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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any advice out there for a first timer? Ive never even used Tinder so this place is a but of a mystery to me

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By *ilfy85Woman
over a year ago

Beckwithshaw

Send plenty of fancy a fuck messages with numerous cock pics only joking you must know how to talk to a woman

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

First up write yourself a decent profile that tells people about you and what you're looking for. Add some decent body pictures and not just ones of your cock.

Write respectful messages to anyone you might be interested in, being careful to tailor them to the person you're writing to, don't make the mistake of sending one line "fancy a chat" or obviously cut and paste messages either.

Consider attending local socials or clubs to meet and chat with like minded people.

Participate in the forums and get to know people that way.

Most importantly set your expectations to the lowest possible setting and try to stand out from the crowd, not be one of them.

Finally patience is the key, don't come whinging on the forums after only being on the site a matter of weeks that you can't get a meet.

Good luck!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send plenty of fancy a fuck messages with numerous cock pics only joking you must know how to talk to a woman "

Well thats Me fucked then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me too, I thought my back catalogue of various dick pics in different scenic locations was a sure fire hit! Like one with a meadow, one in space because it's out of the world, shit like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any advice out there for a first timer? Ive never even used Tinder so this place is a but of a mystery to me "

Yes. Write an interesting profile showing your personality and include some nice photos. It is not difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any advice out there for a first timer? Ive never even used Tinder so this place is a but of a mystery to me "

Well it's not tinder, that's for sure. Whatever you need to do on tinder probably isn't what you need to do here.

There's no sweeping left or right guaranteed chemistry via the net. It's never going to be easy unless you pop s frock on

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"First up write yourself a decent profile that tells people about you and what you're looking for. Add some decent body pictures and not just ones of your cock.

Write respectful messages to anyone you might be interested in, being careful to tailor them to the person you're writing to, don't make the mistake of sending one line "fancy a chat" or obviously cut and paste messages either.

Consider attending local socials or clubs to meet and chat with like minded people.

Participate in the forums and get to know people that way.

Most importantly set your expectations to the lowest possible setting and try to stand out from the crowd, not be one of them.

Finally patience is the key, don't come whinging on the forums after only being on the site a matter of weeks that you can't get a meet.

Good luck!! "

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Write a profile

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Any advice out there for a first timer? Ive never even used Tinder so this place is a but of a mystery to me "

Public photos

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Set your age parameters.Are you really looking to meet a 99 year old?

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get out now while your insanity is still intact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send plenty of fancy a fuck messages with numerous cock pics only joking you must know how to talk to a woman "

Oh god this! Nothing gets me wetter than a cock pic and a "hi" message!! C x

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Any advice out there for a first timer? Ive never even used Tinder so this place is a but of a mystery to me "

I've never used Tinder either. I didn't realise you were supposed to do that before joining Fab.

Sally

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"Any advice out there for a first timer? Ive never even used Tinder so this place is a but of a mystery to me

I've never used Tinder either. I didn't realise you were supposed to do that before joining Fab.

Sally"

What`s Tinder? Signed, total thicko technophobe.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Not going to write a great deal on here so give me a message" is your first huge mistake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its like here but with more people pretending to be successful and that they want a relationship. And less dick pics apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Set your age parameters.Are you really looking to meet a 99 year old?

Sally"

Who isn't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send plenty of fancy a fuck messages with numerous cock pics only joking you must know how to talk to a woman

Well thats Me fucked then"

or not

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Set your age parameters.Are you really looking to meet a 99 year old?

Sally

Who isn't? "

Just looked at your profile. You really do!

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By *orthern PowerhouseMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"Any advice out there for a first timer? Ive never even used Tinder so this place is a but of a mystery to me "

The place is a mystery to many of us the best advice is to not take it too seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Set your age parameters.Are you really looking to meet a 99 year old?

Sally

Who isn't?

Just looked at your profile. You really do!

"

Well I could cap the age but I'll talk to anyone me. If we can have a laugh I don't care how old you are!

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire


"Me too, I thought my back catalogue of various dick pics in different scenic locations was a sure fire hit! Like one with a meadow, one in space because it's out of the world, shit like that!"

lol

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By *leur de lisWoman
over a year ago

Buxton


"Any advice out there for a first timer? Ive never even used Tinder so this place is a but of a mystery to me "

Be polite, if someone don't reply don't throw a fit, always smile and don't expect the earth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Me too, I thought my back catalogue of various dick pics in different scenic locations was a sure fire hit! Like one with a meadow, one in space because it's out of the world, shit like that!

lol "

Im glad someone appreciated it ha

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