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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had a few convos but no actual meets yet.can be hard to arrange at times but also a bit frustrating.could not accomodating be a big factor ?and worried I come across boring but don't know what ladies expect?the normal thing to ask is hi how's things etc but apparently it bores ppl now as an opening line. :/ any positive feedback anyone?

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

What is your third photo? A beached dolphin?

Sally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is your third photo? A beached dolphin?

Sally"

Well if you get your cock out people moan about dick pics so its the next best thing lol

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"What is your third photo? A beached dolphin?

Sally"

I thought it was a boomerang..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a few convos but no actual meets yet.can be hard to arrange at times but also a bit frustrating.could not accomodating be a big factor ?and worried I come across boring but don't know what ladies expect?the normal thing to ask is hi how's things etc but apparently it bores ppl now as an opening line. :/ any positive feedback anyone?"

Welcome.

One question.

What do you mean when you put 'within reason'?

Otherwise you look fine and I can only say go to clubs and have patience as 3 weeks isn't very long to be a member on here.

If you put the effort in I'm sure you'll meet some great people.

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By *albec26Man
over a year ago

Great Yarmouth

Not a bad profile but agree with post above it has only been three weeks....patience!!

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"Had a few convos but no actual meets yet.can be hard to arrange at times but also a bit frustrating.could not accomodating be a big factor ?and worried I come across boring but don't know what ladies expect?the normal thing to ask is hi how's things etc but apparently it bores ppl now as an opening line. :/ any positive feedback anyone?"

Basically, you have to remember that the ratios between men and women on here are insane.

Every woman has a multitude of men to choose from... She will go for the special ones. Be special, be different...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 weeks isn't that long. I think some folk come on here expecting a shag within a day, take your time and go to some clubs, use the forum (builds a rapport) and remember Rome wasn't built in a day!

G x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"3 weeks isn't that long. I think some folk come on here expecting a shag within a day, take your time and go to some clubs, use the forum (builds a rapport) and remember Rome wasn't built in a day!

G x"

Thanks I had to restart my profile because had technical issues with my profile so linger than 3 weeks but thanks for the feedback.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is your third photo? A beached dolphin?

Sally

I thought it was a boomerang.."

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 weeks isn't that long. I think some folk come on here expecting a shag within a day, take your time and go to some clubs, use the forum (builds a rapport) and remember Rome wasn't built in a day!

G x

Thanks I had to restart my profile because had technical issues with my profile so linger than 3 weeks but thanks for the feedback."

Are you open minded about "race within reason" or age "within reason?"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As you'll notice with similar posts from single guys, being on Fab for just 3 weeks is but a tiny amount of time to secure meets - and then potentially verifications.

Your third photo - as hinted by others - could be replaced with a more flattering photo of you in briefs, so I recommend that you take a load of them, in different places, angles, briefs etc until you find a great shot.

I'd amend the following:

'I am open minded about age and race (within reason)as long as there is some attraction'. It would probably be better to just state your age preferences and then - the obvious - what probably doesn't need including, is that you'll only meet others where there's attraction.

Consider stating instead what sort of people you do find attractive: it's more positive and focused and would allow viewers to decide if you'll find them a good match, if they also like you.

Emphasise your strengths and what you've got to offer. Is there something that makes you unique? Consider that however you mark yourself as distinct will influence people to pick you, rather than the other guys who are messaging them.

If you've some experience of non-vanilla sex, then you could expand upon that. If you're interested, think of adding that too.

But overall, there are really fit, genuine and attractive guys here who spend months waiting for meets. It takes someone with tenacity and patience to hold out for the goods. And that marks those who are determined out from those who are chancers.

Many here don't think that the internet alone optimises your chances for swinging success and I tend to agree. Some people just want more sex. Others are specifically committed to swinging and the range of sexual opportunities that it creates. If you're more of the latter, then people will probably find you more interesting.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had a few convos but no actual meets yet.can be hard to arrange at times but also a bit frustrating.could not accomodating be a big factor ?and worried I come across boring but don't know what ladies expect?the normal thing to ask is hi how's things etc but apparently it bores ppl now as an opening line. :/ any positive feedback anyone?

Welcome.

One question.

What do you mean when you put 'within reason'?

Otherwise you look fine and I can only say go to clubs and have patience as 3 weeks isn't very long to be a member on here.

If you put the effort in I'm sure you'll meet some great people. "

Basically I am open to meeting younger and older people and different races as long as their is some attraction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"3 weeks isn't that long. I think some folk come on here expecting a shag within a day, take your time and go to some clubs, use the forum (builds a rapport) and remember Rome wasn't built in a day!

G x

Thanks I had to restart my profile because had technical issues with my profile so linger than 3 weeks but thanks for the feedback.

Are you open minded about "race within reason" or age "within reason?""

Maybe I haven't made this bit clear.I'm open minded about both but as long as there is some attraction.the age limit would prob be within reason I.e not ridiculously old some people put 99 years old that basically means you will shag anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As you'll notice with similar posts from single guys, being on Fab for just 3 weeks is but a tiny amount of time to secure meets - and then potentially verifications.

Your third photo - as hinted by others - could be replaced with a more flattering photo of you in briefs, so I recommend that you take a load of them, in different places, angles, briefs etc until you find a great shot.

I'd amend the following:

'I am open minded about age and race (within reason)as long as there is some attraction'. It would probably be better to just state your age preferences and then - the obvious - what probably doesn't need including, is that you'll only meet others where there's attraction.

Consider stating instead what sort of people you do find attractive: it's more positive and focused and would allow viewers to decide if you'll find them a good match, if they also like you.

Emphasise your strengths and what you've got to offer. Is there something that makes you unique? Consider that however you mark yourself as distinct will influence people to pick you, rather than the other guys who are messaging them.

If you've some experience of non-vanilla sex, then you could expand upon that. If you're interested, think of adding that too.

But overall, there are really fit, genuine and attractive guys here who spend months waiting for meets. It takes someone with tenacity and patience to hold out for the goods. And that marks those who are determined out from those who are chancers.

Many here don't think that the internet alone optimises your chances for swinging success and I tend to agree. Some people just want more sex. Others are specifically committed to swinging and the range of sexual opportunities that it creates. If you're more of the latter, then people will probably find you more interesting.

Good luck! "

Thanks for the feedback.I am generally a busy guy with work,gym etc so its a way to meet people for hookups with my busy lifestyle.

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