FabSwingers.com forum: BDSM demos

By *ecretlyASoftie OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

If you had a night of bdsm and could choose 3 things to have demonstrated for you to learn or practice what would they be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rope work, candles, pegging a guy

Please. Thanks.

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"Rope work, candles, pegging a guy

Please. Thanks.

Happy to do all of those

My current audience is ladies but will include pegging if I do a mixed event

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Rope positions and both positive and negative nerve meridians in suspension, possibly advanced consequence play.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I would luved to b Domed bye a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rope work and I'm intrigued by corseting

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Shibari, suspension (including safety) and candle wax

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"Rope work and I'm intrigued by corseting "

We corseted two ladies on Friday. Looked stunning

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

I'm learning rope work at the minute as its not something I have a lot of experience in .

the only other thing I'm not experienced in enough to feel fully comfortable with is breath play on a sub .

its dangerous I've done it but I'd love to see two experts in action mainly to help my own uneasy I feel when delivering such play .

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

We do them all the time...

For novices..

1/ Safety and consent

2/ Retraint in it's many forms

3/ Impact in it's many forms

For experienced players who want more edge...

1/Needles & Suturing with infection control

2/'Safe' CBT with a well practised sub!

3/ Wax with slow cookers and ladels - The Klinick do this and it's amazeballs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Electric

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

"We do them all the time...

For novices..

1/ Safety and consent

2/ Retraint in it's many forms

3/ Impact in it's many forms

For experienced players who want more edge...

1/Needles & Suturing with infection control

2/'Safe' CBT with a well practised sub!

3/ Wax with slow cookers and ladels - The Klinick do this and it's amazeballs!

Grrrrr 'Ladle' sorry

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"We do them all the time...

For novices..

1/ Safety and consent

2/ Retraint in it's many forms

3/ Impact in it's many forms

For experienced players who want more edge...

1/Needles & Suturing with infection control

2/'Safe' CBT with a well practised sub!

3/ Wax with slow cookers and ladels - The Klinick do this and it's amazeballs!

Grrrrr 'Ladle' sorry "

I need to visit!!

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"Rope positions and both positive and negative nerve meridians in suspension, possibly advanced consequence play.

That sounds fab but likely more suited to a peer rope group as everyone's interested in rope. I have a mixed audience of newbies and more experienced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Electro stimulation as well

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

Restraint,electro play,wax..

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I'm getting all horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ropework, wax play and edging from a woman.

Mrs

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

Ropes

Impact play

Needles

Doesn't have to be in that order lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is hard one as (David typing)I have been around on the fetish scene for quite some years though even with things I know and have used for years there us always a new subtlety to learn.

So my list of new(ish) things is -

Shibari because I love good rope work and mine is safe and functional but not pretty

Fire whips because I love/use whips and making a fire whip is on my project list

Cooking for wax play because I have only ever used candles and love to do things to excess, the messier the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rope work

Needles

Electro stimulation

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By *ecretsRmineWoman
over a year ago

gatwickish (yes that means near Gatwick)

more sensation play ideas, rope, flogging

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By *ecretsRmineWoman
over a year ago

gatwickish (yes that means near Gatwick)

quite intrigued with fire cupping

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

A full on D/s play without the showmanship

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By *nttake2Couple
over a year ago

South

Physical skills are often a means to an end, mind games have so much scope for players in tune.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Physical skills are often a means to an end, mind games have so much scope for players in tune.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rope work

Sensory deprivation

And

Electrostimulation...I think that's what it's called

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Physical skills are often a means to an end, mind games have so much scope for players in tune.....

If only I were younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm getting all horny

Are you ever not?!

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By *nequeenslutWoman
over a year ago

rugeley

as a sub with the right dom anything that feels right to me goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rope, Rope and More Rope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Physical skills are often a means to an end, mind games have so much scope for players in tune.....

If only I were younger

If only

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Sensual stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Physical skills are often a means to an end, mind games have so much scope for players in tune.....

If only I were younger

If only

Blindfolded I could be any age lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shibari I've got the book

Wax play dabbled a bit and enjoy it.

Electrostimulation watched others doing it but learned nothing. Would using this on a person suffering from high blood pressure be a bad idea?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rope and wax definitely, and some ideas for various different sensations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're pretty much noobs to BDSM, so:

*restraint and sensory deprivation.

*spanking/paddling/whipping.

*the psychological and mind games aspect.

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By *den-EventsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Leeds / London

"Rope, Rope and More Rope!

One of us does lots of rope

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

Can you get lessons in it ?

We've thought about it for a time but not really sure where to start .

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to learn rope from someone that knows what they are doing, Bruce Esinem I've heard is good

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Ropes.. understanding to get around lack of flexibility

Wax..

(From a submissive perspective )

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By *den-EventsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Leeds / London

"You need to learn rope from someone that knows what they are doing, Bruce Esinem I've heard is good"

I've learned from 3 professionals one of which was Bruce and yes he's good. Peer rope groups are good too. Learn your basics then practice practice practice!

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By *nttake2Couple
over a year ago

South

"Physical skills are often a means to an end, mind games have so much scope for players in tune.....

If only I were younger

Age has nothing to do with it. You're the same age as us!

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By *nttake2Couple
over a year ago

South

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By *nttake2Couple
over a year ago

South

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By *nttake2Couple
over a year ago

South

"as a sub with the right dom anything that feels right to me goes "

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Electrics.... needle play and bull whips.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

For me it would be breathplay, fireplay and suspension.

I got my electro demonstration around 6 months ago and it was ridiculously pretty! And painful, but the prettiness more than made up for it!

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Wax, needles and electro play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rope work ( attending a workshop this weekend ) electro and wax are right up there but I jump at the chance of exploring more so any interesting bdsm things really xx

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By *tephanie19631TV/TS
over a year ago

oxford

Wax play

E stim.

Being put in a humbler.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to see someone put in subspace, I've been there myself a lot but never seen anyone else go

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