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By *oo hot OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

Mrs H is actively looking for a female FWB for girly shopping times, days out etc as well as intimate fun.

So far our efforts have been frustrated as many women think that that this is an attempt by both of us to bed a unicorn. This isn't the case.

Any idea where we might find such a person? Please PM rather than name other websites.

Thanks

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

No other site needed - I think if you're clear about what she wants there's plenty on here who'd be interested x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody unicorn......

Your comments of unicorn might put off any single bi women anyway.

Never seen the point of calling them some stupid mythical animal name when the sites chocker with single bi women, its like saying their rarer than rocking horse shit then realising "theres one" "another one" "5 over there" "3 more there" etc if you look.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If the stumbling block is the couples account putting people off for the reasons you state, why doesn't she set up a solo profile to try it that way?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Mrs H is actively looking for a female FWB for girly shopping times, days out etc as well as intimate fun.

So far our efforts have been frustrated as many women think that that this is an attempt by both of us to bed a unicorn. This isn't the case.

Any idea where we might find such a person? Please PM rather than name other websites.

Thanks"

All well and good, but a single account is best for this .... not all women like shopping and girls times though ... many already have friends for that and others aren't into it ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs H is actively looking for a female FWB for girly shopping times, days out etc as well as intimate fun.

So far our efforts have been frustrated as many women think that that this is an attempt by both of us to bed a unicorn. This isn't the case.

Any idea where we might find such a person? Please PM rather than name other websites.

Thanks"

So basically you want a third party in your marriage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs H is actively looking for a female FWB for girly shopping times, days out etc as well as intimate fun.

So far our efforts have been frustrated as many women think that that this is an attempt by both of us to bed a unicorn. This isn't the case.

Any idea where we might find such a person? Please PM rather than name other websites.

Thanks

So basically you want a third party in your marriage. "

Sounds like your looking for a woman to be your wife's 'bit on the side'. Even if you found someone, why would they want to settle for being the other woman in a marriage? If they just want a play hook up then fine, but if you find someone who is looking for a relationship then it's not fair to expect them to accept a part time one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ended up in a virtually full time 3 way relationship so be careful what you wish for

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I don't think it matters too much what someone's sexual orientation is, if they're compatible with you. Orientation can include sexual as well as romantic interests in various/all genders. It strikes me that if someone was much, much more towards 100% lesbian, then it's more likely that they'd be needing a wider range of fulfilment with someone than just shopping/girly stuff and sex.

Fab has such a huge number of diverse people on it that it's perhaps one of the best places to find what you're looking for - unless it's something that's very specialist.

I think it'll probably be about trial and error, exploring different ways to find the right matches. Perhaps several partners could in total satisfy needs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs H is actively looking for a female FWB for girly shopping times, days out etc as well as intimate fun.

So far our efforts have been frustrated as many women think that that this is an attempt by both of us to bed a unicorn. This isn't the case.

Any idea where we might find such a person? Please PM rather than name other websites.

Thanks

So basically you want a third party in your marriage.

Sounds like your looking for a woman to be your wife's 'bit on the side'. Even if you found someone, why would they want to settle for being the other woman in a marriage? If they just want a play hook up then fine, but if you find someone who is looking for a relationship then it's not fair to expect them to accept a part time one."

That's exactly what I thought. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs H is actively looking for a female FWB for girly shopping times, days out etc as well as intimate fun.

So far our efforts have been frustrated as many women think that that this is an attempt by both of us to bed a unicorn. This isn't the case.

Any idea where we might find such a person? Please PM rather than name other websites.

Thanks"
Why is it the male always asking for the female...is she incapable of looking herself Why as the male are you having such an input on something you say has nothing to do with you

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By *XHNHWoman
over a year ago

Stokeish...

Personally I've been on dates with Lesbian women in the past, and thy wouldn't have been happy with me being in a Heterosexual relationship

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By *ougarsandcubsWoman
over a year ago

Medway

your are either straight bi or a lesbian..

she cant be more lesbian .. no more than you can be more gay

I agree all my friends are the mythical unicorn...we arent rare. but it still don't mean they want to be someones bit on side .. seems like a fantasy you may have cause the female always decides. hence shed be writing this post x

just my opinion xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try chat avenue there's rooms for all genders

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"your are either straight bi or a lesbian..

she cant be more lesbian .. no more than you can be more gay

I agree all my friends are the mythical unicorn...we arent rare. but it still don't mean they want to be someones bit on side .. seems like a fantasy you may have cause the female always decides. hence shed be writing this post x

just my opinion xx "

I was just about to say the same thing!

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By *oBoysAllowedWoman
over a year ago

Solihull

In an ideal world, this is exactly what I look for too - but finding someone local to me, younger than me, who doesn't smoke and who I actually find attractive and who actually isn't a complete fake..........that's the challenge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In an ideal world, this is exactly what I look for too - but finding someone local to me, younger than me, who doesn't smoke and who I actually find attractive and who actually isn't a complete fake..........that's the challenge."
go on chat avenue there's a dedicated room for lesbians and who knows u might strike it lucky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs H is actively looking for a female FWB for girly shopping times, days out etc as well as intimate fun.

So far our efforts have been frustrated as many women think that that this is an attempt by both of us to bed a unicorn. This isn't the case.

Any idea where we might find such a person? Please PM rather than name other websites.

Thanks"

I'd like someone like this too. I hope she finds what she is looking for x

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Nice concept We too are on the Unicorn hunt, but the girl/girl fun is our preference. Male will just have to take one for the team, again

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By *oo hot OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Mrs H is actively looking for a female FWB for girly shopping times, days out etc as well as intimate fun.

So far our efforts have been frustrated as many women think that that this is an attempt by both of us to bed a unicorn. This isn't the case.

Any idea where we might find such a person? Please PM rather than name other websites.

ThanksWhy is it the male always asking for the female...is she incapable of looking herself Why as the male are you having such an input on something you say has nothing to do with you"

What are you - the Fab forum Police?

We are a couple and as is expicitly stated on our profile, unless it is made clear otherwise it will be the male who writes on Fabswingers and that is how it has been since we first joined.

You don't like what is written - please feel free to go and moan on someone else's thread. I wont tell you how to live your life so please dont try to tell us what to do with ours. Getting on for 12 years in this scene and one of the first 100 members of Xtasia back in the day we don't need to be told what we want and like - albeit sometimes a bit of help finding is always useful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Why as the male are you having such an input on something you say has nothing to do with you"

Dead right - couldn't have put it better!

Who wants to meet a woman for friendship etc who can't even speak for herself...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs H is actively looking for a female FWB for girly shopping times, days out etc as well as intimate fun.

So far our efforts have been frustrated as many women think that that this is an attempt by both of us to bed a unicorn. This isn't the case.

Any idea where we might find such a person? Please PM rather than name other websites.

Thanks

So basically you want a third party in your marriage.

Sounds like your looking for a woman to be your wife's 'bit on the side'. Even if you found someone, why would they want to settle for being the other woman in a marriage? If they just want a play hook up then fine, but if you find someone who is looking for a relationship then it's not fair to expect them to accept a part time one."

Just like being a part time lover suits lots of men, I don't see any reason why a woman wouldn't want something more than no strings but not full on due to time constraints. If I actually liked women's foos then I might be interested! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs H is actively looking for a female FWB for girly shopping times, days out etc as well as intimate fun.

So far our efforts have been frustrated as many women think that that this is an attempt by both of us to bed a unicorn. This isn't the case.

Any idea where we might find such a person? Please PM rather than name other websites.

ThanksWhy is it the male always asking for the female...is she incapable of looking herself Why as the male are you having such an input on something you say has nothing to do with you

What are you - the Fab forum Police?

We are a couple and as is expicitly stated on our profile, unless it is made clear otherwise it will be the male who writes on Fabswingers and that is how it has been since we first joined.

You don't like what is written - please feel free to go and moan on someone else's thread. I wont tell you how to live your life so please dont try to tell us what to do with ours. Getting on for 12 years in this scene and one of the first 100 members of Xtasia back in the day we don't need to be told what we want and like - albeit sometimes a bit of help finding is always useful."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im looking for women and couples to have fun with x

is my age the problem?. im a very mature 24yo Bi lady for my age x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs H is actively looking for a female FWB for girly shopping times, days out etc as well as intimate fun.

So far our efforts have been frustrated as many women think that that this is an attempt by both of us to bed a unicorn. This isn't the case.

Any idea where we might find such a person? Please PM rather than name other websites.

Thanks"

No unicorns here

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Any well known porn site will have them. Definitely. And their definitely proper lesbianists and not just actresses pretending to be. Cos they say all the lesbianese stuff to each other an' that. Innit!

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

It look like it is a male half fantasy, as why she did not post it herself

We wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs H is actively looking for a female FWB for girly shopping times, days out etc as well as intimate fun.

So far our efforts have been frustrated as many women think that that this is an attempt by both of us to bed a unicorn. This isn't the case.

Any idea where we might find such a person? Please PM rather than name other websites.

ThanksWhy is it the male always asking for the female...is she incapable of looking herself Why as the male are you having such an input on something you say has nothing to do with you

What are you - the Fab forum Police?

We are a couple and as is expicitly stated on our profile, unless it is made clear otherwise it will be the male who writes on Fabswingers and that is how it has been since we first joined.

You don't like what is written - please feel free to go and moan on someone else's thread. I wont tell you how to live your life so please dont try to tell us what to do with ours. Getting on for 12 years in this scene and one of the first 100 members of Xtasia back in the day we don't need to be told what we want and like - albeit sometimes a bit of help finding is always useful."
once again...the man having a rant...are you fixed up yet...no

Maybe wife should grab the keyboard# officerswingwatch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No other site needed - I think if you're clear about what she wants there's plenty on here who'd be interested x"

Twirl had a single profile on here for some time with the aim of meeting women to go to clubs etc.

What she actually got was lots of messages from 'women' who needed to bring a bloke along with them.

Next to nothing from single women looking to meet single women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Why as the male are you having such an input on something you say has nothing to do with you

Dead right - couldn't have put it better!

Who wants to meet a woman for friendship etc who can't even speak for herself...?

"

These are definitely ones to avoid. 9/10 it's just a man sat at a keyboard with a lesbian fixation. Any genuine women would message themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women I know who are 'mostly lesbians' aren't really into 'girlie stuff'. In fact most women I know who like women at all aren't particularly girlie in the way you describe...

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"

Why as the male are you having such an input on something you say has nothing to do with you

Dead right - couldn't have put it better!

Who wants to meet a woman for friendship etc who can't even speak for herself...?

"

Yes exactly this! if she wants to meet me she can converse with me and me herself.

Due to there being so many couples where either the male is a FF fantasist, it's just a male pretending to be a couple (the way some single F profiles are men pretending) or the guy is slyly trying to meet you behind the woman's back is the reason I know stick to meeting couples and women in clubs far less hassle and if you've encountered a bullshitter there's other fun to be had while there

If you keep with the approach you've got it's my opinion that you're going to continue to struggle. If she wants this and "it's nothing to do with you" let her find it. I wouldn't jump through hoops to meet anyone? let alone the ones by a male half of a couple where the friendship with the female half is the sole goal.

In the vanilla world me and my female friends husbands/partners make polite conversation when we see each other but we're not the friends so I don't need to know them beyond making pleasantries

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London


"

Why as the male are you having such an input on something you say has nothing to do with you

Dead right - couldn't have put it better!

Who wants to meet a woman for friendship etc who can't even speak for herself...?

Yes exactly this! if she wants to meet me she can converse with me and me herself.

Due to there being so many couples where either the male is a FF fantasist, it's just a male pretending to be a couple (the way some single F profiles are men pretending) or the guy is slyly trying to meet you behind the woman's back is the reason I know stick to meeting couples and women in clubs far less hassle and if you've encountered a bullshitter there's other fun to be had while there

If you keep with the approach you've got it's my opinion that you're going to continue to struggle. If she wants this and "it's nothing to do with you" let her find it. I wouldn't jump through hoops to meet anyone? let alone the ones by a male half of a couple where the friendship with the female half is the sole goal.

In the vanilla world me and my female friends husbands/partners make polite conversation when we see each other but we're not the friends so I don't need to know them beyond making pleasantries "

Well put indeed

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By *oo hot OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

Reading some of the responses on this thread made me remember just why we stopped actively using this site a few years ago and decided to just go to Clubs.

There can be little in this life that is more ironic than swingers being judgemental about people of whom they know nothing at all about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading some of the responses on this thread made me remember just why we stopped actively using this site a few years ago and decided to just go to Clubs.

There can be little in this life that is more ironic than swingers being judgemental about people of whom they know nothing at all about.

"

I think most responses to this sort of thing are by people with no experience of what they're discussing so I wouldn't take them too seriously (better still not at all!).

Clubs is definitely better. Twirl also found people via 'Fet Munches'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think most responses to this sort of thing are by people with no experience of what they're discussing so I wouldn't take them too seriously (better still not at all!).

."

What, you mean like those of us who are female and prefer women?

You're right. We've got no experience of women...

(Seriously, everything on this thread is a totally reasonable point. I'd never in a million years meet a woman if the whole thing had been set up by a man. Why would I bother, when I can just meet women who don't need a man to be their keeper?)

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Mrs H is actively looking for a female FWB for girly shopping times, days out etc as well as intimate fun.

"

Sounds good to me and the main reason I joined fab. Unfortunately it's proven to be extremely difficult to find women who want the same thing. It's a good job I like cock to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think most responses to this sort of thing are by people with no experience of what they're discussing so I wouldn't take them too seriously (better still not at all!).

.

What, you mean like those of us who are female and prefer women?

You're right. We've got no experience of women...

(Seriously, everything on this thread is a totally reasonable point. I'd never in a million years meet a woman if the whole thing had been set up by a man. Why would I bother, when I can just meet women who don't need a man to be their keeper?)"

The only thing you offered was a quite snotty reply based on the women you know/prefer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think most responses to this sort of thing are by people with no experience of what they're discussing so I wouldn't take them too seriously (better still not at all!).

.

What, you mean like those of us who are female and prefer women?

You're right. We've got no experience of women...

(Seriously, everything on this thread is a totally reasonable point. I'd never in a million years meet a woman if the whole thing had been set up by a man. Why would I bother, when I can just meet women who don't need a man to be their keeper?)

The only thing you offered was a quite snotty reply based on the women you know/prefer."

In my experience, as a woman who has been dating other women for nearly 20 years, most women who like other women (to the extent that they will date other women rather than just occasionally fuck) aren't generally the overly feminine types who will do things like girlie coffee dates and shopping. To most women I know who prefer women, suggesting shopping and girlie coffee dates would raise the question 'would you look for a man to fuck who liked shopping and girlie coffee dates?'

It's a huge male fantasy that your Mrs will be out shopping one minute and then fucking her 'girlfriend' the next. And the fact that the opening post was written by a man who controls a couples profile only serves to back that up and reinforce those problematic stereotypes.

While you do occasionally find a femme (and I mean a femme in the lesbian terminology sense of the word rather than just 'a woman') who does enjoy the things that the gentleman in the opening post described, the percentage that would tolerate a man making all the arrangements is likely to be miniscule.

If the gentleman's partner would like to meet women alone she should get her own profile, rather than having a man control who she gets to talk to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you find it can you share it with us lesbians

Betty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. I understood the original post to be expressing interest in a bi-fem, not a lesbian (admittedly I haven't checked ).

2. Of the bi-fems I've met, including the one I married - they all seemed to like lipstick and stuff.

3. I'm impressed that your 20 years experience of a certain kind of woman has also given you the necessary insight to speak on behalf of a certain kind of man.

Good work

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"It's a huge male fantasy that your Mrs will be out shopping one minute and then fucking her 'girlfriend' the next. And the fact that the opening post was written by a man who controls a couples profile only serves to back that up and reinforce those problematic stereotypes.

While you do occasionally find a femme (and I mean a femme in the lesbian terminology sense of the word rather than just 'a woman') who does enjoy the things that the gentleman in the opening post described, the percentage that would tolerate a man making all the arrangements is likely to be miniscule.

If the gentleman's partner would like to meet women alone she should get her own profile, rather than having a man control who she gets to talk to."

I'm one of those 'femmes' and although I've only dated women for the past ten years, so maybe not enough experience for the OP, I wholeheartedly agree with Interrupted.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Reading some of the responses on this thread made me remember just why we stopped actively using this site a few years ago and decided to just go to Clubs.

There can be little in this life that is more ironic than swingers being judgemental about people of whom they know nothing at all about.

everyones judgemental on some level, you've just done it yourself in this post, so why people assume the entire rest of the swinging community wouldn't be is always beyond me.

"

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Mrs H is actively looking for a female FWB for girly shopping times, days out etc as well as intimate fun.

So far our efforts have been frustrated as many women think that that this is an attempt by both of us to bed a unicorn. This isn't the case.

Any idea where we might find such a person? Please PM rather than name other websites.

Thanks"

Bet you are glad you asked now...

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By *essThePirateWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Mrs H is actively looking for a female FWB for girly shopping times, days out etc as well as intimate fun.

So far our efforts have been frustrated as many women think that that this is an attempt by both of us to bed a unicorn. This isn't the case.

Any idea where we might find such a person? Please PM rather than name other websites.

Thanks

So basically you want a third party in your marriage.

Sounds like your looking for a woman to be your wife's 'bit on the side'. Even if you found someone, why would they want to settle for being the other woman in a marriage? If they just want a play hook up then fine, but if you find someone who is looking for a relationship then it's not fair to expect them to accept a part time one.

That's exactly what I thought. XXX"

So glad to hear that point of view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I've been on dates with Lesbian women in the past, and thy wouldn't have been happy with me being in a Heterosexual relationship "

Ones you met maybe.....but i'm a lesbian and i see married women sometimes with hubbys blessing..... Never bothered me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok. This is my advice to OP if you want it. I am a 100% lezzer. We do exist and i been on here from first month fabs came about before that used another... And the only eay for me to meet bi curious, bi, lesbian women is to only speak to the lady. If married its usually an early phonecall to see if it is the lady and to make sure the hubby knows she will be meeting me for a social and/ or fun... If a man mailed me as part of a couple i'd politly ask if she can mail me and do an early webcam chat/ wave and a phonecall to see if we both click. Let her come forward and make this happen for you both as there is way too many men who are single or use ex wife or wife pics to sit there with his babyoil at the thought of his ' misses' getting it on with a full blown lesbian just my two pence worth on how i go about things. It be the only way i'd meet up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm friends with a polyamorous couple who have this exact set set up and it works brilliantly for all three of them. Over the past twelve Years or so the wife has had girlfriends. The husband, children and even their parents are all happy with it. So yes, there are women out there who don't mind being the part time lover and who like shopping and girlie stuff! When they have been looking for lovers for her, they have used a well known dating site, having both a couples page and their own pages. The key is to be totally honest about your relationship and what you're looking for from the start. It's not everyone cup of tea, but like they say there's someone out there for everyone. Good luck x

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By *essThePirateWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

The messages I get from couples are usually them telling me about their fantasies. Not them trying to seduce me. And I can tell if it the guy messaging...

Coupes join here and assume it is full of bi mff girls.

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Keep an eye on cupids web site they have a ladies only night on some Tuesday's.

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By *KMaxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Lesbians R Us ?

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Mrs H is actively looking for a female FWB for girly shopping times, days out etc as well as intimate fun.

So far our efforts have been frustrated as many women think that that this is an attempt by both of us to bed a unicorn. This isn't the case.

Any idea where we might find such a person? Please PM rather than name other websites.

ThanksWhy is it the male always asking for the female...is she incapable of looking herself Why as the male are you having such an input on something you say has nothing to do with you

What are you - the Fab forum Police?

We are a couple and as is expicitly stated on our profile, unless it is made clear otherwise it will be the male who writes on Fabswingers and that is how it has been since we first joined.

You don't like what is written - please feel free to go and moan on someone else's thread. I wont tell you how to live your life so please dont try to tell us what to do with ours. Getting on for 12 years in this scene and one of the first 100 members of Xtasia back in the day we don't need to be told what we want and like - albeit sometimes a bit of help finding is always useful.once again...the man having a rant...are you fixed up yet...no

Maybe wife should grab the keyboard# officerswingwatch"

I hope you find what she is looking for.

I know enough about you both to know that this isn't some veiled attempt to snag a unicorn.

Maybe popping along to bi nights at Chams etc would be helpful or begin with some socials (ladies that lunch) and let the relationship evolve (or not).

However you proceed, I wish you both luck.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Mrs H is actively looking for a female FWB for girly shopping times, days out etc as well as intimate fun.

So far our efforts have been frustrated as many women think that that this is an attempt by both of us to bed a unicorn. This isn't the case.

Any idea where we might find such a person? Please PM rather than name other websites.

ThanksWhy is it the male always asking for the female...is she incapable of looking herself Why as the male are you having such an input on something you say has nothing to do with you

What are you - the Fab forum Police?

We are a couple and as is expicitly stated on our profile, unless it is made clear otherwise it will be the male who writes on Fabswingers and that is how it has been since we first joined.

You don't like what is written - please feel free to go and moan on someone else's thread. I wont tell you how to live your life so please dont try to tell us what to do with ours. Getting on for 12 years in this scene and one of the first 100 members of Xtasia back in the day we don't need to be told what we want and like - albeit sometimes a bit of help finding is always useful.once again...the man having a rant...are you fixed up yet...no

Maybe wife should grab the keyboard# officerswingwatch

I hope you find what she is looking for.

I know enough about you both to know that this isn't some veiled attempt to snag a unicorn.

Maybe popping along to bi nights at Chams etc would be helpful or begin with some socials (ladies that lunch) and let the relationship evolve (or not).

However you proceed, I wish you both luck.

"

Psst! Its me Seduced. Ignore current silly user name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women I know who are 'mostly lesbians' aren't really into 'girlie stuff'. In fact most women I know who like women at all aren't particularly girlie in the way you describe..."

Sure my lesbian FWB meets me for "girly shopping times" - in the men's department

I concur, solo profile/own agency otherwise it's a couple's request firmly lodged in unicorn chaser world. I still can't get used to how people on the forums will actively ask for advice but then won't even consider it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LesbosHateBi.com

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By *oo hot OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Mrs H is actively looking for a female FWB for girly shopping times, days out etc as well as intimate fun.

So far our efforts have been frustrated as many women think that that this is an attempt by both of us to bed a unicorn. This isn't the case.

Any idea where we might find such a person? Please PM rather than name other websites.

ThanksWhy is it the male always asking for the female...is she incapable of looking herself Why as the male are you having such an input on something you say has nothing to do with you

What are you - the Fab forum Police?

We are a couple and as is expicitly stated on our profile, unless it is made clear otherwise it will be the male who writes on Fabswingers and that is how it has been since we first joined.

You don't like what is written - please feel free to go and moan on someone else's thread. I wont tell you how to live your life so please dont try to tell us what to do with ours. Getting on for 12 years in this scene and one of the first 100 members of Xtasia back in the day we don't need to be told what we want and like - albeit sometimes a bit of help finding is always useful.once again...the man having a rant...are you fixed up yet...no

Maybe wife should grab the keyboard# officerswingwatch

I hope you find what she is looking for.

I know enough about you both to know that this isn't some veiled attempt to snag a unicorn.

Maybe popping along to bi nights at Chams etc would be helpful or begin with some socials (ladies that lunch) and let the relationship evolve (or not).

However you proceed, I wish you both luck.

"

Thanks Babe x c Good to see you tonight as well you Party animal x X

See you soon.

Ps she hooked up with a 21 yr old temptress tonight! Times are changing for sure x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Aaaand again, men are sure they know better than women, even on matters relating solely to women!

With most of the women saying the same thing, it sure is a good thing we have a couple of blokes to tell us how it really is. Even if one of those men actually started by asking for advice because he can't get what he wants!

"Yes, I know you have 20 years experience of this but I'm a *man*"

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By *limandtrim300Couple
over a year ago

Ely


"Reading some of the responses on this thread made me remember just why we stopped actively using this site a few years ago and decided to just go to Clubs.

There can be little in this life that is more ironic than swingers being judgemental about people of whom they know nothing at all about.

"

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"your are either straight bi or a lesbian..

she cant be more lesbian .. no more than you can be more gay

"

Of course you can everyone is on a sliding scale from being totally one way to totally the other and everyday the slide up or down the scale to a lesser or greater extent.

Sexuality is not cast in stone but in reality is fluid.

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