FabSwingers.com forum: Tips for a young woman

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I want to meet women and couples.

i only get timewasters, i also get from women and couples im too young and fat for them.

How can i improve my profile to get more interest from women and couples x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe visit a club that's local to you. You'll meet some great couples who will give you feedback on here and will help you in your quest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe going to clubs would be a better way to get interest from genuine women and couples than on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I go to clubs/parties in my spare time i interact with couples and women never any fun goes on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people ato the top end of your age range will not be interested as you may be a similar age to there kids.

Clubs are the way forward. Try the bmfc nights a number of clubs do these. You'll get to meet some great guys there of the right colour. For couples you meet at clubs. Sometimes you have to take the lead and ask.if they want to play and don't take it personally if they don't.

Good luck.

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

I would imagine a couples night at a club might be your best option. I know you've said you've tried clubs and parties but arranging to go on a couples night and then popping a meet request up for that night might get you some fun.

Before we go to a club we tend to have a look to see who else is going that night and drop them a message to say hi.

We may not end up playing with them but if we've had a message chat with a few couples beforehand it gives us people to go and say hi to.

And somewhere like cupids big open bed on couples night should get you some action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to meet women and couples.

i only get timewasters, i also get from women and couples im too young and fat for them.

How can i improve my profile to get more interest from women and couples x"

Profile looks good to me, unfortunately there's not a lot you can do about peoples preferences, just stick with what you're doing and don't get too disheartened, finding couples is probably the hardest as getting all the stars to align is almost impossible.

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

It's a shame we're not in your age range as I think we'd get along

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Townhouse and Cupids, near you, both have all girl nights, that's a fun way to meet single ladies and the female half of couples.

Cupids are doing one on Tuesday 8th, ladies only in the downstairs rooms, upsatirs open as normal. You can have a look in the forum thread about it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Townhouse and Cupids, near you, both have all girl nights, that's a fun way to meet single ladies and the female half of couples.

Cupids are doing one on Tuesday 8th, ladies only in the downstairs rooms, upsatirs open as normal. You can have a look in the forum thread about it x"

Only problem i have is transport x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Townhouse and Cupids, near you, both have all girl nights, that's a fun way to meet single ladies and the female half of couples.

Cupids are doing one on Tuesday 8th, ladies only in the downstairs rooms, upsatirs open as normal. You can have a look in the forum thread about it x

Only problem i have is transport x"

Get to know someone local to you who can take you to these clubs. Most men would love the chance to have a female partner who can wing them into clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Townhouse and Cupids, near you, both have all girl nights, that's a fun way to meet single ladies and the female half of couples.

Cupids are doing one on Tuesday 8th, ladies only in the downstairs rooms, upsatirs open as normal. You can have a look in the forum thread about it x

Only problem i have is transport x"

Have a look at the North West Fem only social I'm arranging for 26th Nov (under the meets/parties section). This may give you an opportunity to find some like minded ladies in your area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your size wouldn't put us off but your inability to travel independently and wish to be accommodated overnight would be an issue for us...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only thing I can see on your profile that would put me off are the great big chunks of

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The first one put me off reading any more, I scrolled down and saw even more.

Obvious you can't do much about people's preferences or your accommodation. Maybe focus on your positives more rather than your negatives.

Don't say you're not the prettiest girl around. Only one person can be the prettiest, besides which, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Big boobs tend to be a plus, so focus on your DD boobs rather than mention a dress size. One says voluptuous, the other says fat.

The general language of your profile and the post is putting you down. You're a beautiful woman and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have said your main problems are your age and your size....?

Age is something only time can change.

Size is up to you. If you are comfortable/happy with your size...then find others who are. If you are not or you wish to attract people who prefer slimmer....then without sounding harsh, the answer lies with you, diet and exercise.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"i also get from women and couples im too young and fat for them."

Everyone is allowed preferences, but if one does, then one has to own them.

You are excluding many people your own age, while seeking people likely to have kids around your age.

(On the plus side, this is the first time we have been told we are too skinny for a meet

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Personally I'd lose the hobbies & interests bit, that comes across as a bit 'date-y', which scares us.

The 'can't do' attitude is also unattractive, imho.

Mr ddc

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By *ootlecplxCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We would love to chat but won't let us message you cxxc

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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire East

You should head my way!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Visit clubs. Message people yourself. Im young and fat lold and ive had some amazing meets with women and couples.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

"You have said your main problems are your age and your size....?

Age is something only time can change.

How very rude .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have said your main problems are your age and your size....?

Age is something only time can change.

How very rude ....."

No it's not. She said her problems are her age and weight. While she's growing up she could lose weight. If everyone told me I'm too old I'd leave. If they said I'm too fat I'd diet, or leave. What other choices does one have?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have said your main problems are your age and your size....?

Age is something only time can change.

My age i cant do nothing about x

you cant tell someone to loose weight they may problems that caused that person to be overweight, its not easy to lose weight x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have said your main problems are your age and your size....?

Age is something only time can change.

My age i cant do nothing about x

you cant tell someone to loose weight they may problems that caused that person to be overweight, its not easy to lose weight x"

I want to meet big women that are simalur size to me.

iv got not problems with any women i like being friends with everyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say keep going and you will be snd some1 will say yes soon

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe write about what they will gain from choosing a meet with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile looks great to me - cannot understand why you would have any problem getting a meet.

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