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"lady's, gents yes or no do you enjoy it" Nope hate it makes me feel awkward. And hate making a mess on my bed haha | |||
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"lady's, gents yes or no do you enjoy it" I'm not one for being pissed on. It's a pain in the arse cleaning up afterwards.... | |||
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"I feel akward if a guy has never experienced it. " I feel bad that I've experienced it now, as I want you to take me by the hand and lead me astray to gushing st !!! | |||
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"I feel akward if a guy has never experienced it. " Yeah, so do I ... hate that bit 'before' where I feel obliged to 'warn' playmates in case they're shocked, repulsed or choose to think I've peed over them Thankfully, back in the real world, and not on one of the perpetual forum squirting/gushing threads that tend to degenerate into argument, I've only ever had positive responses .... though I much prefer for it to just be embraced as something natural, and proof that I feel relaxed and turned on, rather than some kind of special party trick ... | |||
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"I feel akward if a guy has never experienced it. Yeah, so do I ... hate that bit 'before' where I feel obliged to 'warn' playmates in case they're shocked, repulsed or choose to think I've peed over them Thankfully, back in the real world, and not on one of the perpetual forum squirting/gushing threads that tend to degenerate into argument, I've only ever had positive responses .... though I much prefer for it to just be embraced as something natural, and proof that I feel relaxed and turned on, rather than some kind of special party trick ..." It should always be a natural thing, some women do and some don't, we played with a couple and the guy was adamant that he was going to make em squirt like it was a mission and that if she didn't then it must mean that he hadn't satisfied her, he ruined the experience for her as he was too rough and we won't be playing with them again. Ess | |||
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"I feel akward if a guy has never experienced it. Yeah, so do I ... hate that bit 'before' where I feel obliged to 'warn' playmates in case they're shocked, repulsed or choose to think I've peed over them Thankfully, back in the real world, and not on one of the perpetual forum squirting/gushing threads that tend to degenerate into argument, I've only ever had positive responses .... though I much prefer for it to just be embraced as something natural, and proof that I feel relaxed and turned on, rather than some kind of special party trick ... It should always be a natural thing, some women do and some don't, we played with a couple and the guy was adamant that he was going to make em squirt like it was a mission and that if she didn't then it must mean that he hadn't satisfied her, he ruined the experience for her as he was too rough and we won't be playing with them again. Ess" It's not something to plan beforehand as that's too clinical and adds pressure / takes away the fun. But unexpected squirting is really hot. And I love to keep eye contact as it's happening | |||
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"I always find myself apologising and it happens from start to end of session.. Cos so sensitive... Thank god for waterproof sheets .. Even though when I bought them I blushed like hell " I wouldn't expect a apology! | |||
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"lady's, gents yes or no do you enjoy it I'm not one for being pissed on. It's a pain in the arse cleaning up afterwards...." You do know that gushing & pissing are two totally different things?!?! Female ejaculation (gushing) is a release of fluid from the Skene glands which are in the pelvic cavity. https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn26772-female-ejaculation-comes-in-two-forms-scientists-find/ | |||
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"I feel akward if a guy has never experienced it. Yeah, so do I ... hate that bit 'before' where I feel obliged to 'warn' playmates in case they're shocked, repulsed or choose to think I've peed over them Thankfully, back in the real world, and not on one of the perpetual forum squirting/gushing threads that tend to degenerate into argument, I've only ever had positive responses .... though I much prefer for it to just be embraced as something natural, and proof that I feel relaxed and turned on, rather than some kind of special party trick ..." Ive had some negative responses, but I warn people just at intial talking stage on here first. | |||
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"I feel akward if a guy has never experienced it. Yeah, so do I ... hate that bit 'before' where I feel obliged to 'warn' playmates in case they're shocked, repulsed or choose to think I've peed over them Thankfully, back in the real world, and not on one of the perpetual forum squirting/gushing threads that tend to degenerate into argument, I've only ever had positive responses .... though I much prefer for it to just be embraced as something natural, and proof that I feel relaxed and turned on, rather than some kind of special party trick ... Ive had some negative responses, but I warn people just at intial talking stage on here first. " See now I love it if I know the lady can gush I ask her to squat over my mouth xx | |||
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"lady's, gents yes or no do you enjoy it" Feels great over the tongue | |||
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" Female ejaculation (gushing) is a release of fluid from the Skene glands which are in the pelvic cavity. https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn26772-female-ejaculation-comes-in-two-forms-scientists-find/" Not exactly what the article says "This study shows the other two kinds of fluids that can be expelled from the female urethra – urine alone, and urine diluted with substances from the female prostate,” she says. “This study presents convincing evidence that squirting in women is chemically similar to urine, and also contains small amounts of PSA that is present in men’s and women’s true ejaculate,” and if you go to the conclusions of the ACTUAL paper (Ref Salama S, Boitrelle F, Gauquelin A, Malagrida L, Thiounn N, and Desvaux P. Nature and origin of “squirting” in female sexuality. J Sex Med 2015;12:661–666.) CONCLUSION "The present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists. " | |||
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"lady's, gents yes or no do you enjoy it Nope hate it makes me feel awkward. And hate making a mess on my bed haha" I feel the same | |||
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"I have never had that much confidence in life, it stems from my childhood/parents etc but the one thing that had built my confidence a bit is learning to make girls squirt. I know that sounds laughable but it has just made me fill less worthless at least from a sexual point of view" I appreciate that,but alway's be aware not EVERY woman wants to! | |||
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"lady's, gents yes or no do you enjoy it Nope hate it makes me feel awkward. And hate making a mess on my bed haha I feel the same " Glad I'm not the only one! I don't get the fuss. I just get really embarrassed | |||
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"lady's, gents yes or no do you enjoy it" Yes love it when eating pussycat! | |||
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"Yes I absolutely love it. Amazing feeling. " Mmm is love you to gush on my face xx | |||
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"We use a ground sheet, spare old sheet and have a mattress protector just in case... safe sex means having a snorkel at hand " ... my kind of girl .. x nymph .. x | |||
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"I love it when he makes me squirt or gush. To be honest we have had mixed reactions though one women got very pissed at us in a club when he got me to squirt and it hit her,both us and everyone else thought it hilarious mind " I'm not sure how I would feel about that to be honest,so it's ok for you to piss on her,that's hilarious yeah?! | |||
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"I'm pretty sensitive so it just happens with me. I am not embarrassed by it anymore I do warn that it could get messy. Hasn't put anyone off so far. " It certainly wouldn't put me off | |||
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"Just wondering is squirting and gushing the same thing??????? " Yes it is | |||
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"Just wondering is squirting and gushing the same thing??????? " It's the same liquid basically, but I've seen ladies actually squirt like a fountain, whereas I don't, I just literally "gush" a flow of fluid. I like it though | |||
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"lady's, gents yes or no do you enjoy it I'm not one for being pissed on. It's a pain in the arse cleaning up afterwards...." Quite | |||
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"Hahaha. I'm a gusher. And I know it isn't completely pee. I could empty my bladder just before ......." The research is pretty unequivocal "bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity" If you read the paper you will see that part of the procedure was to empty the bladder first "Pelvic ultrasound scans were performed after voluntary urination (US1), and during sexual stimulation just before (US2) and after (US3) squirting." So basically it's piss (with in some cases a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions). | |||
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"Hahaha. I'm a gusher. And I know it isn't completely pee. I could empty my bladder just before ....... The research is pretty unequivocal "bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity" If you read the paper you will see that part of the procedure was to empty the bladder first "Pelvic ultrasound scans were performed after voluntary urination (US1), and during sexual stimulation just before (US2) and after (US3) squirting." So basically it's piss (with in some cases a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions). " THIS. I actually enjoy bringing the lady just close to the point of squirting/gushing and then ease off...repeatedly doing this.... then leave the gspot alone and work on the clit or lips to give different and eventually multiple release without gushing. I've been called a bastard a few times in intimate moments of pleasure | |||
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"If gushing is real I'd love it" It's real and every female can...but not all will and some won't because the mind is powerful. | |||
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"Hahaha. I'm a gusher. And I know it isn't completely pee. I could empty my bladder just before ....... The research is pretty unequivocal "bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity" If you read the paper you will see that part of the procedure was to empty the bladder first "Pelvic ultrasound scans were performed after voluntary urination (US1), and during sexual stimulation just before (US2) and after (US3) squirting." So basically it's piss (with in some cases a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions). " I've often seen these research results and that's cool I wouldn't dispute scientific fact. However I can't help wondering therefore why it doesn't smell like wee. Or taste like it. Or stain like it. I know it's not an orgasm, that's a completely different feeling but the bottom line is I actually don't mind what it is, for me it's an amazing feeling. | |||
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"Hahaha. I'm a gusher. And I know it isn't completely pee. I could empty my bladder just before ....... The research is pretty unequivocal "bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity" If you read the paper you will see that part of the procedure was to empty the bladder first "Pelvic ultrasound scans were performed after voluntary urination (US1), and during sexual stimulation just before (US2) and after (US3) squirting." So basically it's piss (with in some cases a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions). I've often seen these research results and that's cool I wouldn't dispute scientific fact. However I can't help wondering therefore why it doesn't smell like wee. Or taste like it. Or stain like it. I know it's not an orgasm, that's a completely different feeling but the bottom line is I actually don't mind what it is, for me it's an amazing feeling." Simply because it hasn't been in the bladder long enough and hense no smell nor discolouration and has other fluids mixed. It's also why a female will feel a little dehydrated after gushing and squirting session. There's quite a bit of medical journal research to support all this anyway if some are genuinely interested or one can read and pick out what one is happy to digest and swallow... | |||
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"Hahaha. I'm a gusher. And I know it isn't completely pee. I could empty my bladder just before ....... The research is pretty unequivocal "bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity" If you read the paper you will see that part of the procedure was to empty the bladder first "Pelvic ultrasound scans were performed after voluntary urination (US1), and during sexual stimulation just before (US2) and after (US3) squirting." So basically it's piss (with in some cases a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions). I've often seen these research results and that's cool I wouldn't dispute scientific fact. However I can't help wondering therefore why it doesn't smell like wee. Or taste like it. Or stain like it. I know it's not an orgasm, that's a completely different feeling but the bottom line is I actually don't mind what it is, for me it's an amazing feeling. Simply because it hasn't been in the bladder long enough and hense no smell nor discolouration and has other fluids mixed. It's also why a female will feel a little dehydrated after gushing and squirting session. There's quite a bit of medical journal research to support all this anyway if some are genuinely interested or one can read and pick out what one is happy to digest and swallow... " Don't misunderstand me, I am very interested and I'm not disputing it. I simply am not bothered by it. | |||
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"Hahaha. I'm a gusher. And I know it isn't completely pee. I could empty my bladder just before ....... The research is pretty unequivocal "bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity" If you read the paper you will see that part of the procedure was to empty the bladder first "Pelvic ultrasound scans were performed after voluntary urination (US1), and during sexual stimulation just before (US2) and after (US3) squirting." So basically it's piss (with in some cases a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions). I've often seen these research results and that's cool I wouldn't dispute scientific fact. However I can't help wondering therefore why it doesn't smell like wee. Or taste like it. Or stain like it. I know it's not an orgasm, that's a completely different feeling but the bottom line is I actually don't mind what it is, for me it's an amazing feeling. Simply because it hasn't been in the bladder long enough and hense no smell nor discolouration and has other fluids mixed. It's also why a female will feel a little dehydrated after gushing and squirting session. There's quite a bit of medical journal research to support all this anyway if some are genuinely interested or one can read and pick out what one is happy to digest and swallow... Don't misunderstand me, I am very interested and I'm not disputing it. I simply am not bothered by it. " I was just trying answer the questions you asked concerning it that was all... | |||
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"I feel akward if a guy has never experienced it. Yeah, so do I ... hate that bit 'before' where I feel obliged to 'warn' playmates in case they're shocked, repulsed or choose to think I've peed over them Thankfully, back in the real world, and not on one of the perpetual forum squirting/gushing threads that tend to degenerate into argument, I've only ever had positive responses .... though I much prefer for it to just be embraced as something natural, and proof that I feel relaxed and turned on, rather than some kind of special party trick ..." ... great sentiment ... every squirt master or similar should take heed ... .. its not a thing to be "made to do" ...some fems do .. some fems don't ... ... | |||
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"I was just trying answer the questions you asked concerning it that was all... " Can you explain how, when the woman is sat on top during intercourse, the gush empties as she gets off? Quite clearly, unless liquid can run uphill past a plug, that gush has not come from the bladder. Also, if the bladder has been emptied before sex, the gush is clear, doesn't smell or taste of urine and doesn't stain, how has normal urine got back into the bladder when it is emptied immediately after sex? So many women on these threads have said a gush (not squirt) comes from their vagina and not the urethra and despite the medical research women's knowledge of their own bodies should be given some credence. | |||
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