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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Myself and my boyfriend joined fab to have fun with women. Im quite open to the idea of him playing alone etc. The thing is, we dont talk to many people on here so i keep suggesting we go to socials but hes not interested.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Is he happy for you to go in your own? Or he could go with you and be a miserable sod in the corner not talking to anyone and snarling if anyone comes near.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im not allowed to go alone.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If he's not interested and you aren't allowed I'm not sure how we can help. Why doesn't he want to go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does he want to approach it then?

Does he try and find women on here or is he not interested in that either?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a reason why he's not interested? Unsure of the social / club scene or point blank disinterested in going ?

Kinky

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

He's probably got to invest differently and more into swinging, if he's going to help you both gain the pleasure that you're seeking. It sounds like he's just got one toe in the water just now, rather than being 100% in it.

Your profile photos could also perhaps feature more of him, so that women could better realise how much they find him attractive.

Getting out to clubs and socials is definitely an easier way to expand your circle fairly easily.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm not sure how much help we can be. Who brought the idea up about swinging and could he be worried about you being swept off by other men?

I think you need to have a good talk with him about both of your motovations for getting into this and what you both want out of it. Communication is the cornerstone to every couple on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone. Xx

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Thanks everyone. Xx"

You have had a few meets? Does he not join in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like your OK for him to have another woman, but he don't like the idea of you with another man?. Tricky one if that's way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry, just to make it clear, im not interested in men. Were only looking for women.

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By *nequeenslutWoman
over a year ago

rugeley


"Sorry, just to make it clear, im not interested in men. Were only looking for women. "

it sounds like your more into the idea of swinging than your boyfriend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Weve had a chat. Thanks for the help. Xx

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Hope you have sorted it out x

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