of them as well so it's not just some blokes who are at fault.

Well if some bloke is stupid enough to coff up its his own fault. This is a swingers site, any woman that demands all that unless they are prepared to go halves isnt a swinger

Well aid diamond,if you are that desperate for a shag,book a sex worker,at least she will turn up!

I know a girl that insist on the ritz.. and after the 3rd meet then maybe the guy will be lucky enough to have earned the right to go down on her.. only after which on the 4th meet she might go down on him if she likes him... and yes.. the ritz for the meets leading up to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could stretch to a bottle of wine, but it would have to be under a tenner.

3 for £12 at tescos... I like a nice rose for reference lol..

Katie.x

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"I think its because some women let them. I had a message from a guy asking if he could book an appointment. Lots of are you free tonight, even today i had one that just said "free now" now either this approach has worked for them in the past or they are going to learn pretty damn quick that if they want a meet they got to change their attitude. I ignore them and block, they can go use their charms elsewhere"

Lol that was brilliant. Can I book an appointment lol. That is the best laugh I have had in days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I ask about the ladies who insist on the bloke playing for top hotels and champaign and stuff then?

There are a fair few of them as well so it's not just some blokes who are at fault.

LOL!! I can quite honestly say that no man has ever bought me more than a cursory pint at a meet, let alone champagne and 'stuff'. Obviously I am selling myself short!

I could stretch to a bottle of wine, but it would have to be under a tenner.

3 for a tenner at ASDA Vicciboi

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Can I ask about the ladies who insist on the bloke playing for top hotels and champaign and stuff then?

There are a fair few of them as well so it's not just some blokes who are at fault.

LOL!! I can quite honestly say that no man has ever bought me more than a cursory pint at a meet, let alone champagne and 'stuff'. Obviously I am selling myself short!

I could stretch to a bottle of wine, but it would have to be under a tenner.

3 for a tenner at ASDA Vicciboi

Shite. Me and my big mouth. I'd better get a crate in

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Shite. Me and my big mouth. I'd better get a crate in

I like shiraz!

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Can I ask about the ladies who insist on the bloke playing for top hotels and champaign and stuff then?

There are a fair few of them as well so it's not just some blokes who are at fault.

Well if some bloke is stupid enough to coff up its his own fault. This is a swingers site, any woman that demands all that unless they are prepared to go halves isnt a swinger

Well aid diamond,if you are that desperate for a shag,book a sex worker,at least she will turn up!

Anybody that puts up with that from her is an idiot.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Shite. Me and my big mouth. I'd better get a crate in

I like shiraz!

Shiraz and Rosé, any other requests whilst I'm at it?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Shite. Me and my big mouth. I'd better get a crate in

I like shiraz!

Shiraz and Rosé, any other requests whilst I'm at it?

Served naked!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I ask about the ladies who insist on the bloke playing for top hotels and champaign and stuff then?

There are a fair few of them as well so it's not just some blokes who are at fault.

Well if some bloke is stupid enough to coff up its his own fault. This is a swingers site, any woman that demands all that unless they are prepared to go halves isnt a swinger

Well aid diamond,if you are that desperate for a shag,book a sex worker,at least she will turn up!

Anybody that puts up with that from her is an idiot. "

BARGAIN!!!! 4 boxes of Ritz for a blowjob can't be bad...........unless you get the crumbs down your foreskin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do request hotels to b paid for by me. But that is coz we can't accommodate and they have more to gain whilst we all enjoy. If we paid for hotel we may as well have a good time ourselves alone..."

"They have more to gain"?? How if you are all there having fun.

"If we paid for the hotel we may as well have a good time ourselves alone." How's that? You either want someone to join you or not.

Why should they pay for the hotel room to make it worthwhile for you?

Whisper it but this respect thing can even apply to single guys aswell.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"I could stretch to a bottle of wine, but it would have to be under a tenner.

3 for £12 at tescos... I like a nice rose for reference lol..

Katie.x "

makes notes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shite. Me and my big mouth. I'd better get a crate in

I like shiraz!

Shiraz and Rosé, any other requests whilst I'm at it?

Rioja, served at room temperature: you may need to store it internally before serving. I'll take the cork out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do single guys inparticular think its ok to treat us single women like free prostitues??

So when are ya free lol

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"why do single guys inparticular think its ok to treat us single women like free prostitues?? "

Don't let them. Make them treat you with the respect and dignity you deserve. If you think somebody is not interested in you as a person and just wants a fuck bin them off.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Shite. Me and my big mouth. I'd better get a crate in

I like shiraz!

Shiraz and Rosé, any other requests whilst I'm at it?

Rioja, served at room temperature: you may need to store it internally before serving. I'll take the cork out!

I'm never drinking again!!!!!!!!

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By *ausage and sizzleCouple
over a year ago

Barnstaple

Tbh, from a blokes point of _iew, my mother always brought me up to treat a lady like a lady even if she was a prostitute, with manners.

But there are arseholes in every walk of life. Having said that, it's not our experience of single guys in this scene, who on the whole are some of the most polite and considerate people we've met (maybe they think they have to be lol). Sometimes they have better manners than the male partners of couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am just going too reiterate what others have said unfortunately there will always assholes especially on a site like this......

Advice is not too take it personally and just ignore them I am sure you have met some nice guys that restore your faith otherwise you would not still be on here xx

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

"why do single guys inparticular think its ok to treat us single women like free prostitues?? "

It has happened to me as well honey, I just say it's not like ordering a pizza and give them an escorts number, hugz, xxx

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"How can you be free and a prostitute????

Do they not do special promotions?

I'm sure a bogof offer would go down well with customers.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Do they do them in Happy Meals now then?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Do they do them in Happy Meals now then?

I've just come back from lunch at McDonalds.

...looks like I'll be using KFC for a while now.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Do they do them in Happy Meals now then?

I've just come back from lunch at McDonalds.

...looks like I'll be using KFC for a while now.

Boneless banquet?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Do they do them in Happy Meals now then?

I've just come back from lunch at McDonalds.

...looks like I'll be using KFC for a while now.

Boneless banquet?"

Yup. No breast either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i understand what the op means but what about the ladies that go for the auto response of what am i getting for it as i have had a few occassions where i truly thought they were working ladies

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"Tbh, from a blokes point of _iew, my mother always brought me up to treat a lady like a lady even if she was a prostitute, with manners.

I agree. Classy men have manners no matter what the person or situation. Good manners should not be dependent on anything. X

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