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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Arranged to meet some one at his got post code drove 25 miles get there and he has blocked me can you report this to admin he was on fab guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So do it on fabguys would be a good idea. Secondly, why would you even leave your house without an address to go to. Madness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^^ Ive had an arranged meet where they give you postcode & will give you house number once your at the destination. Its worked for me so far but only local. I wouldn't do it if I'm travelling out of town.

A message could of been sent to not want to meet but some find it better to block as they don't want the hassle of been pestered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^^^ Ive had an arranged meet where they give you postcode & will give you house number once your at the destination. Its worked for me so far but only local. I wouldn't do it if I'm travelling out of town.

A message could of been sent to not want to meet but some find it better to block as they don't want the hassle of been pestered."

You are right but if you agree to a meet and then back out on a whim like timewasters do then at least send a "sorry cannot meet you" message and then block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time here even with cpls . Not be the 1st time I arrange a meeting I turned up. Send mail to say was outside please open door etc. So mostly I meet at a coffee shop 1st before I plan a dress up meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you have a mobo number first?...and did you insist on a quick call first.....works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was on fab first and naïve I arranged to meet a guy in his hotel room. He gave me the room number. Just before I ordered the taxi I decided to call him in the room to make sure all was well...glad I did. An elderly lady answered who had been staying in that very room. Of course I got back to the guy and lo and behold he was no longer registered as a user!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arranged to meet some one at his got post code drove 25 miles get there and he has blocked me can you report this to admin he was on fab guys "

It sounds very much as if you wasted your own time. Use your commonsense in future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe some people are mad and don't like having sex yet enjoy the power trip of letting people down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully only ever had the problem of arranging and then not hearing from them! I almost take that for granted these days or a last min cancellation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was on fab first and naïve I arranged to meet a guy in his hotel room. He gave me the room number. Just before I ordered the taxi I decided to call him in the room to make sure all was well...glad I did. An elderly lady answered who had been staying in that very room. Of course I got back to the guy and lo and behold he was no longer registered as a user!"

That could have been really awkward!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would strongly urge people to meet in a public place first - coffee shop, bar, or whatever. Just for added safety.

Won't stop the time wasters - but please be sensible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So do it on fabguys would be a good idea. Secondly, why would you even leave your house without an address to go to. Madness"

Just so you know; there are no easily accessible forums on fab guys to as advice on.

They have no button on the site to click. You have to google their forums which is why no one uses them.

I'm sure the op has now reported this timewaster as such by hitting the report button when they were on his profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here: have a 'k' to go on the word 'as' to turn it into 'ask'.

You're welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block, move on, enjoy the fishing ?? that's or motto! C X

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

There are loads of other people on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would strongly urge people to meet in a public place first - coffee shop, bar, or whatever. Just for added safety.

Won't stop the time wasters - but please be sensible."

I agree with you. I still don't get women who are happy to go to a guys house for a first meet?

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By *eaded_BazMan
over a year ago

Truro


"Arranged to meet some one at his got post code drove 25 miles get there and he has blocked me can you report this to admin he was on fab guys "

I do not and never will understand the human nature that insists on them being complete fucktards. The thought never occurs to me to let anyone down or mess them around or play mind games. As a species we can be cruel to each other, just for shits and giggles.

Which is fine until someone giggles and shits.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I would strongly urge people to meet in a public place first - coffee shop, bar, or whatever. Just for added safety.

Won't stop the time wasters - but please be sensible."

I insist on this but still some guys try to avoid it. Obviously I don't meet guys who don't have respect for my sense of safety.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago


"Arranged to meet some one at his got post code drove 25 miles get there and he has blocked me can you report this to admin he was on fab guys "

Sadly part of the cause with online swinging. Many people have their orgasm from taking the piss out of others one way or the other.

Call it control fun, sadist fun. They make them feel better about themselves over tricking & inconveniencing others.

Even those with much experience they can still catch out. Fleets of mobile numbers they rotate around behind whatever latest false verified profile they have. Weekly new profiles they circle verify from their fleet of other profiles.

Thankfully with occasional & regular friends you dont have to risk it with such fakers, pretenders & fcukwits so often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would strongly urge people to meet in a public place first - coffee shop, bar, or whatever. Just for added safety.

Won't stop the time wasters - but please be sensible.

I agree with you. I still don't get women who are happy to go to a guys house for a first meet? "

I've never had any problems with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple who meet males we get let down now and again. We give out address and have had a few no shows. Just annoying.

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By *leur de lisWoman
over a year ago

Buxton

Not had many but I always talk on the phone a couple of times before arranging to meet I get a good feel what someone is like over a chat.

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