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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you spot them??

Finding it increasingly difficult to find a like-minded couple on here.

Grrrrrr!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you spot them??

Finding it increasingly difficult to find a like-minded couple on here.

Grrrrrr!!!"

*waves*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do exist, although it is hard to spot the genuine with all the fakes on here.

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

Go to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you spot them??

Finding it increasingly difficult to find a like-minded couple on here.

Grrrrrr!!!"

Hellooooo. Jumps us and down saying over here

See, it's that easy xx

T&L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to a club "

We agree with this, very few of our meets are off here, mostly in clubs,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go to a club "

We are new to the club-scene. Been to Kestrels and Eurekas.

Looking for social side too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do you spot them??

Finding it increasingly difficult to find a like-minded couple on here.

Grrrrrr!!!

*waves*"

*waves back*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do you spot them??

Finding it increasingly difficult to find a like-minded couple on here.

Grrrrrr!!!

Hellooooo. Jumps us and down saying over here

See, it's that easy xx

T&L"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We end up meeting single guys more as it's so difficult to meet genuine couples. There seem to be a good percentage of fakes.

There are also some couples who don't seem sure that they really want to do this so, if they are verified, they are verified by webcam or social meet only. It's their choice as the forums will always remind us but remove the fakes and the dreamers/hopefuls then add mutual attraction to the mix and it's difficult to meet good couples. We also struggle but worth it when you do meet a nice couple.

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By *albec26Man
over a year ago

Great Yarmouth

Luckily we haven't had any problems meeting couples most seem genuine. We do spend time talking and getting to know them before having a social

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Luckily we haven't had any problems meeting couples most seem genuine. We do spend time talking and getting to know them before having a social "

That's exactly what we want to do rather than pitch up, strip off and jump boy bed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to a club "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go to a club

"

We do. But we want to get to know the couple first socially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to a club

We do. But we want to get to know the couple first socially."

Yeah, I can understand that. Lots of couples that we play with at clubs on a semi-regular basis we met there initially socially, though.

Don't get me wrong, we've met great couples on here, too, but it is a lot harder for us than in clubs. Plus in clubs Marc and I can determine pretty quickly whether we are both attracted to a couple, or not....

As for finding them here, well, it just takes a lot of proactive behavior and effort. You have to do the searching and mailing yourself, pay attention to how they present themselves on their profile, be attentive to how they communicate, etc. Its possible, but labor intensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here too but best place is a club. It's easy to say no and you're all there together so no arranging required.

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By *leet-duoCouple
over a year ago

Fleet

Pretty easy to spot the genuine ones. Having a read of the Verifications. If it is just a pic of the lady and verifications on webcam only. Then it's not yet the Genuine article. Public pics that show play with others is also another good way to determine the real deal

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By *inkyminxnalsCouple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Hi. We are not far from you. Shame we are over your age range. goodluck with finding meets. Sarah and als.xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it virtually impossible to find genuine couples on here. I need to see their dynamic in action before I even consider meeting them.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"How do you spot them??

Finding it increasingly difficult to find a like-minded couple on here.

Grrrrrr!!!"

Increasingly? You've only been here three weeks!!

We've never had a problem spotting the genuine couples, you just need patience.

(and perhaps an unhealthy degree of cynicism)

Good luck

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi. We are not far from you. Shame we are over your age range. goodluck with finding meets. Sarah and als.xxxxx"

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are very much alive and kicking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can be hard to find but we're completely genuine

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We are a genuine couple but I am too old for you.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are a genuine couple but I am too old for you.

Sally"

Only just Sally! And a bit too far away

You look great xx

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

We are too old too but some tips from experience.

Finding four who get on is more tricky, actually a lot more tricky to find that magic click than say finding a third.

We liken Fabbing to gold panning as in you have to shift a LOT of muck to find that glint of gold.

B2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, we're too old too ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are too old too but some tips from experience.

Finding four who get on is more tricky, actually a lot more tricky to find that magic click than say finding a third.

We liken Fabbing to gold panning as in you have to shift a LOT of muck to find that glint of gold.

B2

"

Haha! We'll continue panning for gold!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yup, we're too old too ??"

Have PM'd you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We did it hard too considering we haven't had our first meet yet. We are meeting a couple this weekend though but we think we may try clubs and parties..atleast that way we know straight away if we are attracted to them and whether they actually want to meet. X

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Luckily we haven't had any problems meeting couples most seem genuine. We do spend time talking and getting to know them before having a social "

This is what we do. Jack.

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

Finding 2 couples that all "feel it" about each other can certainly be a challenge.

Add real life and work into the mix and getting a meet becomes nigh on impossible to organise.

Clubs do seem to be the way forward for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not us, we're fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not us, we're fake "

I have fake boobs, does that make me fake too?

Ps- This isn't my natural hair colour. Shhh

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

waves too!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"How do you spot them??

Finding it increasingly difficult to find a like-minded couple on here.

Grrrrrr!!!"

It depends what you mean by "like minded" it's such a vague phrase.

Genuine is a bit woolly too, genuinely married, genuine fuck buddies or genuinely a man and a woman?

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Genuine !!!! You say.....

I say can't get more genuine, fun and bubbly than us.

Club's are definitely the place to meet genuine people. And again , we too are out of your age range. I know it is a guide, but some people above 50 are hot as hell.

Good luck guys. Oh and a few more pics may help, especially in colour, not black n white xxxxx Suzi

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney


"Genuine !!!! You say.....

I say can't get more genuine, fun and bubbly than us.

Club's are definitely the place to meet genuine people. And again , we too are out of your age range. I know it is a guide, but some people above 50 are hot as hell.

Good luck guys. Oh and a few more pics may help, especially in colour, not black n white xxxxx Suzi

"

So very true

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"Genuine !!!! You say.....

I say can't get more genuine, fun and bubbly than us.

Club's are definitely the place to meet genuine people. And again , we too are out of your age range. I know it is a guide, but some people above 50 are hot as hell.

Good luck guys. Oh and a few more pics may help, especially in colour, not black n white xxxxx Suzi

So very true "

xxxxxx Suzi

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By *errible2sumCouple
over a year ago

london

We are a married couple who have been doing this 5 plus years.

There no sure way of knowing the genuine people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waves hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a genuine couple we've only been swinging since January and do enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thngs are looking up

Been contacted in the last 24 hours by two genuine couples.

Appreciate all the advice and offers. Sorry if you're out of our age range or too far away.

G&A xx

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

We're genuinely fake! At least that's what the last 1000 meets we've had have told us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're genuinely fake! At least that's what the last 1000 meets we've had have told us "

Fake! Well we have never met you so can't comment! Haha... OK so we hide from you at the club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're genuinely fake! At least that's what the last 1000 meets we've had have told us "

I appreciate your honesty! You have some of the best fake photos I've seen! Lol

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House


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I appreciate your honesty! You have some of the best fake photos I've seen! Lol"

Ah well, we had to pretend to be real to persuade the poor fools in the pics to take part. Not a nice thing to do we know, but how else could we pretend not to be fake?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"How do you spot them??

Finding it increasingly difficult to find a like-minded couple on here.

Grrrrrr!!!"

What exactly is a genuine couple? We have been accused of not being one as we have separate meets and often play alone at clubs. However, we live together .... and have done for almost two years and all of our family and friends recognise that we are in a relationship. Some clubs insist we can't be a real couple because we play separately ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I appreciate your honesty! You have some of the best fake photos I've seen! Lol

Ah well, we had to pretend to be real to persuade the poor fools in the pics to take part. Not a nice thing to do we know, but how else could we pretend not to be fake? "

Devious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do you spot them??

Finding it increasingly difficult to find a like-minded couple on here.

Grrrrrr!!!

What exactly is a genuine couple? We have been accused of not being one as we have separate meets and often play alone at clubs. However, we live together .... and have done for almost two years and all of our family and friends recognise that we are in a relationship. Some clubs insist we can't be a real couple because we play separately ...."

Genuine as in those who are not single men pretending to be couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I may have spoken too soon...thought we were in touch with a few "genuine" couples...maybe not.

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Shame you're so far away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

UPDATE - we've found a non-fake couple! Meeting on Saturday night for drinks

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We have met a lot of couples, have never had a problem.

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By *andm_69Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

we're struggling on here but having a bit more luck in clubs

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"We are a married couple who have been doing this 5 plus years.

There no sure way of knowing the genuine people"

I disagree, with a little work, its easy to spot the genuine from the wasters, you just have to be patient.

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By *t8880Couple
over a year ago

Staffs

We prefer to go to clubs than meet off here. So many fakes. Atleast at a club you have a night out.

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