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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello all,

After having been on here for a few months, I am yet to gain a meet or a verification; thinking of deleting my account; any advice?

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give up. It can take a while. Maybe get yourself to a local social and / or club?

Kinky

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

It is difficult to connect online. Try clubs and socials - much easier to meet people and have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't give up. It can take a while. Maybe get yourself to a local social and / or club?

Kinky

Thank you for the advice; I've been to the clubs before but there seems to be strict rule on having your phones out, is this something you've noticed before?

I think the social is a good shout

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is difficult to connect online. Try clubs and socials - much easier to meet people and have fun"

Thanks, I'll bear that in mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't give up. It can take a while. Maybe get yourself to a local social and / or club?

Kinky

Thank you for the advice; I've been to the clubs before but there seems to be strict rule on having your phones out, is this something you've noticed before?

I think the social is a good shout

Why do you need your phone out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have only been on a few months ..do not give up ...keep going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't give up. It can take a while. Maybe get yourself to a local social and / or club?

Kinky

Thank you for the advice; I've been to the clubs before but there seems to be strict rule on having your phones out, is this something you've noticed before?

I think the social is a good shout

Why do you need your phone out?"

I was puzzled at that one as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To be able to add people on this site lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have only been on a few months ..do not give up ...keep going "

Persistence seems to be key

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By *ertsRobMan
over a year ago

Rickmansworth

There are sexy women and couples out there waiting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pen and Paper? Add them at home..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't give up. It can take a while. Maybe get yourself to a local social and / or club?

Kinky

Thank you for the advice; I've been to the clubs before but there seems to be strict rule on having your phones out, is this something you've noticed before?

I think the social is a good shout

Why do you need your phone out?

I was puzzled at that one as well

add me to the list -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to the club, put the phone away and interact with real people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be able to add people on this site lol"

I had to check your age OP! It really doesn't work like that.You don't randomly just go and add people who you meet at clubs. You consencentrate on chatting and getting to know them, maybe playing with them maybe not. Maybe ask their name and keep in touch via fab or kik. Clubs are for people who are interested in playing and the social side not just having a massive friends list to wank over.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

My advice is to have a photo for your avatar. It doesn't have to be of your face but lots of people automatically delete messages without a profile pic.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mingles Club has cards where you can put your Fab name on and give to other people you meet and want to keep in touch with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mingles Club has cards where you can put your Fab name on and give to other people you meet and want to keep in touch with."

so does no 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be able to add people on this site lol"

Nobody wants pics of themselves in a sex club .it is open to all sorts of abuse.

Did I really have to explain this??

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Hello all,

After having been on here for a few months, I am yet to gain a meet or a verification; thinking of deleting my account; any advice?

Thanks! "

The same advice I gave you 3 weeks ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello all,

After having been on here for a few months, I am yet to gain a meet or a verification; thinking of deleting my account; any advice?

Thanks! "

Yes if it's not working you should delete your account..

I don't understand people saying 'don't give up' when it's clear the OP has been given advice previously and has chosen to ignore it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello all,

After having been on here for a few months, I am yet to gain a meet or a verification; thinking of deleting my account; any advice?

Thanks!

Yes if it's not working you should delete your account..

I don't understand people saying 'don't give up' when it's clear the OP has been given advice previously and has chosen to ignore it

That's the spirit...... sorta?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello all,

After having been on here for a few months, I am yet to gain a meet or a verification; thinking of deleting my account; any advice?

Thanks! "

I've had a few people convince me to stay, I've yo-yo'd on an off here for a while but with the right contacts, it can be very enjoyable! If you're struggling to find anyone maybe you need to have a think about how you're going about it? Maybe you need to present yourself better?

Food for thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello all,

After having been on here for a few months, I am yet to gain a meet or a verification; thinking of deleting my account; any advice?

Thanks!

Yes if it's not working you should delete your account..

I don't understand people saying 'don't give up' when it's clear the OP has been given advice previously and has chosen to ignore it

Agree totally.

The OP is just one of many hundreds of single guys trying to get some sex on here, and they all need to have lots of patience! Something that a lot don't want to have, then the posts pop up on the Forum. Why not just leave?

One thing that does slightly bother us however is the fact that he thinks he can get his mobile phone out in a club.

We don't know what club he has been to, but at the ones we go to your phones are taken off you at the door.

If someone was to take a phone out in the middle of the club it could cause them a lot of trouble.

Fact remains though, that a lot of single people come on here thinking this is Instantshag.com and that it is an easy place to get sex!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just a word to some people, if you have nothing helpful or beneficial to say, please don't Make me waste my time in reading your rubbish.

Thank you to the genuine people who offered helpful suggestions, it is people like you who I'd like to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a word to some people, if you have nothing helpful or beneficial to say, please don't Make me waste my time in reading your rubbish.

Thank you to the genuine people who offered helpful suggestions, it is people like you who I'd like to meet

Welcome!

Might be worth you having a look at previous threads for some more info. I'm not too sure how much more helpful this thread will be to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just a word to some people, if you have nothing helpful or beneficial to say, please don't Make me waste my time in reading your rubbish.

Thank you to the genuine people who offered helpful suggestions, it is people like you who I'd like to meet

Welcome!

Might be worth you having a look at previous threads for some more info. I'm not too sure how much more helpful this thread will be to you. "

You're right, seems to have been taken over by keyboard warriors now lol. Nice one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a word to some people, if you have nothing helpful or beneficial to say, please don't Make me waste my time in reading your rubbish.

Thank you to the genuine people who offered helpful suggestions, it is people like you who I'd like to meet

This is a public forum. Anyone can post within the rules. You don't have control over that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a word to some people, if you have nothing helpful or beneficial to say, please don't Make me waste my time in reading your rubbish.

Thank you to the genuine people who offered helpful suggestions, it is people like you who I'd like to meet

This is a public forum. Anyone can post within the rules. You don't have control over that."

I think he's just a bit frustrated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a word to some people, if you have nothing helpful or beneficial to say, please don't Make me waste my time in reading your rubbish.

Thank you to the genuine people who offered helpful suggestions, it is people like you who I'd like to meet

Welcome!

Might be worth you having a look at previous threads for some more info. I'm not too sure how much more helpful this thread will be to you.

You're right, seems to have been taken over by keyboard warriors now lol. Nice one!

I don't think they were being keyboard warriors, they were just explaining why you can't have mobile phones (which have cameras) out in a club where people go to have sex. There's so much bad press about swingers and people's pictures appearing in newspapers you just can't risk it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just a word to some people, if you have nothing helpful or beneficial to say, please don't Make me waste my time in reading your rubbish.

Thank you to the genuine people who offered helpful suggestions, it is people like you who I'd like to meet

This is a public forum. Anyone can post within the rules. You don't have control over that.

I think he's just a bit frustrated.

Not really trying to control, just asking for helpful advice, not petty comments

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just a word to some people, if you have nothing helpful or beneficial to say, please don't Make me waste my time in reading your rubbish.

Thank you to the genuine people who offered helpful suggestions, it is people like you who I'd like to meet

Welcome!

Might be worth you having a look at previous threads for some more info. I'm not too sure how much more helpful this thread will be to you.

You're right, seems to have been taken over by keyboard warriors now lol. Nice one!

I fully understand, if I'm honest all this technology had me forgetting about a good old pen and a pad as advised above haha

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

"To be able to add people on this site lol"

I must admit, I've had a few conversations in clubs where people give me user names and you walk back to your locker and have to type 8 different spellings into Search before you find who you're looking for. If you are gonna give out your user name verbally, please keep it simple, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a word to some people, if you have nothing helpful or beneficial to say, please don't Make me waste my time in reading your rubbish.

Thank you to the genuine people who offered helpful suggestions, it is people like you who I'd like to meet

Welcome!

Might be worth you having a look at previous threads for some more info. I'm not too sure how much more helpful this thread will be to you.

You're right, seems to have been taken over by keyboard warriors now lol. Nice one!

I fully understand, if I'm honest all this technology had me forgetting about a good old pen and a pad as advised above haha "

There's a few people on here or were on here that have had their pictures in the papers and horrendous things said about them so things like club security is a touchy subject, people will know people that have had bad experiences because of people sneaking phones in places and stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a word to some people, if you have nothing helpful or beneficial to say, please don't Make me waste my time in reading your rubbish.

Thank you to the genuine people who offered helpful suggestions, it is people like you who I'd like to meet

We have this thing.

If you don't like the heat, don't step into the kitchen.

By the same token, if you cannot accept the comments made maybe you should consider whether the forums are for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget your bloody phone and get out there to a club or social to live in the real world rather than the virtual web world. Speak to people, be friendly and polite. Your day/night will come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forget your bloody phone and get out there to a club or social to live in the real world rather than the virtual web world. Speak to people, be friendly and polite. Your day/night will come. "

I hope mine comes

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By *ad-GirlWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield

"Hello all,

After having been on here for a few months, I am yet to gain a meet or a verification; thinking of deleting my account; any advice?

Thanks! "

You can't make people like you or want to meet you but you can change your profile and the messages you send if its not working.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am similar mate it's double hard for me cos I'm in wheelchair (can walk a tiny tiny bit with crutches)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually only make a solid connection with one or two people at a club and find that if I repeat their user name to myself a few times I will remember it for when I get home so I can request their friendship. Or if it is a tricky one they write it on my arm lol

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Just a word to some people, if you have nothing helpful or beneficial to say, please don't Make me waste my time in reading your rubbish.

Thank you to the genuine people who offered helpful suggestions, it is people like you who I'd like to meet

Well, I was going to comment, but after reading this I think I've found why he's struggling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effort in equals results - patience is also key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fact remains though, that a lot of single people come on here thinking this is Instantshag.com and that it is an easy place to get sex!

Wow that site really exists! *runs off to join*

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

"Hello all,

After having been on here for a few months, I am yet to gain a meet or a verification; thinking of deleting my account; any advice?

Thanks! "

You don't need to inform anyone...

Bye!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello all,

After having been on here for a few months, I am yet to gain a meet or a verification; thinking of deleting my account; any advice?

Thanks!

You don't need to inform anyone...

Bye!"

He won't leave, just another 'shout for attention' thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello all,

After having been on here for a few months, I am yet to gain a meet or a verification; thinking of deleting my account; any advice?

Thanks!

You don't need to inform anyone...

Bye!

He won't leave, just another 'shout for attention' thread."

Wow......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hello all,

After having been on here for a few months, I am yet to gain a meet or a verification; thinking of deleting my account; any advice?

Thanks!

You don't need to inform anyone...

Bye!

He won't leave, just another 'shout for attention' thread.

Wow......

Lol! Sounded more like a few 'shout for attention' comments judging that this i believed this thread was done.

Spoonful of sugar darling, pick you right up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fact remains though, that a lot of single people come on here thinking this is Instantshag.com and that it is an easy place to get sex!

Wow that site really exists! *runs off to join*

Running behind you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello all,

After having been on here for a few months, I am yet to gain a meet or a verification; thinking of deleting my account; any advice?

Thanks!

You don't need to inform anyone...

Bye!

He won't leave, just another 'shout for attention' thread.

Wow......

Lol! Sounded more like a few 'shout for attention' comments judging that this i believed this thread was done.

Spoonful of sugar darling, pick you right up

Shots Fired!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hello all,

After having been on here for a few months, I am yet to gain a meet or a verification; thinking of deleting my account; any advice?

Thanks!

You don't need to inform anyone...

Bye!

He won't leave, just another 'shout for attention' thread.

Wow......

Lol! Sounded more like a few 'shout for attention' comments judging that this i believed this thread was done.

Spoonful of sugar darling, pick you right up

Shots Fired!!!

Hahaha

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"Hello all,

After having been on here for a few months, I am yet to gain a meet or a verification; thinking of deleting my account; any advice?

Thanks! "

Well I have read through the thread and it seems to me that you go to the " account" tab on the menu; click on it and select " delete account"; and that's it done.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hello all,

After having been on here for a few months, I am yet to gain a meet or a verification; thinking of deleting my account; any advice?

Thanks!

Well I have read through the thread and it seems to me that you go to the " account" tab on the menu; click on it and select " delete account"; and that's it done."

Anyways...

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I've got quite a good memory every time I've been to a club I've remembered the usernames of the people I've met to message/add them as friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello all,

After having been on here for a few months, I am yet to gain a meet or a verification; thinking of deleting my account; any advice?

Thanks!

Well I have read through the thread and it seems to me that you go to the " account" tab on the menu; click on it and select " delete account"; and that's it done."

Yep, it is just that easy!!

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By *otrockloverMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Try a social. Relax into it. Keep it friendly and personable. You'll soon find rapport with someone and the veri won't be too far behind.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Hello all,

After having been on here for a few months, I am yet to gain a meet or a verification; thinking of deleting my account; any advice?

Thanks!

You don't need to inform anyone...

Bye!

He won't leave, just another 'shout for attention' thread.

Wow......

Green arrow

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west

Op, your current status will be zero help.

It's pointless because anyone who has blocked you can't read it , it also makes you sound angry.

Just friendly advice

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"Go to the club, put the phone away and interact with real people. "

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Most if not every club have those rules about phones it's a PRIVATE members club why would you need a phone out.....socialise and TALK to people......good luck. ..oh btw you have one of the best clubs on your doorstep near Feltham

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Go to the club, put the phone away and interact with real people. "

Do people actually do that nowadays?

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

"Op, your current status will be zero help.

It's pointless because anyone who has blocked you can't read it , it also makes you sound angry.

Just friendly advice

Totally agree about the current status... I would avoid you simply for your negativity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello all,

After having been on here for a few months, I am yet to gain a meet or a verification; thinking of deleting my account; any advice?

Thanks! "

Your status update isn't going to win you any fans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time for action OP

Need to get that profile sorted!

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

"Most if not every club have those rules about phones it's a PRIVATE members club why would you need a phone out.....socialise and TALK to people......good luck. ..oh btw you have one of the best clubs on your doorstep near Feltham "

@manhunter.

Follow L&O's advice. Check the green arrow. He's been there and several other clubs. He should know the drill about phones at clubs by now.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Your status update isn't going to win you any fans.

I thought exactly the same thing..

The OP needs to understand that people block people they don't want to meet. He should divert his energy to those who might want to meet.

Although, with a status like that... it'll be a really short list.

Cal

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