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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What kind of help? Have you read the FAQs?

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

luton

Head for a swinging club or social

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

" If you keep on doing the same old things.....

Then you will keep on getting the same old results"

Effort in = rewards out.

Simple!

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

I'm sure there is a Dundee social soon.

Get yourself to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Help"

99% of the time it is the profile and photos at fault.

What do you think of yours Steve.

Your best efforts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Help yourself first..

Change your user name

Get rid of the cock pics.. you have 3 too many..

Add a few more words to your sparsely written profile and sell sell sell!!!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Cannot accomodate - means married to me, also not alot of writing on the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can't actually comment on a profile unless asked to, but you might find a few tips by asking or viewing other posts asking for profile comments.

One of the most common things usually brought up when people ask for a profile critique is that they have too many dick picks. Apparently ladies don't find them the turn on men think they do.

This doesn't necessarily apply to your profile as you've not asking for an opinion on that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sure there is a Dundee social soon.

Get yourself to that. "
it's past I believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Help yourself first..

Change your user name

Get rid of the cock pics.. you have 3 too many..

Add a few more words to your sparsely written profile and sell sell sell!!! "
I agree ref the cock pics, very unappetizing and seriously a bad angle to take a pic of your cock if you really have to. I understand your username having lived in Scotland but so many women won't.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

When did the 'unable to comment on a profile unless asked to' rule come in?!

Saints above, it's bad enough being constantly asked for comments on a profile, when it's always the same advice (hide your cock pics, take photos of other parts of your body instead, throw a few jokes in, give us a sense of your personality, write more than a few lines, change your name to something that wouldn't make a pubescent bunch of lads giggle, etc., etc.)

Now we can't even offer it if we fancy it? Good lord, we are safe spacing here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When did the 'unable to comment on a profile unless asked to' rule come in?!

Saints above, it's bad enough being constantly asked for comments on a profile, when it's always the same advice (hide your cock pics, take photos of other parts of your body instead, throw a few jokes in, give us a sense of your personality, write more than a few lines, change your name to something that wouldn't make a pubescent bunch of lads giggle, etc., etc.)

Now we can't even offer it if we fancy it? Good lord, we are safe spacing here "

It's political correctness gone mad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When did the 'unable to comment on a profile unless asked to' rule come in?!

Saints above, it's bad enough being constantly asked for comments on a profile, when it's always the same advice (hide your cock pics, take photos of other parts of your body instead, throw a few jokes in, give us a sense of your personality, write more than a few lines, change your name to something that wouldn't make a pubescent bunch of lads giggle, etc., etc.)

Now we can't even offer it if we fancy it? Good lord, we are safe spacing here "

The rule has been there for a while. It is there to stop forum threads becoming personal.

The mods do however use commonsense when interpreting it and I am sure that a general "help, I can't get a meet" thread will be treated as a plea for profile advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'even known to worship the unshaven' has connotations of expectations that women should be shaven and thinking unshaven women are inferior.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said maybe try rejigging your profile and photos a bit and keep an eye out for socials.

I'm in the same boat not been able to meet anyone yet. Know it's difficult but try and have a bit of patience around it. From what I understand there's always far more single blokes on sites such as these ones clogging up peoples inboxes. Because of that you have to try and do something to really stand out. If you can't find any socials try regularly changing up the profile and always try to be original with your messages if you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always found moaning about it in forums helps loads

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Help"

Don't just rely on fab, plenty of women in the none swinging world want fun, don't be afraid to smile and say hi In all walks of life pubs clubs supermarkets car parks you just never know where it might lead

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