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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So hard to arrange a meet?

We've been on the site for a few years and don't usually put a meet up as usually go to a club.

We've put a meet up a few times in last few weeks and literally had no response??

Any advice please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi we have the same problem, no success so far. How long have you been using the site and have you had any success at allx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you after couples or singles?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi we have the same problem, no success so far. How long have you been using the site and have you had any success at allx"

Hi - we've been on the site for about 5 years x don't usually put meets up but have tried with no success for a few weeks. Site is very quiet at the moment xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we are looking for a meet we update our status rather than create a meet - seems to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we are looking for a meet we update our status rather than create a meet - seems to work "

I doubt if that many people look at the meets page, iirc less than 1% of the members use the forums, best way would be just post on your status for meets, but repost it a few times a day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If we are looking for a meet we update our status rather than create a meet - seems to work

I doubt if that many people look at the meets page, iirc less than 1% of the members use the forums, best way would be just post on your status for meets, but repost it a few times a day"

Thanks for the advice. Had loads of people look at our profile since putting the meet up so it's not because people haven't seen our meet we're obviously just not for them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have experienced the same issues, last time stood up by a guy from here we'd arranged to meet one Friday evening.

We are part of a local private party scene, there's no pressure and if we want play there are plenty of opportunities.

It works for us, and because of the let downs we've had it's the reason we don't pay money to upgrade on this site.

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By *addysdadCouple
over a year ago

southern Cumbria

Shame you are a bit far from us,

we would meet you...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

More photos of him? Women will want to feel that they're attracted to him but will be less able to, unless they can see him, without resorting to messaging you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we are looking for a meet we update our status rather than create a meet - seems to work

I doubt if that many people look at the meets page, iirc less than 1% of the members use the forums, best way would be just post on your status for meets, but repost it a few times a day

Thanks for the advice. Had loads of people look at our profile since putting the meet up so it's not because people haven't seen our meet we're obviously just not for them x

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Not necessarily - different people would maybe see your status to the meets section . You could just be getting looky loos at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we are looking for a meet we update our status rather than create a meet - seems to work

I doubt if that many people look at the meets page, iirc less than 1% of the members use the forums, best way would be just post on your status for meets, but repost it a few times a day"

Yeah I think a status update works better than a meet notice....works in the single female world but you could try it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having the same problem his last few months. Fabs gone quiet on meet fronts we think. So bad we are now just sticking to clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a couple...you need more pics of him...n not just his genital area...I am always unsure why this happens with couples that wanna play with females n other couples and often assume it is another single guy or the wife is being lead by the husband...I dunno why..but is just the impression I get ... plus..it is rare that both parties are attractive to me which is unfortunate....but I won't persue to find out if it is barely obvious I like one of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very surprised at couples finding it difficult to be honest? This site is geared towards couples. I put on my profile I can meet couples yet 99% of my messages are from single men!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If we are looking for a meet we update our status rather than create a meet - seems to work

I doubt if that many people look at the meets page, iirc less than 1% of the members use the forums, best way would be just post on your status for meets, but repost it a few times a day

Thanks for the advice. Had loads of people look at our profile since putting the meet up so it's not because people haven't seen our meet we're obviously just not for them x

Not necessarily - different people would maybe see your status to the meets section . You could just be getting looky loos at the moment "

We've been on the site for about 5 years and only have an increase of people looking when we post a meet or new pics x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"More photos of him? Women will want to feel that they're attracted to him but will be less able to, unless they can see him, without resorting to messaging you. "

Thanks for the advice - we'll get the camera out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having the same problem his last few months. Fabs gone quiet on meet fronts we think. So bad we are now just sticking to clubs "

We have a club local to us and when we want some fun we usually go there. Don't often put meets up and the few times we have we've had no response. We're finding the site very quiet at the moment to x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are a couple...you need more pics of him...n not just his genital area...I am always unsure why this happens with couples that wanna play with females n other couples and often assume it is another single guy or the wife is being lead by the husband...I dunno why..but is just the impression I get ... plus..it is rare that both parties are attractive to me which is unfortunate....but I won't persue to find out if it is barely obvious I like one of them "

Thanks for the advice. Can see were your coming from. It's usually me (Grind) on here. Camera is usually in Bump's hand cause he likes to take pics but will defo get some more body pics on him on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"only have an increase of people looking when we post a meet or new pics x"

If the increase is when you post cock or pussy sex pics, i think thats probably the photo collectors looking, rather than swingers,

Photos like that tend to put me off messaging people with xxxx rated photos.

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By *ougar_n_TILFCouple
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

We've never had a single success with putting up a 'looking to meet' flag. Granted we've only been on 18 months, but still.

Get the impression that putting up Looking to Meet is kind of like a last resort, when all your friends are busy and you can't be arsed to pay to get into a club purely on the offchance you might find someone you like.

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