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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I must be doing something wrong...meets are like unicorns....conversations are like fairy dust ....what am I doing wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 meets...... where's your problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be doing something wrong...meets are like unicorns....conversations are like fairy dust ....what am I doing wrong lol "

You realise that message recipients will look at your profile before deciding whether to respond to you or delete your message?

You are 28. You have some life experience. Use it. Do you think that a lady looking at your profile might say to herself, "Ah, yes, he looks an interesting prospect" or do you think that she might move on to one of the many other prospects who are inviting?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The man was part of the first couple I met so that's only to meets and it was like mission impossible just to get them 2 meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I must be doing something wrong...meets are like unicorns....conversations are like fairy dust ....what am I doing wrong lol

You realise that message recipients will look at your profile before deciding whether to respond to you or delete your message?

You are 28. You have some life experience. Use it. Do you think that a lady looking at your profile might say to herself, "Ah, yes, he looks an interesting prospect" or do you think that she might move on to one of the many other prospects who are inviting?

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it's not a place to put your life story there's nothing wrong with talk to someone to find out about them rarther than just read a life story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be doing something wrong...meets are like unicorns....conversations are like fairy dust ....what am I doing wrong lol

You realise that message recipients will look at your profile before deciding whether to respond to you or delete your message?

You are 28. You have some life experience. Use it. Do you think that a lady looking at your profile might say to herself, "Ah, yes, he looks an interesting prospect" or do you think that she might move on to one of the many other prospects who are inviting?

it's not a place to put your life story there's nothing wrong with talk to someone to find out about them rarther than just read a life story "

I gave my view. It is not yours. That is fine.

Nowhere, by the way, did I mention telling a life story.

I simply asked you to read your own profile, your statement to other swingers about yourself, and ask yourself whether you would be attracted.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I must be doing something wrong...meets are like unicorns....conversations are like fairy dust ....what am I doing wrong lol

You realise that message recipients will look at your profile before deciding whether to respond to you or delete your message?

You are 28. You have some life experience. Use it. Do you think that a lady looking at your profile might say to herself, "Ah, yes, he looks an interesting prospect" or do you think that she might move on to one of the many other prospects who are inviting?

it's not a place to put your life story there's nothing wrong with talk to someone to find out about them rarther than just read a life story "

Not your life story no, but more about what you seek and what kind of person you are...have more set out in your shop window, rather than just a sign saying "Enquire within"....why would they?

I also don't believe that declaring how hard it is to get a meet is not really making you more enticing either...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are 28."

... but he might also be 33.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"You are 28.

... but he might also be 33."

He's aged a lot in the 7 months he's been on here.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP I always read profiles before I look at the message. In your case I would delete the message without reading it.

The reason for this is because you have no public photos. Your profile text tells me nothing - you have written more in this forum post than in your profile. You have conflicting information on your profile - how can you be 28 years old and 33 years old. Would you really meet a 99 year old?

There are probably 100 single men on here for every couple or single lady. That means that you need to make a big effort to get any results on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wondering what pointers anyone would give me about my profile?

as a single profile is all new to me after being here as a couple

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"OP I always read profiles before I look at the message. In your case I would delete the message without reading it.

The reason for this is because you have no public photos. Your profile text tells me nothing - you have written more in this forum post than in your profile. You have conflicting information on your profile - how can you be 28 years old and 33 years old. Would you really meet a 99 year old?

There are probably 100 single men on here for every couple or single lady. That means that you need to make a big effort to get any results on Fab "

All the above plus negativity.

At least you have had meets, maybe try a club.

Single men who are good socially do well in clubs, if they behave well.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be doing something wrong...meets are like unicorns....conversations are like fairy dust ....what am I doing wrong lol "

This sites based more on sales the women would rather you sell yourself so highly like an avatar movie that its impossible to live upto those expectations. So in meets they are dissapointed and then moan about it. Its a no win for men here unless they literally choose you first haha men will fuck anything. Women.. No they need a personality to go with a dick becauae conversations and holiday planning in bedroom is a major goal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be doing something wrong...meets are like unicorns....conversations are like fairy dust ....what am I doing wrong lol "

Maybe you should lower your expectations?

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