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"We wouldn't be interested in anyone insecure enough to write what you have in your profile. Major reason we blocked single guys was the sheer amount saying they were bi but listed straight on profile. Immediate alarm bells. Seen it in clubs and heard it happen with friends; guys insecure about being bi have issues accepting they like cock or only do it to get at the female. Or they freak out mid play and expect the session to continue as a straight play scenario. You strike me as no different and epitomise the reason we block single guys. " | |||
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"Can't get how you can presume I am like that " Ok, I'll take a line from your profile: "just cos it says bi-curious on my profile it doesn't mean I'm going to jump on the next male who comes along I do play straight and only bi when feeling comfortable with that person /people" To us this reads so poorly. Feeling comfortable with a guy to play bi? So you play with women if you feel uncomfortable? We only play with people we feel comfortable with. Full stop. Your only proviso seems to infer that the woman in a couple is fair game no matter what. Accept your sexuality before posting about wanting to meet bi couples. You've already been caught out with having straight on your profile. | |||
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"I think your twisting my words in my profile ,have I done something wrong to you ??? " I agree with this, your words are being totally misunderstood. I know exactly where you're coming from. | |||
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"There are lots of guys who pretend they're fully bi but the reality of them enjoying cock or man on man action sorts the men from the boys. So couples looking for bi guys prefer the more secure option by finding guys who are comfortable and accomplished with men. " . | |||
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"And that also was referring to the single guys who pester other single guys " So if only referring to single guys, why did you write couple straight after? You keep making a fool of yourself. Ask yourself why you have no meets or veris. Answer is right in front of your eyes. | |||
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"And that also was referring to the single guys who pester other single guys So if only referring to single guys, why did you write couple straight after? You keep making a fool of yourself. Ask yourself why you have no meets or veris. Answer is right in front of your eyes. " I think the answer is you have nothing better to do than pick fault with what people have wrote your twisting my words I have wrote , but I look at it this way if your on at me your leaving some other poor bugger who would probably take offence to what u say alone | |||
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"we are... Good morning x Good morning " Nice to know that not everyone is here just to pick fault | |||
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"We're a bi couple but finding a bi guy or couples for us can be fustrating at times " Would love to meet a bi couple | |||
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"What's a "proper couple"?" Meaning a genuine one due to the time wasters that pretend to be a couple x | |||
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"What's a "proper couple"? Meaning a genuine one due to the time wasters that pretend to be a couple x" But what's a "genuine couple" in your eyes? | |||
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"Can't get how you can presume I am like that Ok, I'll take a line from your profile: "just cos it says bi-curious on my profile it doesn't mean I'm going to jump on the next male who comes along I do play straight and only bi when feeling comfortable with that person /people" To us this reads so poorly. Feeling comfortable with a guy to play bi? So you play with women if you feel uncomfortable? We only play with people we feel comfortable with. Full stop. Your only proviso seems to infer that the woman in a couple is fair game no matter what. Accept your sexuality before posting about wanting to meet bi couples. You've already been caught out with having straight on your profile. " Exactly this. | |||
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"What's a "proper couple"? Meaning a genuine one due to the time wasters that pretend to be a couple x But what's a "genuine couple" in your eyes?" A couple which say who they are from the start no a single male pretending to be a couple | |||
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"We wouldn't be interested in anyone insecure enough to write what you have in your profile. Major reason we blocked single guys was the sheer amount saying they were bi but listed straight on profile. Immediate alarm bells. Seen it in clubs and heard it happen with friends; guys insecure about being bi have issues accepting they like cock or only do it to get at the female. Or they freak out mid play and expect the session to continue as a straight play scenario. You strike me as no different and epitomise the reason we block single guys. " This ^ | |||
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"Mrs and I are both bi, but only meet at clubs so wouldn't agree to meet a single guy anyway. What we have found, and not generalising here, but a lot of guys say they are bi, but are only saying that to get at the woman. They will let a guy suck them. But wont reciprocate, or touch the guy back which in my eyes doesnt make you bi (what does? Who knows). I'm not saying thats you, but there will be a few on here that are that. Juat my 2 penneth worth though, for what its worth. If you aren't bi, surely letting a guy suck your cock is akin to tightrope walking....its great but don't look down? " We find this too! so annoying! | |||
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"Mrs and I are both bi, but only meet at clubs so wouldn't agree to meet a single guy anyway. What we have found, and not generalising here, but a lot of guys say they are bi, but are only saying that to get at the woman. They will let a guy suck them. But wont reciprocate, or touch the guy back which in my eyes doesnt make you bi (what does? Who knows). I'm not saying thats you, but there will be a few on here that are that. Juat my 2 penneth worth though, for what its worth. If you aren't bi, surely letting a guy suck your cock is akin to tightrope walking....its great but don't look down? " I've seen a lot of guys say that! Not so much on here, but do also get guys on another site who say they are bi but clearly just horny, have a wank and no longer bi or gay and just leave the site haha and if a guy gives me a blow job, well only kind to give him one back | |||
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"My profile says bi curious but can play straight " We only play with bisexual men. Can't be arsed with sit-on-the-fence bicurious crap. | |||
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"Straight, and then fab straight. Best thing is go to a bi night at a club, see whats going on and dip in if invited, have a wank if not." Agree with you there! Aplenty of clubs have bi nights and normally always a nice evening meeting like minded people be singles or couples | |||
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"Wow Fully verified bi guy here. Interesting thread. Seems like here are loads of so called straight guys in their profile so they don't get rejected by couples who don't like bi guys (but will most certainly unknowingly, have been with one) but send messages to me asking for meets. So finding there are lots of bi couples who are not confident in guys who do put their profile as bi surprises me, but worth knowing. And OP, if you are asking for feedback, you should not complain when you don't like what others tell you. It's just feedback, take it or leave it, at least they took the time to post their view. " We can pick and choose at leisure so it's easy to root out the bad s. | |||
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"Wow Fully verified bi guy here. Interesting thread. Seems like here are loads of so called straight guys in their profile so they don't get rejected by couples who don't like bi guys (but will most certainly unknowingly, have been with one) but send messages to me asking for meets. So finding there are lots of bi couples who are not confident in guys who do put their profile as bi surprises me, but worth knowing. And OP, if you are asking for feedback, you should not complain when you don't like what others tell you. It's just feedback, take it or leave it, at least they took the time to post their view. We can pick and choose at leisure so it's easy to root out the bad s. " This. We are in no rush! | |||
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"We're a bi couple but finding a bi guy or couples for us can be fustrating at times " Finding a bi guy is very hard , we concur | |||
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"Mrs and I are both bi, but only meet at clubs so wouldn't agree to meet a single guy anyway. What we have found, and not generalising here, but a lot of guys say they are bi, but are only saying that to get at the woman. They will let a guy suck them. But wont reciprocate, or touch the guy back which in my eyes doesnt make you bi (what does? Who knows). I'm not saying thats you, but there will be a few on here that are that. Juat my 2 penneth worth though, for what its worth. If you aren't bi, surely letting a guy suck your cock is akin to tightrope walking....its great but don't look down? " I find cocks sexy but what they're attached to does nowt for me. I'd be up for mutual cock play but kissing or grabbing that hairy skinny arse or snogging a bloke is a big nah. So what category do I live in | |||
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"Mrs and I are both bi, but only meet at clubs so wouldn't agree to meet a single guy anyway. What we have found, and not generalising here, but a lot of guys say they are bi, but are only saying that to get at the woman. They will let a guy suck them. But wont reciprocate, or touch the guy back which in my eyes doesnt make you bi (what does? Who knows). I'm not saying thats you, but there will be a few on here that are that. Juat my 2 penneth worth though, for what its worth. If you aren't bi, surely letting a guy suck your cock is akin to tightrope walking....its great but don't look down? I find cocks sexy but what they're attached to does nowt for me. I'd be up for mutual cock play but kissing or grabbing that hairy skinny arse or snogging a bloke is a big nah. So what category do I live in " You dont have to snog a guy, im not into kissing guys myself, but enjoy a mouthful or arseful of cock. If a guy turns you off that much, you must spend a lot of time with eyes closed otherwise yiu would see a fat, or skinny guy and be turned off. Or are you into tv/ts so its a cock on a feminine form? | |||
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"Mrs and I are both bi, but only meet at clubs so wouldn't agree to meet a single guy anyway. What we have found, and not generalising here, but a lot of guys say they are bi, but are only saying that to get at the woman. They will let a guy suck them. But wont reciprocate, or touch the guy back which in my eyes doesnt make you bi (what does? Who knows). I'm not saying thats you, but there will be a few on here that are that. Juat my 2 penneth worth though, for what its worth. If you aren't bi, surely letting a guy suck your cock is akin to tightrope walking....its great but don't look down? I find cocks sexy but what they're attached to does nowt for me. I'd be up for mutual cock play but kissing or grabbing that hairy skinny arse or snogging a bloke is a big nah. So what category do I live in " Probably have intimacy issues. Or fear of men in general. Or socially conditioned to think men are not sexual objects in themselves. | |||
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"We have bi on our profile but we get very little response. Oh well, maybe 20 years ago we might have had more interest but we live in hope xx" Maybe a couple of pictures of Paul might help, we find it quite off putting when couples only have pics of the female. Ess | |||
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