FabSwingers.com forum: Pooing during sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has this happened to any other females? Its now happened to me a few times over the past 6 weeks.

It only seems to be when Mr is making me squirt a lot, and things are really intense.

I think the fact I'm not even aware I'm doing it makes it worse.

Its only a little bit, so its not like I'm making loads of mess, but its still creeping me out a bit.

How am I meant to properly relax with anyone other than hubby incase it happens again

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I suspect its to do with all the muscles in that area completely relaxing. Would douching before put your mind at rest. However it might be an idea to speak to your gp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has this happened to any other females? Its now happened to me a few times over the past 6 weeks.

It only seems to be when Mr is making me squirt a lot, and things are really intense.

I think the fact I'm not even aware I'm doing it makes it worse.

Its only a little bit, so its not like I'm making loads of mess, but its still creeping me out a bit.

How am I meant to properly relax with anyone other than hubby incase it happens again

I too have experienced this a couple of times. I think it's only natural if the guy is going in very deep and the guys were all totally cool with it so I wouldn't worry. If he is a decent guy he wouldn't make a fuss. And anal douching can help and not eating for quite some time before. Hope this helps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try not to worry it does happen to other women. It's happened once or twice to myself. Once through been fisted and another while squirting. Hence why having a towel under you maybe a good idea. I always try to make out that they must be bloody good at what they do to make that happen lol.

For your piece of mind go see the doc to make sure there is no prolapse and then if you're still embarrassed try douching. Or maybe ask the OH how they feel because you'd be surprised howany men actually love it see it feeds their ego

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

*feel worse*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"*feel worse*"

I clearly knew thats what you were saying as I didn't even notice that feel was missing until i read this lol.

And thank you. Fortunately for me I have thick skin so childish comments like that don't faze me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't remember who it was but I remember some singer (I think) telling a story about needing to piss and holding it in on stage.

Then he tried to squeeze out a cheeky fart but turned out the same muscles he'd been using to keep his bladder in check were holding his fart back.

So when he let go he inadvertently pissed himself on stage.

So maybe they're connected ie. don't 'squirt' and you won't poo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happened to me once a long time ago and I dread it ever happening again.

Lucky for me the guy was great about it and joked at the time saying,Piss on me, shit on me, hurt me hurt me lol.

We both laughed so much when he came out with that I forgot my embarrassment.

Anyway,douche is good and,something solid to eat like boiled/poached eggs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone.

If it becomes a regular thing, then I'll go speak to a Dr. In the meantime I'll give some of the suggestions given a try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely GP. Don't worry though, probably just muscle spasm or something.

Look at the bright side, your partner is sooo good between the sheets, their doing things to your body that you thought wouldn't happen during sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are u pushing the fluid out when squirting. Or is it free flowing

As pushing stimulates all those muscles hence maybe why a little leakage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's some really crap advice on here.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Happened to me a couple of months ago, in a hotel, on the bedcovers, and I had no idea until after. One of the most humiliating experiences of my life and there isn't a chance in hell I'll be doing anal on a meet again just in case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes when I'm having a wee I want a poo! Is that related?

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

A warm enema before sex?

Works for me everytime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its my big dread been wanting to try Anal but after horror stories its put me off. My man is desperate to try any tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fart quite often when squirting, agree it must be the same muscles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happened to me a couple of months ago, in a hotel, on the bedcovers, and I had no idea until after. One of the most humiliating experiences of my life and there isn't a chance in hell I'll be doing anal on a meet again just in case. "

This happened to me on the fisting episode and I was staying there another night so had to make out I'd had an accident through the night. Came back to the hotel the following evening to find the windows wide open it was the middle if November

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone else been contact through PM by a random woman about this thread?

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By *irtywildsideMan
over a year ago

Barry

Depending on how you feel about any of it, I'd suggest not eating for a couple of hours before the fun start, douching with warm (not hot) water and even take an Imodium or something for an extra bit of peace of mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can happen when the squirting becomes intense; big muscle contractions push everything southwards, which is natural, so I would very much doubt that a trip to the gp is in order, unless of course, things happen when not squirting?? I douche prior to a meet and find it helps, though it is advisable to have a bit of a time gap between douching and meeting, (you work out why).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been with a girl having anal when a squirrel popped its head out to say hello.

I felt awful for her and tried to put her at ease about it. Unfortunately (and in fairness, I hope understandably) I lost my woody which didn't help her feel any better. Therefore I suggested we start all over again and took it from the top down. We even put some clothes back on and started from step one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit happens!

Happened to me with 3 different women, none of them had medical issues. It's just one of them things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I had my child I found i was squirting more frequently during sex, which was nice !! and I too came close to relaxing totally and like you became concerned, then I went to my gp who suggested doing pelvic floor exercises and it's not total fix but it gave me more control

You'll be fine xx

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By *aysmitMan
over a year ago

walsall

This hAppend to me last year I was having anal sex with a lady on a meet

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Thankful it's never happened to me but scared in case it does now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me about a month ago, having sex with this BBC guy he was huge every thrust was hurting then all of a sudden out it came. He kept going and said it's ok. How embarrassing but omg he was good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been with a girl having anal when a squirrel popped its head out to say hello.

This is strangely sweet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm glad to see (if glad is the right word) that it does seem to be a fairly common issue amongst us woman. And for you men who have helped aid the issue, at least you were chivalrous about it, so on behalf of us embarrased woman, thank you x

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By *aughtyinguMan
over a year ago

swindon

I think its the same muscles, and with anal a decent guy should understand its a risk of that activity

And if it happens some other way too.

And ive felt more lose back there during sex.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Does it happen more often to those who receive Anal sex a lot? All the muscles are relaxed, and if you've not had a dump just before said activities, then it's bound to just fall out.....

Maybe you just need some pelvic floor exercises?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always go to the loo prior to sex.

No exception

I also do a lot of running so make sure all is empty down below...everyday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it happen more often to those who receive Anal sex a lot? All the muscles are relaxed, and if you've not had a dump just before said activities, then it's bound to just fall out.....

Maybe you just need some pelvic floor exercises?"

No I wouldn't say I have anal a lot at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go see your GP faecal incontinance isn't normal at your age

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Go see your GP faecal incontinance isn't normal at your age "

That's not what she's suffering from and faecal incontinance isn't normal at any age!*

*apart from tiny humans, it's their default setting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do people feel the need to leave comments that are neither relevant or helpful? I don't suffer from incontinence, I've just had a few, slight may I add, incidents during sex.

Most of the advice makes sense, so thank you all.

But pointless comments says more about you than it does about me. Although at least you've got the guts to let everyone see it, not like the private messages that I've been sent

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Why do people feel the need to leave comments that are neither relevant or helpful? I don't suffer from incontinence, I've just had a few, slight may I add, incidents during sex.

Most of the advice makes sense, so thank you all.

But pointless comments says more about you than it does about me. Although at least you've got the guts to let everyone see it, not like the private messages that I've been sent

Reading whole threads would help some people too.

I hope the more sensible amongst us have reassured you somewhat and I applaud your strength that enabled you to start this thread.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

I've had the shit fucked out of my arse, literally.

And now and then if I'm coming hard I have farted, and it is mortifying, but it isn't a medical issue, it's muscles contracting uncontrollably. Add a constant thrusting and I can see why it is so easy and common, every time they pull out of you they're putting pressure on your bowel, the seperation between bowel and vagina is really small.

Some people here sound like a GP's nightmare, no wonder its so fucking hard to get an appointment!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do people feel the need to leave comments that are neither relevant or helpful? I don't suffer from incontinence, I've just had a few, slight may I add, incidents during sex.

Most of the advice makes sense, so thank you all.

But pointless comments says more about you than it does about me. Although at least you've got the guts to let everyone see it, not like the private messages that I've been sent

Reading whole threads would help some people too.

I hope the more sensible amongst us have reassured you somewhat and I applaud your strength that enabled you to start this thread.

Indeed you have.

And its reasuring to know that I'm not the only person thats experienced it either themselves or as the other party x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fairness advice from your GP is far better than any you'll get on here.

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By *unLuvazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

I dont think GPs have had as much sexual experience as most of us on fab. But checking with the GP that nothing medical is going on wouldn't hurt. Other wise I'd stick to the swingers suggestions lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont think GPs have had as much sexual experience as most of us on fab. But checking with the GP that nothing medical is going on wouldn't hurt. Other wise I'd stick to the swingers suggestions lol "

Because doctors don't swing or have much sex?

But everyone that contributes to this forum has loads of sex... of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because doctors don't swing or have much sex?

But everyone that contributes to this forum has loads of sex... of course

I love fucking doctors. Always kinky bastards.

And it's far easier than trying to get an appointment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because doctors don't swing or have much sex?

But everyone that contributes to this forum has loads of sex... of course

I love fucking doctors. Always kinky bastards.

And it's far easier than trying to get an appointment. "

Please could you check this wart first?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Because doctors don't swing or have much sex?

But everyone that contributes to this forum has loads of sex... of course

I love fucking doctors. Always kinky bastards.

And it's far easier than trying to get an appointment.

Please could you check this wart first?

Hahahahahahahaha

Now theres a thought.

Any fit Dr's on here? Not much choice in my surgery x

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

I've had that happen to me once in a club....I could feel it because the chap was so big and it was puking against my bowel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always said that if you're prepared to fuck someone in the arse, you have to accept that you may end up dealing with poop. And vice versa. It's natural, that's where poop comes from. We don't have ultimate control over our bodies no matter how many squats we do, there's no point in pretending otherwise. Especially when anal feels bloody great.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've always said that if you're prepared to fuck someone in the arse, you have to accept that you may end up dealing with poop. And vice versa. It's natural, that's where poop comes from. We don't have ultimate control over our bodies no matter how many squats we do, there's no point in pretending otherwise. Especially when anal feels bloody great."

I utterly agree with you but the OP wasn't talking about anal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah sorry. Still applies though OP, bodies sometimes do weird and embarrassing things when you push them to the heights of pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because doctors don't swing or have much sex?

But everyone that contributes to this forum has loads of sex... of course

I love fucking doctors. Always kinky bastards.

And it's far easier than trying to get an appointment.

Please could you check this wart first?

Hahahahahahahaha

Now theres a thought.

Any fit Dr's on here? Not much choice in my surgery x"

Fortunately I married a nurse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Because doctors don't swing or have much sex?

But everyone that contributes to this forum has loads of sex... of course

I love fucking doctors. Always kinky bastards.

And it's far easier than trying to get an appointment.

Please could you check this wart first?

Hahahahahahahaha

Now theres a thought.

Any fit Dr's on here? Not much choice in my surgery x

Fortunately I married a nurse

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