FabSwingers.com forum: Honesty the best policy lads!

By *onny Bones OP Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

Hi all. I have been here a while and enjoyed my time. I've met and spoken to some 'fab' people. I often hear guys complaining about the amount of effort they have to put into getting a response. Then there are other guys who offer, at times, sound advice. The 'keep yer chin up' type of advice.

I would like to know how many men get lots of replies to advances. Are there those that sit back and get loads of attention?

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

"Hi all. I have been here a while and enjoyed my time. I've met and spoken to some 'fab' people. I often hear guys complaining about the amount of effort they have to put into getting a response. Then there are other guys who offer, at times, sound advice. The 'keep yer chin up' type of advice.

I would like to know how many men get lots of replies to advances. Are there those that sit back and get loads of attention?

Well if there are I'm not one of them but not much we can do about it that's just the situation. I reckon I get replies to about 5% of the stuff I send out but that is improving as I get to know a few folk and I am tending to send stuff to them.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I get very few replies to my 'cold call' messages, most of my success is from banter on the forums or social/club meets.

I rarely bother sending messages these days. I am a terrible winker though

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

A well written profile where clearly thought has gone into it , some decent pics (not cock pics) and a well written first message will more likely get a reply even if its no thankyou. we would never just ignore those things above but will happily ignore a cock pic with a message that says " are u up for it"

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

we dont "block" single men and indeed have played. but same rules apply as when u approached someone say in a pub. the succesful guys know that

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

weve met some really decent single guys at partys, clubs and on here . unfortunatley they all tell the same tale. the action of a minority makes others wary of them when they utter the immortal words "im a single guy" Its not fair really

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I would like to know how many men get lots of replies to advances. Are there those that sit back and get loads of attention?

well i sit back not one to do the chasing let other peeps do that could of had a few meets even though ive not been looking to meet up its hard when you have to turn peeps down

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

i send very few speculative messages.

I get very few replies.

I have a few friends i like to spend time with.

Which is exactly how i like it.

If i do send a first message it is usualy based on a forum post showing a similar sense of humour. I is an ugly feker so humour is important to me.

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

i send very few speculative messages.

I get very few replies.

I have a few friends i like to spend time with.

Which is exactly how i like it.

If i do send a first message it is usualy based on a forum post showing a similar sense of humour. I is an ugly feker so humour is important to me.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"I get very few replies to my 'cold call' messages, most of my success is from banter on the forums or social/club meets.

I rarely bother sending messages these days. I am a terrible wanker though

Corrected your typo there !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A well written profile where clearly thought has gone into it , some decent pics (not cock pics)"

decent pics yes plus a cock pic as well! I dont want a disappointing surprise on my (anyway rare time for) meets

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"i send very few speculative messages.

I get very few replies.

I have a few friends i like to spend time with.

Which is exactly how i like it.

If i do send a first message it is usualy based on a forum post showing a similar sense of humour. I is an ugly feker so humour is important to me.

Oh i here that it doesnt matter if your ugly with no personality or sense of humour as long as you have a big cock. Some just want the cock and are not bothered what its attached to. Personally i prefer someone with a good personality

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

never understand the argument of personality instead of looks. why not have both?

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I delete all the messages I get from men saying hi read your profile and like your pics,check out my profile and mail me back if you like me. I can tell from that that they havent read my profile so it gets deleted.

The ones that actually do read my profile I send them a reply back.

As most of them blanket emails in my experience about 90% of them then they get deleted.

If they have read my profile then I always mail them back even if it is a reply.

Fraid some people dont help themselves by not bothering to read the profile in the first place.

Be good to know what responce to initial mail that the succedful men do get too.

And no. A nice cock over personality is a deffinate. I am not just looking for a none existant fuck but some connection and that comes from a personality and not a cock.

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

if everybody wanted both i would never get any sex.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"if everybody wanted both i would never get any sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always reply to messages from single guys...........if

They have obviously read our profile

Actually sound interested and excited to be messaging us

Include what they enjoy, fantasies they would like to act out

Use some imagination

Dont send 5 word message then whine like crazy when we sent a 3 word response

We dont reply to silly, inane, sex drive urge/instinct messages fuel by his cock wanting some action.

We do try to be fair but I suppose like most couples get tired of "Hello how are you" messages.....We aint moaning, we dont mind, but most guys bring on their own downfall..............its up to them to interest us enough to want a meet. We like other couples owe single guys nothing, and at this point will add......our best games are always, thats always with a group of single guys. We couldnt have our game without them.........err thats the ones with a spark and a little imagination lol........

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"weve met some really decent single guys at partys, clubs and on here . unfortunatley they all tell the same tale. the action of a minority makes others wary of them when they utter the immortal words "im a single guy" Its not fair really

actually.... i use to believe all that above, but i don't anymore and I'll tell you the reason why....

an arse is an arse whether that be single guy or one half of a couple, and when was the last time you heard someone say "bloody couples ruined it for everyone!!!!".... rarely....

the nice ones will always stand out regardless...

they are the ones talking to people and not wondering round like lost sheep....

they are the ones having a giggle and not just hovering around play areas ready to pounce on anyone playing....

and word gets round that you are a "nice bloke" and that opens up other avenues

in the end all you can concentrate on is being the best "you" you can be... no point worrying about anyone else!

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