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By *rueromance OP   Man
over a year ago

bearsden

We're kinda new here...anyway we've had quite a few people message for a bit then asking for face pics only when we go to reply they've deleted their profile after we've sent them?

Is this common because im getting paranoid..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi its getting more common and your pics are fine.keep going xx

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By *rueromance OP   Man
over a year ago

bearsden

I just wonder why they ask for face pics then delete their profile... Im not sending anymore to people who aren't verified,think we've just been nieve

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We're kinda new here...anyway we've had quite a few people message for a bit then asking for face pics only when we go to reply they've deleted their profile after we've sent them?

Is this common because im getting paranoid.."

If you're concerned it might be an idea to save sending a face picture until you know you're going to meet. That's what we do. . Also only ever have face pictures that you wouldn't mind your mother seeing i.e. clothed and use the facility to delete the picture after the message has been read. If you can't do that deleting it from your gallery will remove it their end too (you can always upload it again after).

Welcome by the way.

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By *rueromance OP   Man
over a year ago

bearsden

Not sending anymore unless their verified!

I'm waking up thinking we're going to be in some news article...paranoid i know but like i said new to all this,thanks for the advice will delete the face pictures we have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even verifieds can be pic collectors.. just saying

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By *rueromance OP   Man
over a year ago

bearsden

I really hope it's just paranoia getting the better of me but tonight was just strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really hope it's just paranoia getting the better of me but tonight was just strange.

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Most people wont chat without seeing a pic, you really just need to go with your gut instict if you think they are genuine or not, they couldve left for genuine reasons i wouldnt worry about it to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really hope it's just paranoia getting the better of me but tonight was just strange.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I really hope it's just paranoia getting the better of me but tonight was just strange.

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It probably is just paranoia.

It's happened to us before and as far as I know our mug shots aren't on Sky 24 hour news .

When we were new we sent a guy a picture of me (Mrs N ) that was provocative for want of a better word without obscuring my face. After several conversations we decided he wasn't for us and he turned really nasty. It was just idle threats but we learned a lesson.

People delete their account for loads of reasons and some accounts are deleted by admin. You'll be fine

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Are you sure they have deleted their profile not just blocked you?

Is their message still there with the user name or does it say UNLOS?

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By *rueromance OP   Man
over a year ago

bearsden

Yes says user no longer on site...does that mean they've deleted their profile?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes says user no longer on site...does that mean they've deleted their profile?"

Yes, I think it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We didn't send face pics following us being outed by someone from another site.

Fortunately said outing led to us being approached by a couple who organise our local party scene so something incredibly good came out of it.

That said,should we go back to meeting people from here we still wouldn't send, or ask for face pics.

Face time would come when we met for the social, unless of course they don't show for that, then you've ed out another photo collector / time waster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A just dont see the point in meeting someone ive never seen a pic of, total waste of my time if i dont find them attractive

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