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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This one is for the ladies. I'm sure this has been asked before, but what is the best message and headline a guy can send you to get a response?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hello.

i'm a local billionaire and unfortunately i am nearing the end of my life an want to marry someone (no pre nups) and have sex for the rest of my life afterwards. i also have a thick penis.

hope to hear from you soon as i've not much time".

honestly? just be polite, if the person fancies you they will reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This one is for the ladies. I'm sure this has been asked before, but what is the best message and headline a guy can send you to get a response?"

I heard "suk ma cok" is the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a message entitled "free shoes" works

A woman cannot resist shoes, especially if they are free

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall

"The colour of your eyes perfectly complement the colour of my Ferrari..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'You complete slut' usually garners a response from me OP... My outrage overrides my ability to ignore... So that may work in you getting a response... But just not possibly the kindest reply ( any lurkers, that message is not to be used to get my attention )....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to bury my cock in your gash and ruin you.. well its a starting point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This one is for the ladies. I'm sure this has been asked before, but what is the best message and headline a guy can send you to get a response?"

I don't tend to respond to messages - however well written they may be - unless they're accompanied by a pic of someone I like the look of.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"wanna f**k?"

I get hundreds of those a week so it would seem that lot of guys pull with that one.

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

Like Mrs Robinson says attach a photo with a short message ( trying hard not to mention cock , shag , etc ) and if she's interested in you , then you might get a reply!

Simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find a message entitled "free shoes" works

A woman cannot resist shoes, especially if they are free "

That would lead to a block from me

I bloody hate shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like Mrs Robinson says attach a photo with a short message ( trying hard not to mention cock , shag , etc ) and if she's interested in you , then you might get a reply!

Simples!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read their profile for a start and see if you have any similar interests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The recipient is either interested or not. It's not the messages or profile we are rejecting, it's you. And it's not personal. We're all looking for different things, you're either it or not. Be yourself, be true and if you message someone who likes you then the content of the message isn't going to matter as much. Don't get me wrong, there are a few standard things which lots of people will tell you on here, but be yourself. It takes time but that's life, just because people join this site, doesn't mean they're guaranteed sex, you still have to do the work of meeting and seducing people. Good luck x

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"This one is for the ladies. I'm sure this has been asked before, but what is the best message and headline a guy can send you to get a response?"

Yep, one standard message should do it, after all, women are all exactly the same, want the same things, think and act exactly the same as each other and should be grateful for the validation they are given by men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read profile, make sure you fit their requirements. Speak about which parts of profile interest you and why.

Make sure your own profile has detail in it. Send pics. Be her type, don't boo hoo if you do all of this and she isn't interested, you are incompatible and need to find someone who is compatible.

Ruby x

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"... women ... should be grateful for the validation they are given by men."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This one is for the ladies. I'm sure this has been asked before, but what is the best message and headline a guy can send you to get a response?

Yep, one standard message should do it, after all, women are all exactly the same, want the same things, think and act exactly the same as each other and should be grateful for the validation they are given by men."

You see messages as validation????

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"This one is for the ladies. I'm sure this has been asked before, but what is the best message and headline a guy can send you to get a response?

Yep, one standard message should do it, after all, women are all exactly the same, want the same things, think and act exactly the same as each other and should be grateful for the validation they are given by men.

You see messages as validation????"

Good grief no! But the rest of my post you agree with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This one is for the ladies. I'm sure this has been asked before, but what is the best message and headline a guy can send you to get a response?

Yep, one standard message should do it, after all, women are all exactly the same, want the same things, think and act exactly the same as each other and should be grateful for the validation they are given by men.

You see messages as validation????

Good grief no! But the rest of my post you agree with?"

I'm a believer in being yourself and you'll attract what you are looking for. I don't believe that I should be grateful lol xx

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"This one is for the ladies. I'm sure this has been asked before, but what is the best message and headline a guy can send you to get a response?

Yep, one standard message should do it, after all, women are all exactly the same, want the same things, think and act exactly the same as each other and should be grateful for the validation they are given by men.

You see messages as validation????

Good grief no! But the rest of my post you agree with?

I'm a believer in being yourself and you'll attract what you are looking for. I don't believe that I should be grateful lol xx"

My post was a sacrcastic dig at the OP who obviously sees women exactly as I described.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This one is for the ladies. I'm sure this has been asked before, but what is the best message and headline a guy can send you to get a response?

Yep, one standard message should do it, after all, women are all exactly the same, want the same things, think and act exactly the same as each other and should be grateful for the validation they are given by men.

You see messages as validation????

Good grief no! But the rest of my post you agree with?

I'm a believer in being yourself and you'll attract what you are looking for. I don't believe that I should be grateful lol xx

My post was a sacrcastic dig at the OP who obviously sees women exactly as I described."

Ah, ok lol, forgive me it's early! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find a message entitled "free shoes" works

A woman cannot resist shoes, especially if they are free "

What shoes though? Some of us have standards you know

What Ruby5000 said, my pet peeve on my singles account is that men literally ignore everything that I am looking for. At least you have some good info on your profile OP, it gives an impression of who/how you may be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think if someone likes your pic they will respond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wannafuck always works for me

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10


"The recipient is either interested or not. It's not the messages or profile we are rejecting, it's you. And it's not personal. We're all looking for different things, you're either it or not. Be yourself, be true and if you message someone who likes you then the content of the message isn't going to matter as much. Don't get me wrong, there are a few standard things which lots of people will tell you on here, but be yourself. It takes time but that's life, just because people join this site, doesn't mean they're guaranteed sex, you still have to do the work of meeting and seducing people. Good luck x"

Still waiting to be seduced it's about time the women put some work in on here to risk rejection ect.. and maybe they will find the real genuine guys they are looking for, you might be surprised.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"The recipient is either interested or not. It's not the messages or profile we are rejecting, it's you. And it's not personal. We're all looking for different things, you're either it or not. Be yourself, be true and if you message someone who likes you then the content of the message isn't going to matter as much. Don't get me wrong, there are a few standard things which lots of people will tell you on here, but be yourself. It takes time but that's life, just because people join this site, doesn't mean they're guaranteed sex, you still have to do the work of meeting and seducing people. Good luck x

Still waiting to be seduced it's about time the women put some work in on here to risk rejection ect.. and maybe they will find the real genuine guys they are looking for, you might be surprised. "

lol, we do put the effort in... To fuck guys we want to fuck!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"The recipient is either interested or not. It's not the messages or profile we are rejecting, it's you. And it's not personal. We're all looking for different things, you're either it or not. Be yourself, be true and if you message someone who likes you then the content of the message isn't going to matter as much. Don't get me wrong, there are a few standard things which lots of people will tell you on here, but be yourself. It takes time but that's life, just because people join this site, doesn't mean they're guaranteed sex, you still have to do the work of meeting and seducing people. Good luck x

Still waiting to be seduced it's about time the women put some work in on here to risk rejection ect.. and maybe they will find the real genuine guys they are looking for, you might be surprised. "

So because you've not been seduced, women don't seduce?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the profile properly, don't bitch about how long it is and don't send a dick pic. Humour sometimes works but politeness works all the time. Take 'no' for an answer, however it is worded and don't pester.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Read the profile, show respect at all times, pick something from the profile that you like, doesn't have to be an essay, if you can inject some humour then all the better, but most of all make sure you match what they are looking for

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I sometimes say "no, thank you" to messages from some ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The recipient is either interested or not. It's not the messages or profile we are rejecting, it's you. And it's not personal. We're all looking for different things, you're either it or not. Be yourself, be true and if you message someone who likes you then the content of the message isn't going to matter as much. Don't get me wrong, there are a few standard things which lots of people will tell you on here, but be yourself. It takes time but that's life, just because people join this site, doesn't mean they're guaranteed sex, you still have to do the work of meeting and seducing people. Good luck x

Still waiting to be seduced it's about time the women put some work in on here to risk rejection ect.. and maybe they will find the real genuine guys they are looking for, you might be surprised. "

I think most women on here put a lot of effort in! Just because they're not seducing you doesn't mean we aren't seducing on a whole!

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

Not 'I wanna impregnate you' which ive just received

I like something chatty and cheeky, which shows some personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read earlier that "sex?" Usually does the trick

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


""hello.

i'm a local billionaire and unfortunately i am nearing the end of my life an want to marry someone (no pre nups) and have sex for the rest of my life afterwards. i also have a thick penis.

hope to hear from you soon as i've not much time".

honestly? just be polite, if the person fancies you they will reply."

Ha ha love this reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""hello.

i'm a local billionaire and unfortunately i am nearing the end of my life an want to marry someone (no pre nups) and have sex for the rest of my life afterwards. i also have a thick penis.

hope to hear from you soon as i've not much time".

honestly? just be polite, if the person fancies you they will reply.

Ha ha love this reply! "

someone sent it me too, made me laugh so much.

sadly i've lost his conversation as he sent it at a time when i was sorting my social out, and i'm going for a kip now. but will have to catch up later.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I've not read your profile but your tits are nice. Fancy a fuck?

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By *eviousLiasonsCouple
over a year ago

Travelling

One of the most popular messages amongst single guys trying to meet couples is

"I know you are not looking for single guys but....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wana get jiggy wiv me init.

We play hide d sausage now I like your pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter what the opening message says, it's articulation and intonation and a lack of text speak that pricks our interest

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish


"'You complete slut' usually garners a response from me OP... My outrage overrides my ability to ignore... So that may work in you getting a response... But just not possibly the kindest reply ( any lurkers, that message is not to be used to get my attention )...."
hi just looked at your profile (again)such elegant natural beauty.sorry I've said that on here.

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