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"What are you two gawjus ladies doing up this early hmm what's keeping you awake? Lol" Cringe | |||
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"Are you asking for advice on your profile, your approach, where to meet people? I'm sure people will be happy to advise if you're clear; however forum rules prevent us from giving spontaneous advice if it is not specifically asked for. " You can critique someone's profile without it being asked for it it's relevent to the thread. The rule states... No nit-picking please Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere. | |||
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"Are you asking for advice on your profile, your approach, where to meet people? I'm sure people will be happy to advise if you're clear; however forum rules prevent us from giving spontaneous advice if it is not specifically asked for. " He did ask for help. What the rule is there for is when someone starts a thread about their favourite TV series and people reply with - your profile is shit and your photos are hideous. | |||
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"Are you asking for advice on your profile, your approach, where to meet people? I'm sure people will be happy to advise if you're clear; however forum rules prevent us from giving spontaneous advice if it is not specifically asked for. " That is right, the rules say that only the op can ask if he want advice on the profile. Patience is the key lol. | |||
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"I don't mean to sound mean but your verification is from a man and it says on your profile your straight so maybe that could be an issue? " yes,bit confusing! | |||
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"I don't mean to sound mean but your verification is from a man and it says on your profile your straight so maybe that could be an issue? yes,bit confusing!" You have heard of 'Fab Straight'? | |||
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"With 60 messages a minute they must be receiving how can i beat my competitors? Lol" There are 3 things guaranteed to make a woman meet you. Pictures. Words. Personality. Which combination of the 3 is different for every woman. | |||
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"I don't mean to sound mean but your verification is from a man and it says on your profile your straight so maybe that could be an issue? " Agree....a straight guy who can't accomodate with a verification from a gay guy...and virtually no profile...in the scheme of things there will be less confusing profiles out there so take a look at some of the more succesful guys profiles for a few tips...good luck. | |||
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" He did ask for help. What the rule is there for is when someone starts a thread about their favourite TV series and people reply with - your profile is shit and your photos are hideous." Ha ha love it 
I must admit I do find it hard work with the ladies, it requires a bit of trial and error to succeed in getting a response. Of course this differs from person to person so you have to try and make the right judgement about how to approach her based what she is saying in her profile. So a very good starting point is always read the profile. A woman that has taken the time to write a fair sized and detailed profile will almost guaranteed expect you to read it and they will detect the failure in doing so and its an instant 'delete'  . I just try and be as honest and true to myself as i can, avoiding the cheesy comments and boring 'same old' messages that they receieve day in, day out. If you wanna get yours noticed be original, stand out from the rest and put some effort into your own profile. That does not mean it has to be an essay, but using your profile as an example. Your title to me I would assume would be an instant turn off 'Tag Team' WTF - the women on here might be highly sexed, with the wildest fantasies and fetishes, or even the desire to fuck 10 guys in one night - but they are still human, they are not pieces of meat and deserve a bit of respect. I think your title comes across as childish, lazy and probably quite rude. (anyone beg to differ??) Then we move onto your profile itself 'up for anything' again is just lazy, gives no insight into the person you are and is just bland an detramental to say the least. Another put off I would suggest (I may be wrong, after all i am not a woman!) is the fact that you say you are straight yet you show a verification from a guy - which means you are at the very least bi-curious. Combine this with the other 2 points i've made and i think its fair to say that its obvious why you are not receiving any responses. No offence but your not exceptionally good looking enough, nor revealing enough with the profile picture that melts a woman at the very sight of you, in which case you might get away with the profile based on your looks, at a stretch - so i would say that in order to even remotely draw the attention you are expecting you need to scrap your profile, start a fresh with a slightly more ambitious approach and get rid of any preconceptions you have that women are just there to be fucked by you regardless of personality, connection, chemistry etc......
It's amazing how easy it is to give advice, when the truth is I dont get half as much attention as what i'd like to.....be okay if i was gay with the amount i get from guys...I wish the ladies would drool over my cock as much as they do LOL 
Good luck with it anyway fella - you clearly need it (no offence) | |||
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" ... It's amazing how easy it is to give advice, when the truth is I dont get half as much attention as what i'd like to..... ... " You got my attention  | |||
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" He did ask for help. What the rule is there for is when someone starts a thread about their favourite TV series and people reply with - your profile is shit and your photos are hideous. Ha ha love it
I must admit I do find it hard work with the ladies, it requires a bit of trial and error to succeed in getting a response. Of course this differs from person to person so you have to try and make the right judgement about how to approach her based what she is saying in her profile. So a very good starting point is always read the profile. A woman that has taken the time to write a fair sized and detailed profile will almost guaranteed expect you to read it and they will detect the failure in doing so and its an instant 'delete' . I just try and be as honest and true to myself as i can, avoiding the cheesy comments and boring 'same old' messages that they receieve day in, day out. If you wanna get yours noticed be original, stand out from the rest and put some effort into your own profile. That does not mean it has to be an essay, but using your profile as an example. Your title to me I would assume would be an instant turn off 'Tag Team' WTF - the women on here might be highly sexed, with the wildest fantasies and fetishes, or even the desire to fuck 10 guys in one night - but they are still human, they are not pieces of meat and deserve a bit of respect. I think your title comes across as childish, lazy and probably quite rude. (anyone beg to differ??) Then we move onto your profile itself 'up for anything' again is just lazy, gives no insight into the person you are and is just bland an detramental to say the least. Another put off I would suggest (I may be wrong, after all i am not a woman!) is the fact that you say you are straight yet you show a verification from a guy - which means you are at the very least bi-curious. Combine this with the other 2 points i've made and i think its fair to say that its obvious why you are not receiving any responses. No offence but your not exceptionally good looking enough, nor revealing enough with the profile picture that melts a woman at the very sight of you, in which case you might get away with the profile based on your looks, at a stretch - so i would say that in order to even remotely draw the attention you are expecting you need to scrap your profile, start a fresh with a slightly more ambitious approach and get rid of any preconceptions you have that women are just there to be fucked by you regardless of personality, connection, chemistry etc......
It's amazing how easy it is to give advice, when the truth is I dont get half as much attention as what i'd like to.....be okay if i was gay with the amount i get from guys...I wish the ladies would drool over my cock as much as they do LOL
Good luck with it anyway fella - you clearly need it (no offence) "Spot on there mukka !!! 
One piece of advice I'd give too, is if your a bit daft and silly try and tone it down and don't show it too much in the first message or your profile!! Even thou most ladies and couple want the fun guy and have a laugh, they also need to know your serious and just not pudding about too much!!! I always make that mistake!!!
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"Actually no I haven't I didn't mean to offend in any way x"  no offence.
Many guys say they are straight on here but like a bit of cock, thinking they won't get meets if they put bi. Not realising that it makes them look foolish or a liar when they are verified by a bloke saying he gives great BJs.
So Fab Straight
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" You got my attention "Haha thanks!!
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"Actually no I haven't I didn't mean to offend in any way x no offence.
Many guys say they are straight on here but like a bit of cock, thinking they won't get meets if they put bi. Not realising that it makes them look foolish or a liar when they are verified by a bloke saying he gives great BJs.
So Fab Straight
"Too true, I can vouch for that its actually shocking how many blokes contact me with graphic details about what they would do with my cock (ewww) who claim to be straight or married but bi-curious etc....just one of the many reasons that a woman could be turned off. Remember women smell a rat / liar a mile off...if you feel the need to bullshit your way to a potential meet at least have a brain and NEVER underestimate the intuition of the female species LOL - right ladies??   | |||
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"Are you asking for advice on your profile, your approach, where to meet people? I'm sure people will be happy to advise if you're clear; however forum rules prevent us from giving spontaneous advice if it is not specifically asked for. " He is asking how to get a meet so advice is fine. No nit-picking please Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere. | |||
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"With 60 messages a minute they must be receiving how can i beat my competitors? Lol" You have no pictures and no profile text, if you mailed me and I looked at your profile what's on there to get my attention and spark my interest? Go have a look at your own profile and ask yourself would you mail somebody with a profile with as little information as that? Plus you are verified by a guy even though you state your straight, believe me that will put lots of women off replying to you | |||
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" He did ask for help. What the rule is there for is when someone starts a thread about their favourite TV series and people reply with - your profile is shit and your photos are hideous. Ha ha love it
I must admit I do find it hard work with the ladies, it requires a bit of trial and error to succeed in getting a response. Of course this differs from person to person so you have to try and make the right judgement about how to approach her based what she is saying in her profile. So a very good starting point is always read the profile. A woman that has taken the time to write a fair sized and detailed profile will almost guaranteed expect you to read it and they will detect the failure in doing so and its an instant 'delete' . I just try and be as honest and true to myself as i can, avoiding the cheesy comments and boring 'same old' messages that they receieve day in, day out. If you wanna get yours noticed be original, stand out from the rest and put some effort into your own profile. That does not mean it has to be an essay, but using your profile as an example. Your title to me I would assume would be an instant turn off 'Tag Team' WTF - the women on here might be highly sexed, with the wildest fantasies and fetishes, or even the desire to fuck 10 guys in one night - but they are still human, they are not pieces of meat and deserve a bit of respect. I think your title comes across as childish, lazy and probably quite rude. (anyone beg to differ??) Then we move onto your profile itself 'up for anything' again is just lazy, gives no insight into the person you are and is just bland an detramental to say the least. Another put off I would suggest (I may be wrong, after all i am not a woman!) is the fact that you say you are straight yet you show a verification from a guy - which means you are at the very least bi-curious. Combine this with the other 2 points i've made and i think its fair to say that its obvious why you are not receiving any responses. No offence but your not exceptionally good looking enough, nor revealing enough with the profile picture that melts a woman at the very sight of you, in which case you might get away with the profile based on your looks, at a stretch - so i would say that in order to even remotely draw the attention you are expecting you need to scrap your profile, start a fresh with a slightly more ambitious approach and get rid of any preconceptions you have that women are just there to be fucked by you regardless of personality, connection, chemistry etc......
It's amazing how easy it is to give advice, when the truth is I dont get half as much attention as what i'd like to.....be okay if i was gay with the amount i get from guys...I wish the ladies would drool over my cock as much as they do LOL
Good luck with it anyway fella - you clearly need it (no offence) " | |||
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"Change your profile name to "Lonely Millionaire". Set your age to 93. Include "generous" in your list of positive attributes. "Lonely founder of software empire seeks lady to spoil in lieu of having friends and family. Must be available to travel and enjoy jewelry ". Hint that you don't have long to live because of a heart condition. You will probably end up meeting my ex. "I want you in my team, man | |||
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"With 60 messages a minute they must be receiving how can i beat my competitors? Lol You have no pictures and no profile text, if you mailed me and I looked at your profile what's on there to get my attention and spark my interest? Go have a look at your own profile and ask yourself would you mail somebody with a profile with as little information as that? Plus you are verified by a guy even though you state your straight, believe me that will put lots of women off replying to you " Awh!, OP is a lucky man receiving such attention from you, sexy... | |||
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"With 60 messages a minute they must be receiving how can i beat my competitors? Lol" I wouldn't meet knowing that your only veri is from a gay guy. I'm curious as to what your definition of straight is. As I'm very puzzled as he wants to meet again as he had a great time. Did you play cards over a few beers? Lol | |||
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" He did ask for help. What the rule is there for is when someone starts a thread about their favourite TV series and people reply with - your profile is shit and your photos are hideous. Ha ha love it
I must admit I do find it hard work with the ladies, it requires a bit of trial and error to succeed in getting a response. Of course this differs from person to person so you have to try and make the right judgement about how to approach her based what she is saying in her profile. So a very good starting point is always read the profile. A woman that has taken the time to write a fair sized and detailed profile will almost guaranteed expect you to read it and they will detect the failure in doing so and its an instant 'delete' . I just try and be as honest and true to myself as i can, avoiding the cheesy comments and boring 'same old' messages that they receieve day in, day out. If you wanna get yours noticed be original, stand out from the rest and put some effort into your own profile. That does not mean it has to be an essay, but using your profile as an example. Your title to me I would assume would be an instant turn off 'Tag Team' WTF - the women on here might be highly sexed, with the wildest fantasies and fetishes, or even the desire to fuck 10 guys in one night - but they are still human, they are not pieces of meat and deserve a bit of respect. I think your title comes across as childish, lazy and probably quite rude. (anyone beg to differ??) Then we move onto your profile itself 'up for anything' again is just lazy, gives no insight into the person you are and is just bland an detramental to say the least. Another put off I would suggest (I may be wrong, after all i am not a woman!) is the fact that you say you are straight yet you show a verification from a guy - which means you are at the very least bi-curious. Combine this with the other 2 points i've made and i think its fair to say that its obvious why you are not receiving any responses. No offence but your not exceptionally good looking enough, nor revealing enough with the profile picture that melts a woman at the very sight of you, in which case you might get away with the profile based on your looks, at a stretch - so i would say that in order to even remotely draw the attention you are expecting you need to scrap your profile, start a fresh with a slightly more ambitious approach and get rid of any preconceptions you have that women are just there to be fucked by you regardless of personality, connection, chemistry etc......
It's amazing how easy it is to give advice, when the truth is I dont get half as much attention as what i'd like to.....be okay if i was gay with the amount i get from guys...I wish the ladies would drool over my cock as much as they do LOL
Good luck with it anyway fella - you clearly need it (no offence) " | |||
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" I wouldn't meet knowing that your only veri is from a gay guy. I'm curious as to what your definition of straight is. As I'm very puzzled as he wants to meet again as he had a great time. Did you play cards over a few beers? Lol " LOL | |||
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