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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could you ladies please give me some advice on how to spice up my profile and get meets.. I've had face pics on there before but had same luck so I decided to take them down.. I'm a decent looking bloke I don't know why it's so hard to get a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're looking for what everyone else is looking for....single females....the couples want them, as do the single men. There are 1000s of people here, what makes your profile stand out from the crowd???

Take a few more photos....have a look at some other male profiles and take inspiration from them,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi lv I've had a nosey at your profile and considering you have been on 5 week and already had a meet that's pretty God Dam good lol just remeber they are loads off singles on here looking for meets so maybe have a few more pictures available but not cock pics haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there isn't much on your profile to entice ppl ...you need to stand out!

Fab is a tough world for single guys...also all your public pic shows is your belly button

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

One meet in five weeks is good for a single man.

The content of your profile seems ok but not outstanding and your picture isn't inspiring. I suggest that you take a couple more photos that are clearer.

Good luck..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not looking for them.

I'm man hungry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile seems good.But think about the male to female ratio on here.It is huge and growing every day.Its not that people are ignoring you but they get swamped with messages.Good luck but dont take it personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean by "don't waste my time"?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't waste my time as in don't schedule meets and not turn up or start having a proper conversion then just stop talking out of nowhere

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

As Pippin points out the phrase "don't waste my time" isn't very welcoming. I would also be put off by someone saying he is looking for regular meets "as and when work allows".

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile doesn't make you sound sure about the lifestyle. People want confidence and good company. Not many women want to have to hold your hand to make you feel brave.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Profiles ok but nothing stands out, you need more pictures too

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10


"Could you ladies please give me some advice on how to spice up my profile and get meets.. I've had face pics on there before but had same luck so I decided to take them down.. I'm a decent looking bloke I don't know why it's so hard to get a meet? "

most people you message won't even look at your profile when you message them so profile's really don't matter much at all. Many people on here seem scared of single guys Anyway!

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Could you ladies please give me some advice on how to spice up my profile and get meets.. I've had face pics on there before but had same luck so I decided to take them down.. I'm a decent looking bloke I don't know why it's so hard to get a meet?

most people you message won't even look at your profile when you message them so profile's really don't matter much at all. Many people on here seem scared of single guys Anyway! "
What about those that do read profiles ?. It will need to be top quality just to get to the starting point of the race. Your profile is the only marketing tool which you have on fab and is crucial to ones success.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

Definitely need more pictures

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10


"Could you ladies please give me some advice on how to spice up my profile and get meets.. I've had face pics on there before but had same luck so I decided to take them down.. I'm a decent looking bloke I don't know why it's so hard to get a meet?

most people you message won't even look at your profile when you message them so profile's really don't matter much at all. Many people on here seem scared of single guys Anyway! What about those that do read profiles ?. It will need to be top quality just to get to the starting point of the race. Your profile is the only marketing tool which you have on fab and is crucial to ones success. "

if someone likes the look of you, that's about it. but many have no idea what to say to us anyway.

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By *ombikerbullMan
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

I have never used any sort of online site before until recently and when I first joined I made the mistake most men do. I call it the club mentality "Alright darling can I buy you a drink" this was purely out of inexperience with an online situation the worst thing is I wouldnt do this in the real world to start with.

Atfer the usual frustration and boredom I decided it was time to chill out.

I have had a couple of meets but I have made some really kool friends aswell.

I will admit my only frustration as you have pointed out is the disapearing mid conversation, I appreciate there is a life outside of FS but I fear this is more a case of the grass is greener then real life interveening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good points above, but also the "tone" of your profile doesn't really match the promise of your user name, unless of course you're called Dominic.

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By *ombikerbullMan
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

I think you might be gettting Dominant and Domineering mixed up.

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