FabSwingers.com forum: Orgy/group sex condom usage

By *eme12345678 OP Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

Okay, safe sex = good sex, but i'm wondering how that transfers to a group situation. Obviously you should change condoms between each partner, that is a no brainer.

But how do you keep the "flow" going....without stopping and starting...or is that just the way of things and expected?

You also have "liquids" on your fingers too....how does that work with reducing infections (alcohol gel ain't that sexy eh?) - or is that just a small risk?

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

That is the bit that confuses me too. I would not want fingers in me that had just been up someone else, but kinda spoils the mood to go wash your hands in the middle of it all lol. So far I have just made sure I am the only female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been to orgies and no condoms have been used

So I don't take it further unless it's just hand play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're gonna engage in group play , then a level of realism has to be entertained .

Of course condoms still should be changed for penetration with different partners .

But fingers and tongue ?

Nope , ridiculous thought to wash fingers between partners . Or to mouthwash between them either .

If that ever happened ( and after no end of group play it hasn't ) we would simply walk away , or ignore the person running backward and forward to clean up between touching , licking and kissing .

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"If you're gonna engage in group play , then a level of realism has to be entertained .

Of course condoms still should be changed for penetration with different partners .

But fingers and tongue ?

Nope , ridiculous thought to wash fingers between partners . Or to mouthwash between them either .

If that ever happened ( and after no end of group play it hasn't ) we would simply walk away , or ignore the person running backward and forward to clean up between touching , licking and kissing .

Genuine question: Why is it ok to transfer bodily fluid from one person to another via the hands/fingers but not via the penis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're gonna engage in group play , then a level of realism has to be entertained .

Of course condoms still should be changed for penetration with different partners .

But fingers and tongue ?

Nope , ridiculous thought to wash fingers between partners . Or to mouthwash between them either .

If that ever happened ( and after no end of group play it hasn't ) we would simply walk away , or ignore the person running backward and forward to clean up between touching , licking and kissing .

Genuine question: Why is it ok to transfer bodily fluid from one person to another via the hands/fingers but not via the penis? "

Less likely to transfer anything as far as I know .... but I may be just assuming .

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By *eme12345678 OP Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

STIs risks really get in the way of the fun

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By *izbitMan
over a year ago

St Helens

Marigolds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay, safe sex = good sex, but i'm wondering how that transfers to a group situation. Obviously you should change condoms between each partner, that is a no brainer.

But how do you keep the "flow" going....without stopping and starting...or is that just the way of things and expected?

You also have "liquids" on your fingers too....how does that work with reducing infections (alcohol gel ain't that sexy eh?) - or is that just a small risk?"

I have alcohol gel and hand wipes...i have been known to go wash my hands and also often have gloves especially if any anal play will be involved...you really dont want to be introducing bowel flora where it isnt supossed to go...spoil the flow? not sexy? yeah, neither is a UTI...you can work it into your play, in a relatively large group I wouldn't be missed for the 30-40 seconds it would take...it would be just like nipping to the loo...anyone bothered by it or me asking them to wipe their hands? I don't give a fuck...

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By *eme12345678 OP Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

"Marigolds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it bothers you don't do group sex x

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

"If it bothers you don't do group sex x"
and here endeth the first lesson .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tough one this.......

on one hand all orgies NOT using condoms carry a much bigger risk of STD's

but there are a lot of us, who enjoy the thrill of BB sex

Jury's out still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Additional I add - that I was invited to a MMMF 4some in two weeks time after meeting the hubby and one of the questions asked was "do you fuck BB" - so couples do actively seek BB meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"STIs risks really get in the way of the fun

Then don't do it!! Become celibate. Simples.

And if the mild effect of STIs worry you that much then the far more wide spread and damaging, often leathal, non STI diseases must scare the shit out of you!!!!

If you don't have a NBC suit to hand i suggest you wear gloves 24/7 and a bio-filter face mask. Never touch or kiss anyone, especially children who are super conductors of contageous diseases.

Also never forget the diseases you can pick up from food. Never go to a public place for food and ensure everything you drink and eat is sterile.

NEVER smoke or engage in dangerous activities like sports, driving, cycling, diving, climbing etc.

Have i put your fears in context OP? Live your life man!! Get tested and if needed get treated, but dont forget you only have one life. Simples!!

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