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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area

Hi all

Please can you have a look at my profile and tell me honestly what you think.

I am struggling to get meets, so observations appreciated.

Thanks.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think people might see you've labelled yourself as straight but have met a man but not shown his verification and think you're bi.

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"I think people might see you've labelled yourself as straight but have met a man but not shown his verification and think you're bi. "

A friend who introduced me to this site. And who has left the site. I just had a look and it says veris from people who left don't appear. Not much I can do.

Fair point, thanks for letting me know.

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By *ooty1Man
over a year ago

Costa Blanca

I think too many of your pictures are the same. It's great to see a full album but it's nice to see in different positions, locations, atierra ect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no personality in your profile.

it's good you've ut what you want and have experienced, it's just boring and reads like a list.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I think people might see you've labelled yourself as straight but have met a man but not shown his verification and think you're bi.

A friend who introduced me to this site. And who has left the site. I just had a look and it says veris from people who left don't appear. Not much I can do.

Fair point, thanks for letting me know."

Fair enough. Join in more on the forum, chatrooms, socials and meets section and clubs and selective messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pics are boring, a few of the same thing repeated

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Too many cock pics. You're not into pain but you like to spank. How does that work then? Have you invented a new method of spanking that doesn't hurt?

You can hide your verification summary if the veris from a mate is an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uninspiring pics and the text is a bit me me me me.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's quite negative and I think you could say all you do in a positive manner which is much more appealing

There's plenty to say at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

Please can you have a look at my profile and tell me honestly what you think.

I am struggling to get meets, so observations appreciated.

Thanks."

Bit crap really.

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"Hi all

Please can you have a look at my profile and tell me honestly what you think.

I am struggling to get meets, so observations appreciated.

Thanks.

Bit crap really."

Lovely. Anything constructive to say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

Please can you have a look at my profile and tell me honestly what you think.

I am struggling to get meets, so observations appreciated.

Thanks.

Bit crap really.

Lovely. Anything constructive to say? "

Not really. You could try being more attractive.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

How do you know that you have a kinky side if you've never tried it? It's a plain beige colored profile op put some personality into it, explain why should someone want to meet you?

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By *iolet2000Woman
over a year ago

Ormskirk

Looks fine to me

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

10/10 quickest way to deal with theres threads now, next

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Do a forum search for 'Profile Advice' read all the great advice that has gone before you.

Get rid of all the repeated pics and cock pics.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"Uninspiring pics and the text is a bit me me me me."

This

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Looks ok to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

Please can you have a look at my profile and tell me honestly what you think.

I am struggling to get meets, so observations appreciated.

Thanks."

Looks OK to me..maybe it's the content of your messages? You're not one of those that just sends cock pictures are you? Yawn

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

It is amazing the sort of pics some guys seem to think are suitable and attractive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

Please can you have a look at my profile and tell me honestly what you think.

I am struggling to get meets, so observations appreciated.

Thanks."

1/10

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Honestly completely confusing...you're not a Dom or an alpha, and you're not into pain, humiliation or watersports...but you're into kink.

I'm left wondering what precisely you are into.

Is it bondage? Or a bit of light slap and tickle as our grandparents would undoubtably say?

And the three clubs. Fetish? Swingers?

I don't know what your profile says about you. If you messaged me and I ninja'd onto your profile, I probably would leave your mail sat unread in my inbox. I don't get a sense of your personality, or what kind of time I'd have with you.

It would need a full rewrite to catch my attention.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

Don't say that you have a 'GSOH', demonstrate it. Your profile is very dry. You don't need to talk about where you can meet or being willing to meet couples but not being bi. Don't talk about kink in such vague terms.

Express your personality.

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area

Profile re-written. Hopefully this is much better.

Thanks for your constructive observations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No!

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Rewritten?

It's still all 'me me me'

Didn't look at the pics as I'd completely lost interest I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For fooks sake get rid of the "I don't bite" crap. Do you know how often that appears? It is crap and so common. I wish there was a filter for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile re-written. Hopefully this is much better.

Thanks for your constructive observations."

Well it's certainly like 1000' s of other profiles on here. Tells me enough to make a decision tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rewrote mine last night. Whadoyarekon?

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Op I get what your saying about the kink stuff as I'm to just starting out on that journey, I've been to workshops and events and already learned loads I would suggest you join another site for your kink needs and go to everthing you can where you will learn it doesn't have to hurt it's all about how you wish to play.

Good luck

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By *ad-GirlWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"Hi all

Please can you have a look at my profile and tell me honestly what you think.

I am struggling to get meets, so observations appreciated.

Thanks."

Its very similar to many other guys on here you need to find a way to make your self stand out thats specific to you.

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