FabSwingers.com forum: Stalker

By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

Hi all ,,so it appears I have a stalker he has been copying and posting parts of my profile from here onto other sites ,he also informs me he sees me all the time

So I know he is a member of this site I know he is 42 however he doesn't come up at "people that viewed your profile" so I don't know who he is on here

Anyone know how I can find out ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I could be of help, but can only sympathise as on a previous profile I attracted a stalker of my own. Allegedly a woman, who wanted to meet me, catch me down the aisle in the shop and kiss or grope me. She told me my neighbours names though I'd not told her where I lived. She also told me where and when I shopped!

We left here for a while as it freaked me out a lot!

Good luck finding yours

Mrs niceanddirty

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By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

Wow thank God mine isn't that bad (yet)

Hope your finding it better this time around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes thank you, I haven't got my face pics public this time round. I'm sure there are people who recognise me from my previous profile, however I've set the messaging filters quite strictly too.

I hope someone will come along and be more helpful

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By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

That's good,i think I will have to change mine slot ,shame coz I like to talk to everyone,women , couples and men ,as I use this as more of a social thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide your profile.....

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Who's to say he/the stalker only has one profile...

I'm sure by the number of UNLOS that people do run multiple profiles / the number of profiles that follow patterns of when they are on and off the site.

Hope you manage to sort OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind stalking you

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

how do u know its a he and that hes's 42

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By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

Coz the forum I was on you only have to put you sex and age ( I realise the info may not be true but all I have to go on )

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By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

Feel free

As long as it's not in the same way as this person is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know he/she is not winding you up?

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By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

Coz they know where I live ,what I drive and their last message was " I see you all the time"

Plus the copy and past/screenshots of my profile ECT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Coz they know where I live ,what I drive and their last message was " I see you all the time"

Plus the copy and past/screenshots of my profile ECT "
spooky. X

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

They can opt out of showing on the who's looked at me page of the site. I do it, most forums users refer to it as stealth mode

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP if it's making you feel unsafe in any way involve the Police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you married/partner? Could they have heard youre on here and are playing games to Un nerve you? Just a thought. X

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Coz they know where I live ,what I drive and their last message was " I see you all the time"

Plus the copy and past/screenshots of my profile ECT "

Close this profile and open a new one with no personal information on it.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Are you married/partner? Could they have heard youre on here and are playing games to Un nerve you? Just a thought. X"

Or if he is attached it's the partner/wife fucking with him because they know he's on here as their own personal game playing revenge

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By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

"Are you married/partner? Could they have heard youre on here and are playing games to Un nerve you? Just a thought. X"

No ,no partner or anything like that not can I think of any reason someone would have a grudge towards me

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By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

"Coz they know where I live ,what I drive and their last message was " I see you all the time"

Plus the copy and past/screenshots of my profile ECT

Close this profile and open a new one with no personal information on it."

I'd loose all my verifications ,and as fun as it would be earning new ones it's just not worth it coz some sad git wants to play games

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you married/partner? Could they have heard youre on here and are playing games to Un nerve you? Just a thought. X

Or if he is attached it's the partner/wife fucking with him because they know he's on here as their own personal game playing revenge "
that's what I was suggesting .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you married/partner? Could they have heard youre on here and are playing games to Un nerve you? Just a thought. X

No ,no partner or anything like that not can I think of any reason someone would have a grudge towards me "
ex girlfriend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all ,,so it appears I have a stalker he has been copying and posting parts of my profile from here onto other sites ,he also informs me he sees me all the time

So I know he is a member of this site I know he is 42 however he doesn't come up at "people that viewed your profile" so I don't know who he is on here

Anyone know how I can find out ?"
if you know his age how come you don't know his name?

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By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

"Are you married/partner? Could they have heard youre on here and are playing games to Un nerve you? Just a thought. X

No ,no partner or anything like that not can I think of any reason someone would have a grudge towards me ex girlfriend?"

Possibly an ex but we ended on good terms

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By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

"Hi all ,,so it appears I have a stalker he has been copying and posting parts of my profile from here onto other sites ,he also informs me he sees me all the time

So I know he is a member of this site I know he is 42 however he doesn't come up at "people that viewed your profile" so I don't know who he is on here

Anyone know how I can find out ? if you know his age how come you don't know his name?"

It was on a game forum,any one can join ( don't need an account) just load up type your age ,a random user name and away you go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you married/partner? Could they have heard youre on here and are playing games to Un nerve you? Just a thought. X

No ,no partner or anything like that not can I think of any reason someone would have a grudge towards me ex girlfriend?

Possibly an ex but we ended on good terms

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some women can be very strange. Might be envious of you having fun.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Are you married/partner? Could they have heard youre on here and are playing games to Un nerve you? Just a thought. X

No ,no partner or anything like that not can I think of any reason someone would have a grudge towards me ex girlfriend?

Possibly an ex but we ended on good terms

Doesn't matter if she's not over you it could be her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all ,,so it appears I have a stalker he has been copying and posting parts of my profile from here onto other sites ,he also informs me he sees me all the time

So I know he is a member of this site I know he is 42 however he doesn't come up at "people that viewed your profile" so I don't know who he is on here

Anyone know how I can find out ? if you know his age how come you don't know his name?

It was on a game forum,any one can join ( don't need an account) just load up type your age ,a random user name and away you go "

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding

Its somebody close in your street...a neighbour or an ex no matter how good you parted delete profile create new ....new photos, leave out face pics ....good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't me James! Lol.

If you wanted to leave and rejoin on a new profile, I'll verify you again. We met on a social and I can still remember only nice things about you. You're a genuine nice person. I can't imagine why anyone would want to stalk you...unless it's a guy you turned down because I know you're totally straight. men can and do behave badly due to rejection so I know it happens.

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding

"Are you married/partner? Could they have heard youre on here and are playing games to Un nerve you? Just a thought. X

No ,no partner or anything like that not can I think of any reason someone would have a grudge towards me ex girlfriend?

Possibly an ex but we ended on good terms

some women can be very strange. Might be envious of you having fun."

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding

"Are you married/partner? Could they have heard youre on here and are playing games to Un nerve you? Just a thought. X

No ,no partner or anything like that not can I think of any reason someone would have a grudge towards me ex girlfriend?

Possibly an ex but we ended on good terms

some women can be very strange. Might be envious of you having fun."
cracking bust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Write down the names of those who verified you. Set a new account up minus face pics and search for your friends and ask them to rent verify you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you married/partner? Could they have heard youre on here and are playing games to Un nerve you? Just a thought. X

No ,no partner or anything like that not can I think of any reason someone would have a grudge towards me ex girlfriend?

Possibly an ex but we ended on good terms

some women can be very strange. Might be envious of you having fun. cracking bust"
oh lol. Thank you x

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By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

"It isn't me James! Lol.

Lol if only it was you ,that I wouldn't mind lol

Thanks for the offer ,but not letting this sad idiot win ,I have nothing to hide ,worst that is going to happen is he'll approach me in the street and then we'll have words

Just don't understand why and what's the point lol

Thanks again x

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding

"It isn't me James! Lol.

Lol if only it was you ,that I wouldn't mind lol

Thanks for the offer ,but not letting this sad idiot win ,I have nothing to hide ,worst that is going to happen is he'll approach me in the street and then we'll have words

Just don't understand why and what's the point lol

Thanks again x"
its a power thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

block them on all the other sites. you could even use a plagerism* site and put this sites profile text into it to fnd ALL other places on the internet using some or all of your text.

block this person on all other sites they message you on or you find those profiles.

*however you spell that.

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By *oliath AwaitsMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

"Hi all ,,so it appears I have a stalker he has been copying and posting parts of my profile from here onto other sites ,he also informs me he sees me all the time

So I know he is a member of this site I know he is 42 however he doesn't come up at "people that viewed your profile" so I don't know who he is on here

Anyone know how I can find out ?"

Had one in the past there are some strange fuckers out there and its impossible to totally stop them as they can put up another profile. Best bet is put a 2nd profile and use that mainly and this one as a decoy.

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Hide your profile....."

Why should people have to hide profile cos of a Dick!! Has happened to me, same guy, different names, just tell them to Do One!!!

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By *ilfy85Woman
over a year ago

Beckwithshaw

Isn't posting details of people's profiles on here against revenge porn laws ?

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By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

"Hide your profile.....

Why should people have to hide profile cos of a Dick!! Has happened to me, same guy, different names, just tell them to Do One!!!"

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By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

Just want to thank everyone for their comments,was half expecting negative feedback( though go a few through pm ) I'll let you all know when I catch the bugger

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