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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, I haven't had a meet yet, not even a social, anybody who can give me a hand over here I would be very grateful, I'm a pretty nice guy to talk to lol, but can never seem to get that conversation going, anyway, I await some gurus advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people will look at a profile before even reading the message so if it holds no attraction you will not get a look in so maybe start by improving that?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

You need to set out your store to entice people to enter.....

At the moment there's no attraction to passers by at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may be the most awesome guy in the world, but how does someone looking at your profile know that?

And no one replies to a message about looking at the profile.

In fact, most look at the profile to decide if it's even worth reading the message.

Be a peacock, matey.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Get out to a social and meet people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks taking it all in guys and girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taking it in is one thing, doings something about it is another.

Your profile is your shop window to the women of fab. Will you dress it up to look amazing and it makes the ladies stop and take notice, or do you leave it sparsely decorated with very little substance and the ladies walk right on by to the next guy who's got the amazing display?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people will look at a profile before even reading the message so if it holds no attraction you will not get a look in so maybe start by improving that? "

OP, read your own profile? Would it attract you?

"If you'd like to know anything about me just ask, I love to chat." Has anyone asked? No? That is the laziest line in a profile. Your profile is for you to set out your bright shiny stall.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

See thing is, I could type out a huge profile, but which subject to choose lol, do I go on about me in general, I mean I could write a lot about what I'm like in the bedroom department but don't want to come across as big headed, or seem like I'm bragging, I know what this site is about but still would like to try and remain a gentleman, atleast where it counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See thing is, I could type out a huge profile, but which subject to choose lol, do I go on about me in general, I mean I could write a lot about what I'm like in the bedroom department but don't want to come across as big headed, or seem like I'm bragging, I know what this site is about but still would like to try and remain a gentleman, atleast where it counts"

Why are you here, what are you looking for, what can you offer potential meets? You need to write a whole lot more and try getting your personality and humour across. Also, with no pics, people won't look twice, there are literally thousands of profiles on here like yours, instantly forgettable I'm sorry to say.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"See thing is, I could type out a huge profile, but which subject to choose lol, do I go on about me in general, I mean I could write a lot about what I'm like in the bedroom department but don't want to come across as big headed, or seem like I'm bragging, I know what this site is about but still would like to try and remain a gentleman, atleast where it counts"

I deliberately avoid making graphic and extravagant far-fetched claims on my profile and that works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

York social is om the 2nd December

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

James; ask yourself, of the female profiles on here, would you approach the ones who put up some pics to show what they are like and write a bit of bumph about who they are and what they're seeking or the ones with no avatar, no public pics and a profile that pretty much only reiterates their name and says they "don't get out much"?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you I'll definitely be giving my profile a touch up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"York social is om the 2nd December "

Perfect, there you go OP, your chance to get out and about, get yourself known and get several veris in one go!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very good point, I like a well written profile, after reading it, it gives me more to say when I message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you I'll definitely be giving my profile a touch up "

Is that your profile touched up?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Thank you I'll definitely be giving my profile a touch up

Is that your profile touched up?"

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"York social is om the 2nd December

Perfect, there you go OP, your chance to get out and about, get yourself known and get several veris in one go!"

You should definitely go to the social. Always busy with friendly people and lots of other single men. You can get a guest list in advance and you could message people before you go.

Sally

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

No changes made it seems :/

At the end of the day OP

You get out what you put in.

But you can't complain about stuff if you ask for pointers, ignore everything and don't put yourself out there!!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

[Removed by poster at 25/10/16 10:14:59]

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Yep...another that asks why ...is given good advice and days later ..nada, if I had a head wobble emoji I'd be suggesting he did that..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I haven't had time, haven't even logged on lol, been moving and buying a new car, life has me pinned at the moment

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Ohhhhh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't had time, haven't even logged on lol, been moving and buying a new car, life has me pinned at the moment "

Riiiiight so a profile like yours is one where you just sit back and wait for the offers to roll in.

Let us know in a year how that works out for you

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

The more you help people the more difficult it will be for others to sift out those who are worth meeting.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"The more you help people the more difficult it will be for others to sift out those who are worth meeting.

"

Well that might be true if these guys actually took the advice given, but it seems most of them don't....

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Hi, I haven't had a meet yet, not even a social, anybody who can give me a hand over here I would be very grateful, I'm a pretty nice guy to talk to lol, but can never seem to get that conversation going, anyway, I await some gurus advice "

Would you bother to walk into a clothes shop if you had to remove covers from the clothes just to see if you like the pattern of the fabric, let alone the fabric itself?

No I wouldn't either

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't had time, haven't even logged on lol, been moving and buying a new car, life has me pinned at the moment "

So why ask for advice if you are not prepared to act on it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks taking it all in guys and girls "

No you aint, you've taken nothing in, you started this thread 4 days ago and your profile is still dire!

These people have wasted there time answering your 'look at me thread'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get some pics up, not just a cock pic, but your face - even if in the friends only - body pics. Rewrite your profile, and get rid of the "don't know what to write in this, lol" not a good opening line..

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Give the guy a chance.!!! He has explained his had moved house. I am sure he will spend some time sorting out fab once he has sorted out his life.

I personally think he has his priorities right.

Oh matey...you better improve the profile now I have stood up for ya

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Give the guy a chance.!!! He has explained his had moved house. I am sure he will spend some time sorting out fab once he has sorted out his life.

I personally think he has his priorities right.

Oh matey...you better improve the profile now I have stood up for ya "

Thank you I promise, I'll get right on it

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

You've done it! A bit of a tiring read without a single full stop!I appreciate you don't want to show your face but I really think you need some sort of photo for your avatar. Lots of people delete messages without reading them if there is just the black silhouette.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give the guy a chance.!!! He has explained his had moved house. I am sure he will spend some time sorting out fab once he has sorted out his life.

I personally think he has his priorities right.

Oh matey...you better improve the profile now I have stood up for ya

Thank you I promise, I'll get right on it "

Finally!!

Well done, but may we could give some constructive advice?

Break it up into paragraphs a little James. We understand that you have now decided to give a full description of yourself and that is great, but maybe break it up into bite-sized chunks so it looks easy on the eye.

Also, maybe you should look at public photos? At least one. No need to show your face as we all need to be careful there, but something to show yourself and maybe just blank the face out.

Not criticising what you have done as you have taken great steps in the right direction finally!

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any pointers on my profile while im here? And they will be taken on board and delt with unlike a lot of people

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Any pointers on my profile while im here? And they will be taken on board and delt with unlike a lot of people "

You could start your own thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good shout ill do that shortly thanks

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Get out to a social and meet people "
this ..im organising one in november but probably too far away for you..look in the meets or events section xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I haven't had a meet yet, not even a social, anybody who can give me a hand over here I would be very grateful, I'm a pretty nice guy to talk to lol, but can never seem to get that conversation going, anyway, I await some gurus advice "

Not a single pic of anything and one big square block of text, I'd honestly doubt anyone would bother to give it more than 2 seconds before clicking away.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Hi, I haven't had a meet yet, not even a social, anybody who can give me a hand over here I would be very grateful, I'm a pretty nice guy to talk to lol, but can never seem to get that conversation going, anyway, I await some gurus advice

Not a single pic of anything and one big square block of text, I'd honestly doubt anyone would bother to give it more than 2 seconds before clicking away."

Exactly this! Couldn't be arsed as too sore on the eyes and brain to compute, also no public pics? You have no chance! This isn't blind date!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He loves a comma!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks again, I'll do some rearranging

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

I did read your profile , mainly because you appear to be a decent guy.

It wasn't an easy read though. Perhaps too much info this time.

The lack of any (even if they are just torso, butt or the classic shirt/ suit ), photos , would mean I would just bypass you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even bother if there's no pic. I'm the same when shopping, if I can't see it, I don't buy it. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jeeezzzzusss christ almighhty.

Fuck me talk about pressure...

Reading through some of the comments and the rude, patronising and at times quite harsh 'advice' as you guys call it, even i felt uncomfortable for the poor bloke (and i can assure u all now i am probs one of the biggest c**ts out there on fab when it comes to being blunt and brutal to some of the dickwads that frequent the site) but fuck me seriously gove the guy a break ffs..

i personally would like to applaude u for still having your account on fab coz i tell ya what readin thru some of that did not make Fabs look like a 'place to be' and i been here a year and got my pic on profile and verified by meets and cam. it came across as quite a hhorrible place in fact but anyway thats by the by...

lets face it fab is what u make it. you can right an essay about yaself and ya can make it all grammatically correct and separate it in nice chunk size blocks but for every user that will appreciate the effort there will also be a user in return that will say ahh ffs too long or too much writing or dont care

i havent actually read ur profile dude no offence and not coz i dont wanna help but purely because u need to base ya profile on the type of people you are looking to meet

for example i know alot of couple (that are real couples or married etc and not just fuck buddies) like all that schpill on a profile and like to know someone for a meet

fuckbuddies might not give a fuck what ya profile says or how many words or paragraphs there are coz they are only interested in whether u r hung like a funkin donkey or not. so if ur wanga aint up to the inch mark requirement theyve set ur off the interest list for them (like gettin on a ride at theme park if ur under certain height u dont ride yano what im gettin at yeah)

some girls want tall well hung etc etc some want couples

i can only speak for myself here and i apologise for offending anyone by sayin but if im honest if ur looking for single lady u just gotta hit and hope i fink.

most days i get in the region of 100 plus msgs as single female on here. so from my perspective it dont matter for shit if u got nice chunk size paragraphs in ya profile textm or if said profile text is informative and tells me about u to be honest i have got to point where i have literally started to filter msgs down by the following

1. are they in my age range if not generally click to next unless i know them

2. does it have a face profile pic..

if yes tick ill entertain it and read it

3. if not (including cock or chest or other non face profile pics used) is there face pic attached

if there aint i generally will click go to next unread and not read unless ive spoken to that person and know that they sent b4 or have seen and remember username and pics etc by lookin at profile previously etc etc

for me its a mutual physical attraction u can be nicest guy in world but if i aint sexually attracted to u i aint gonna fuck u so to me theres no point pursuing,

thats seems harsh and shallow i know but with respect if i made convo with everyone to become friendcs id never get a meet as id be constantly repkyin to msgs from people i dont want to meet on that level ie to go further with and have sex with

i can also say if i get a msg from someone 9 times outta 10 i will not entertain a reply without seeing face pic and i also know that most probs 80per cent of people on here are the same. so if u dont attach a pic of u ( which u dont have to show on ya profile and just attach with msgs to people u want to see ya face theres also a tick box to attach every time u msg which is clever isnt it so u dont have to remember to attach every time)

lets face it if ya dont and someone replys to ur msg the msg u get back i can guarantee will say face pics please? so why go to effort of msgin without i dont know but thats a handy hint for ya

look at it this way wen you browse ur criteria of what u looking for (if you are specific) u will generally then filter results i imagine initially by the pic and whether u find them attractive

so why the hell would they be different. its all very well wanting to keep ya face discreeet etc and not havin in public gallery but ya can hardly turn up to meet someone with a fekkin bag over ya head so they dont see ya mug

personally i fink if u find the meets or msging hard ur prob best off gettin ball rollin by gettin to ya local club or goin to social events like peeps have said

once u meet people at those u will get opportunity to talk like u said ur good to talk to and then u can get a few verifications by meets come in whether it be socially met people do (take a look at mine from few females ive met for a piss up from on here, nothing sexually related in it at all just mates and they aint that way inclined either its purely a piss up) that will then make you a real person coz lets face it its hard enuf as it is to get a decent meet and then they show up etc with time wasters on here so if u got no verifications by meet etc people aint gonna entertain ya profile without any pics regardless of how pretty uve typed it.

perhaps if ur good at the talk u shud try a chat room

get ya cam goin go into your local room whatever and chat to people and go in regularly enuf for ur username to become recognised

but make sure u talk. and if ya can put webcam on so people can see you who are chattin in room its always nice to put face to a user i find and to be honest it will also probs save you the agg of messaging 100 girls after all ur efforts just to maybe get what 2 or 3 replys

if u can any at all

cuts the time wasted on msgin people and scrollin thru peeps profiles to msg

up to u tho mate just sayin from a different angle innit

i apologise if it doesnt suit u and soz for not reading ya profile but i was making a point by not doin

you write all that and people will still ask u questions which can be answered by readin ya profile so do ya really need to put it all out there

no i dont think u do, if you are what people are looking for and wish to go on to meet they will ask u any questions of what they wanna know bout u

some may ask more questions thatn others

but u will basically just repeating what u got on ya profile regardless so u could just say hi im bob from builder town im 94 years old with the body of a 22 year old and still got my own teeth... if ya still interested and if theres anything else u wish to know msg me and ask and if i can be arsed and ive got the time i might reply

happy swinging mofos

i guarantee ya that will probs get u a few msgs more than u currently do

lol

go with what u want dude its ur profile write as much or as little as u choose but i can guarantee itll make no odds

u need to get out there my son to a social gathering or friendly meet or go hardcore balls out and donging as u walk to a local or near swinging club babes

cut the time u spend on profile researching when and where they are and do it

gotta have balls in this world im afraid

most preferably for u in a hand or gob i imagine

good luck my friend and dont feel u have to do anything yh

u asked for advice good on ya but u do not have to do anything u do not want to just coz its bein said here that u shud

now thatss a fuckin reply my fingers are aching now haha

good luck pal xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[and before anyone starts being muggy and fuckin smart arse i dont care if i dont spell all the words correctly or what u fink i was just sayin from my perspective to original thread and comments since

i couldnt care less who agrees and who dont sso please spare the quoting me and the sarky bullshhit comments to retort

just drop me out yeah

all i done is given a different opinion on the matter

and yes quite a long one to so neeerrr

hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"jeeezzzzusss christ almighhty.

Fuck me talk about pressure...

Reading through some of the comments and the rude, patronising and at times quite harsh 'advice' as you guys call it, even i felt uncomfortable for the poor bloke (and i can assure u all now i am probs one of the biggest c**ts out there on fab when it comes to being blunt and brutal to some of the dickwads that frequent the site) but fuck me seriously gove the guy a break ffs..

i personally would like to applaude u for still having your account on fab coz i tell ya what readin thru some of that did not make Fabs look like a 'place to be' and i been here a year and got my pic on profile and verified by meets and cam. it came across as quite a hhorrible place in fact but anyway thats by the by...

lets face it fab is what u make it. you can right an essay about yaself and ya can make it all grammatically correct and separate it in nice chunk size blocks but for every user that will appreciate the effort there will also be a user in return that will say ahh ffs too long or too much writing or dont care

i havent actually read ur profile dude no offence and not coz i dont wanna help but purely because u need to base ya profile on the type of people you are looking to meet

for example i know alot of couple (that are real couples or married etc and not just fuck buddies) like all that schpill on a profile and like to know someone for a meet

fuckbuddies might not give a fuck what ya profile says or how many words or paragraphs there are coz they are only interested in whether u r hung like a funkin donkey or not. so if ur wanga aint up to the inch mark requirement theyve set ur off the interest list for them (like gettin on a ride at theme park if ur under certain height u dont ride yano what im gettin at yeah)

some girls want tall well hung etc etc some want couples

i can only speak for myself here and i apologise for offending anyone by sayin but if im honest if ur looking for single lady u just gotta hit and hope i fink.

most days i get in the region of 100 plus msgs as single female on here. so from my perspective it dont matter for shit if u got nice chunk size paragraphs in ya profile textm or if said profile text is informative and tells me about u to be honest i have got to point where i have literally started to filter msgs down by the following

1. are they in my age range if not generally click to next unless i know them

2. does it have a face profile pic..

if yes tick ill entertain it and read it

3. if not (including cock or chest or other non face profile pics used) is there face pic attached

if there aint i generally will click go to next unread and not read unless ive spoken to that person and know that they sent b4 or have seen and remember username and pics etc by lookin at profile previously etc etc

for me its a mutual physical attraction u can be nicest guy in world but if i aint sexually attracted to u i aint gonna fuck u so to me theres no point pursuing,

thats seems harsh and shallow i know but with respect if i made convo with everyone to become friendcs id never get a meet as id be constantly repkyin to msgs from people i dont want to meet on that level ie to go further with and have sex with

i can also say if i get a msg from someone 9 times outta 10 i will not entertain a reply without seeing face pic and i also know that most probs 80per cent of people on here are the same. so if u dont attach a pic of u ( which u dont have to show on ya profile and just attach with msgs to people u want to see ya face theres also a tick box to attach every time u msg which is clever isnt it so u dont have to remember to attach every time)

lets face it if ya dont and someone replys to ur msg the msg u get back i can guarantee will say face pics please? so why go to effort of msgin without i dont know but thats a handy hint for ya

look at it this way wen you browse ur criteria of what u looking for (if you are specific) u will generally then filter results i imagine initially by the pic and whether u find them attractive

so why the hell would they be different. its all very well wanting to keep ya face discreeet etc and not havin in public gallery but ya can hardly turn up to meet someone with a fekkin bag over ya head so they dont see ya mug

personally i fink if u find the meets or msging hard ur prob best off gettin ball rollin by gettin to ya local club or goin to social events like peeps have said

once u meet people at those u will get opportunity to talk like u said ur good to talk to and then u can get a few verifications by meets come in whether it be socially met people do (take a look at mine from few females ive met for a piss up from on here, nothing sexually related in it at all just mates and they aint that way inclined either its purely a piss up) that will then make you a real person coz lets face it its hard enuf as it is to get a decent meet and then they show up etc with time wasters on here so if u got no verifications by meet etc people aint gonna entertain ya profile without any pics regardless of how pretty uve typed it.

perhaps if ur good at the talk u shud try a chat room

get ya cam goin go into your local room whatever and chat to people and go in regularly enuf for ur username to become recognised

but make sure u talk. and if ya can put webcam on so people can see you who are chattin in room its always nice to put face to a user i find and to be honest it will also probs save you the agg of messaging 100 girls after all ur efforts just to maybe get what 2 or 3 replys

if u can any at all

cuts the time wasted on msgin people and scrollin thru peeps profiles to msg

up to u tho mate just sayin from a different angle innit

i apologise if it doesnt suit u and soz for not reading ya profile but i was making a point by not doin

you write all that and people will still ask u questions which can be answered by readin ya profile so do ya really need to put it all out there

no i dont think u do, if you are what people are looking for and wish to go on to meet they will ask u any questions of what they wanna know bout u

some may ask more questions thatn others

but u will basically just repeating what u got on ya profile regardless so u could just say hi im bob from builder town im 94 years old with the body of a 22 year old and still got my own teeth... if ya still interested and if theres anything else u wish to know msg me and ask and if i can be arsed and ive got the time i might reply

happy swinging mofos

i guarantee ya that will probs get u a few msgs more than u currently do

lol

go with what u want dude its ur profile write as much or as little as u choose but i can guarantee itll make no odds

u need to get out there my son to a social gathering or friendly meet or go hardcore balls out and donging as u walk to a local or near swinging club babes

cut the time u spend on profile researching when and where they are and do it

gotta have balls in this world im afraid

most preferably for u in a hand or gob i imagine

good luck my friend and dont feel u have to do anything yh

u asked for advice good on ya but u do not have to do anything u do not want to just coz its bein said here that u shud

now thatss a fuckin reply my fingers are aching now haha

good luck pal xxxx"

Wow that's more than I could of expected from this thread lol, thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will someone look at my profile and tell me what I'm doing wrong and how I can improve it please

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Will someone look at my profile and tell me what I'm doing wrong and how I can improve it please"

What did you learn from reading this thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people will look at a profile before even reading the message so if it holds no attraction you will not get a look in so maybe start by improving that?

OP, read your own profile? Would it attract you?

"If you'd like to know anything about me just ask, I love to chat." Has anyone asked? No? That is the laziest line in a profile. Your profile is for you to set out your bright shiny stall."

Absolutely this!!

You need photos, they don't have to be of your face. And not half a dozen cock shots either - torso, chest, half dressed, naked ... there's a lot you could do. Your write up is too long & doesn't tell me anything interesting. What do you like, what are you looking for, what brought you to fab, what gets you off? I've just read it & all that stuck in my mind was that you work a lot & oil your beard. You need to stand out & if your profile doesn't, your message won't matter

Hope that helps x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Thanks again, I'll do some rearranging"

Rearranged to remove all text now!

I didn't see the improved narrative but you're going in the wrong direction again!

And can't stress enough you need photos and an avatar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can anyone please give me some advice on my profile I'm not the greatest at selling myself in writing lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

There is no profile

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Can anyone please give me some advice on my profile I'm not the greatest at selling myself in writing lol"

Do a forum search for Profile Advice and have a good read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean me cause my profile should be public

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By *ait88Man
over a year ago

Plymouth

Do a search for verified single men of your age group, in your area, and who have not blocked single men. Search for successful guys who are like you, but gets lots of meets. Hotlist the profiles of guys who are similar to you, and are looking for much the same things as you are.

Study the hotlisted profiles. Look at the pictures. Display similar ones on your profile. Study the the blogs. Write similar things about yourself. DO NOT CUT AND PASTE - the women will notice.

Do not expect your new profile to generate unsolicited messages from women. You will still have to make first contact.

If you haven't had a meet within a month of improving your profile, stop sending "fancy a fuck" messages, and start sending sensible ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks again, I'll do some rearranging"

I like your new style of not even a single letter on your profile now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will someone look at my profile and tell me what I'm doing wrong and how I can improve it please

What did you learn from reading this thread?"

Oooh Oooh Oooh, I think I know the answer to this one.

*presses buzzer......

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe he has cunningly shrunk his entire profile text to fit on that single full stop.

Where's my microscope?

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone give me individually some advice to improve? Someone message me and tell me what to do please

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Someone give me individually some advice to improve? Someone message me and tell me what to do please"

Why? I asked you a question up there and you just ignored me. I think you'll ignore any advice given.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No photos to view.

No written profile currently: even if it's under review.

Means no one could possibly consider you a match. A message draws people to your profile - then your profile either turns people on or straight off.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

OP, I think your profile is full. Stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread has become quite entertaining ..

Op.... Why delete your profile text? You are back to square one now

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

The following words come to mind...

GO TO JAIL: Go directly to Jail. Do not pass Go. Do not collect £200.

Let's make a fab version -

Go to NoMeetLand. Go directly to NoMeetLand. Do not pass socials, clubs or all the sexy women there. Do not collect veris

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I'm talking to some nice people now don't need to attract anymore lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's fortunate.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"OP, I think your profile is full. Stop. "

Sally

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