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"Read up on cock pic avatars and that will give you a clue. Plus your profile starts off negative, which is off putting." Thanks Kinky-Minx, really appreciate your comment. I have removed those negative lines and I will look at 'cock pic avatars' and try to get some decent pics.  | |||
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"Have you got a terminal illness?  "Hahaha nope, not yet!! May be in future, who knows LOL  | |||
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"Different user name and body pics for sure!" Thanks _ickeyandmouse for your suggestion, many suggested to add body pics, will do that and user name, I will change that too. Happy swinging | |||
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"If you messaged us, quick look at your profile, avatar, status and username would be an instant delete" Thanks for your honest suggestion. | |||
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"You could have the best profile write up in the world but with your current photo, it would put the majority off reading it. Try some more tasteful body/torso/bum pics. Show people what your body type is like, after all, everyone is different but all men (generally!) have a cock. What makes you more than just a cock? " It's not even his cock. | |||
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"You could have the best profile write up in the world but with your current photo, it would put the majority off reading it. Try some more tasteful body/torso/bum pics. Show people what your body type is like, after all, everyone is different but all men (generally!) have a cock. What makes you more than just a cock? It's not even his cock." Busted!  | |||
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" It's not even his cock." Maybe he has custody of it on alternate weekends | |||
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"You are a Caucasian man with a black cock. How is that?" Did I mention that I'm a Caucasian man?? Please read before judging and many thanks. | |||
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"You could have the best profile write up in the world but with your current photo, it would put the majority off reading it. Try some more tasteful body/torso/bum pics. Show people what your body type is like, after all, everyone is different but all men (generally!) have a cock. What makes you more than just a cock? It's not even his cock." Why would I post someone else cock on my profile? | |||
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"The most common one is the fact that men outweigh women probably 100 to 1 on fab "True that | |||
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"So , here 2 weeks and mystified as to why that horde of couples , women and female couples are not fighting each other to invite you to their houses to leap all over your cock ? We're not surprised , and to save you much angst , it's NEVER going to happen, no matter how long you stay here ! FAB is not a free for all clinger fest dear boy and never will be ! " Thanks, am not expecting any fights to invite me to their houses, thanks for the NEVER statement, it's just 2 weeks am just finding my way to be clear, BUT...thanks for your honest comment | |||
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"So , here 2 weeks and mystified as to why that horde of couples , women and female couples are not fighting each other to invite you to their houses to leap all over your cock ? We're not surprised , and to save you much angst , it's NEVER going to happen, no matter how long you stay here ! FAB is not a free for all clinger fest dear boy and never will be ! " calm down u have one pic of the wife and i guarantee u that at 50 im guessing u would have a harder time here on your own than the op would.the op is taking it on the chin and is listening to feedback and is being polite enough.why not cut him some slack and offer something constructive ?  . | |||
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"So , here 2 weeks and mystified as to why that horde of couples , women and female couples are not fighting each other to invite you to their houses to leap all over your cock ? We're not surprised , and to save you much angst , it's NEVER going to happen, no matter how long you stay here ! FAB is not a free for all clinger fest dear boy and never will be ! calm down u have one pic of the wife and i guarantee u that at 50 im guessing u would have a harder time here on your own than the op would.the op is taking it on the chin and is listening to feedback and is being polite enough.why not cut him some slack and offer something constructive ? ." | |||
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"So , here 2 weeks and mystified as to why that horde of couples , women and female couples are not fighting each other to invite you to their houses to leap all over your cock ? We're not surprised , and to save you much angst , it's NEVER going to happen, no matter how long you stay here ! FAB is not a free for all clinger fest dear boy and never will be ! calm down u have one pic of the wife and i guarantee u that at 50 im guessing u would have a harder time here on your own than the op would.the op is taking it on the chin and is listening to feedback and is being polite enough.why not cut him some slack and offer something constructive ? ."Ah but it IS constructive ! From what we've seen and the zillions of messages we have had , it's clear that a large number of single men join FABtbinking it's going to be Instashag and are sadly disappointed at the lack of progress for the effort they put in . It's better , and kinder , to realise this fact straight away as the OP has discovered . One of the main reasons for wasted effort and angst is the lack of profile reading and the failure to write to the right , suited to you, people on FAB. Your message here illustrates that perfectly : You've clearly looked at our profile and assumed the male wrote our reply . It was in fact ONE of the females . There is no " wife " , there are in fact TWO women on this profile involved in a full time relationship with our saga insured , geriatric 50 year old . It's all on our profile in black and white ! A perfect example of profile reading fail ! Only write to the people you think would be interested in you after research ! One targeted message is worth 1000 shotgun blasts and far less angst involved | |||
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"So , here 2 weeks and mystified as to why that horde of couples , women and female couples are not fighting each other to invite you to their houses to leap all over your cock ? We're not surprised , and to save you much angst , it's NEVER going to happen, no matter how long you stay here ! FAB is not a free for all clinger fest dear boy and never will be ! calm down u have one pic of the wife and i guarantee u that at 50 im guessing u would have a harder time here on your own than the op would.the op is taking it on the chin and is listening to feedback and is being polite enough.why not cut him some slack and offer something constructive ? .
Ah but it IS constructive ! From what we've seen and the zillions of messages we have had , it's clear that a large number of single men join FABtbinking it's going to be Instashag and are sadly disappointed at the lack of progress for the effort they put in .
It's better , and kinder , to realise this fact straight away as the OP has discovered .
One of the main reasons for wasted effort and angst is the lack of profile reading and the failure to write to the right , suited to you, people on FAB.
Your message here illustrates that perfectly :
You've clearly looked at our profile and assumed the male wrote our reply . It was in fact ONE of the females .
There is no " wife " , there are in fact TWO women on this profile involved in a full time relationship with our saga insured , geriatric 50 year old . It's all on our profile in black and white !
A perfect example of profile reading fail ! Only write to the people you think would be interested in you after research ! One targeted message is worth 1000 shotgun blasts and far less angst involved "I feel like I'm back at school | |||
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"So , here 2 weeks and mystified as to why that horde of couples , women and female couples are not fighting each other to invite you to their houses to leap all over your cock ? We're not surprised , and to save you much angst , it's NEVER going to happen, no matter how long you stay here ! FAB is not a free for all clinger fest dear boy and never will be ! calm down u have one pic of the wife and i guarantee u that at 50 im guessing u would have a harder time here on your own than the op would.the op is taking it on the chin and is listening to feedback and is being polite enough.why not cut him some slack and offer something constructive ? .
Ah but it IS constructive ! From what we've seen and the zillions of messages we have had , it's clear that a large number of single men join FABtbinking it's going to be Instashag and are sadly disappointed at the lack of progress for the effort they put in .
It's better , and kinder , to realise this fact straight away as the OP has discovered .
One of the main reasons for wasted effort and angst is the lack of profile reading and the failure to write to the right , suited to you, people on FAB.
Your message here illustrates that perfectly :
You've clearly looked at our profile and assumed the male wrote our reply . It was in fact ONE of the females .
There is no " wife " , there are in fact TWO women on this profile involved in a full time relationship with our saga insured , geriatric 50 year old . It's all on our profile in black and white !
A perfect example of profile reading fail ! Only write to the people you think would be interested in you after research ! One targeted message is worth 1000 shotgun blasts and far less angst involved
I feel like I'm back at school "Strangely enough , we dressed as schoolgirls last night , so must still be in the zone ! Sir is still snoring , think we killed him ! | |||
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"So , here 2 weeks and mystified as to why that horde of couples , women and female couples are not fighting each other to invite you to their houses to leap all over your cock ? We're not surprised , and to save you much angst , it's NEVER going to happen, no matter how long you stay here ! FAB is not a free for all clinger fest dear boy and never will be ! calm down u have one pic of the wife and i guarantee u that at 50 im guessing u would have a harder time here on your own than the op would.the op is taking it on the chin and is listening to feedback and is being polite enough.why not cut him some slack and offer something constructive ? .
Ah but it IS constructive ! From what we've seen and the zillions of messages we have had , it's clear that a large number of single men join FABtbinking it's going to be Instashag and are sadly disappointed at the lack of progress for the effort they put in .
It's better , and kinder , to realise this fact straight away as the OP has discovered .
One of the main reasons for wasted effort and angst is the lack of profile reading and the failure to write to the right , suited to you, people on FAB.
Your message here illustrates that perfectly :
You've clearly looked at our profile and assumed the male wrote our reply . It was in fact ONE of the females .
There is no " wife " , there are in fact TWO women on this profile involved in a full time relationship with our saga insured , geriatric 50 year old . It's all on our profile in black and white !
A perfect example of profile reading fail ! Only write to the people you think would be interested in you after research ! One targeted message is worth 1000 shotgun blasts and far less angst involved
I feel like I'm back at school
Strangely enough , we dressed as schoolgirls last night , so must still be in the zone ! Sir is still snoring , think we killed him ! "I hope not
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"So , here 2 weeks and mystified as to why that horde of couples , women and female couples are not fighting each other to invite you to their houses to leap all over your cock ? We're not surprised , and to save you much angst , it's NEVER going to happen, no matter how long you stay here ! FAB is not a free for all clinger fest dear boy and never will be ! calm down u have one pic of the wife and i guarantee u that at 50 im guessing u would have a harder time here on your own than the op would.the op is taking it on the chin and is listening to feedback and is being polite enough.why not cut him some slack and offer something constructive ? .
Ah but it IS constructive ! From what we've seen and the zillions of messages we have had , it's clear that a large number of single men join FABtbinking it's going to be Instashag and are sadly disappointed at the lack of progress for the effort they put in .
It's better , and kinder , to realise this fact straight away as the OP has discovered .
One of the main reasons for wasted effort and angst is the lack of profile reading and the failure to write to the right , suited to you, people on FAB.
Your message here illustrates that perfectly :
You've clearly looked at our profile and assumed the male wrote our reply . It was in fact ONE of the females .
There is no " wife " , there are in fact TWO women on this profile involved in a full time relationship with our saga insured , geriatric 50 year old . It's all on our profile in black and white !
A perfect example of profile reading fail ! Only write to the people you think would be interested in you after research ! One targeted message is worth 1000 shotgun blasts and far less angst involved
I feel like I'm back at school
Strangely enough , we dressed as schoolgirls last night , so must still be in the zone ! Sir is still snoring , think we killed him !
I hope not
But if you did he died a happy man "If he doesn't wake up for toast and PG tips shortly it's confirmed ! X | |||
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"So , here 2 weeks and mystified as to why that horde of couples , women and female couples are not fighting each other to invite you to their houses to leap all over your cock ? We're not surprised , and to save you much angst , it's NEVER going to happen, no matter how long you stay here ! FAB is not a free for all clinger fest dear boy and never will be ! calm down u have one pic of the wife and i guarantee u that at 50 im guessing u would have a harder time here on your own than the op would.the op is taking it on the chin and is listening to feedback and is being polite enough.why not cut him some slack and offer something constructive ? .
Ah but it IS constructive ! From what we've seen and the zillions of messages we have had , it's clear that a large number of single men join FABtbinking it's going to be Instashag and are sadly disappointed at the lack of progress for the effort they put in .
It's better , and kinder , to realise this fact straight away as the OP has discovered .
One of the main reasons for wasted effort and angst is the lack of profile reading and the failure to write to the right , suited to you, people on FAB.
Your message here illustrates that perfectly :
You've clearly looked at our profile and assumed the male wrote our reply . It was in fact ONE of the females .
There is no " wife " , there are in fact TWO women on this profile involved in a full time relationship with our saga insured , geriatric 50 year old . It's all on our profile in black and white !
A perfect example of profile reading fail ! Only write to the people you think would be interested in you after research ! One targeted message is worth 1000 shotgun blasts and far less angst involved "wow your a strange one lol.and na you were still being a dick wheather male or female.how can telling someone its never going to happen be constructive criticism.anyway i dont really care its not like i know the guy so peace out . | |||
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"So , here 2 weeks and mystified as to why that horde of couples , women and female couples are not fighting each other to invite you to their houses to leap all over your cock ? We're not surprised , and to save you much angst , it's NEVER going to happen, no matter how long you stay here ! FAB is not a free for all clinger fest dear boy and never will be ! calm down u have one pic of the wife and i guarantee u that at 50 im guessing u would have a harder time here on your own than the op would.the op is taking it on the chin and is listening to feedback and is being polite enough.why not cut him some slack and offer something constructive ? .
Ah but it IS constructive ! From what we've seen and the zillions of messages we have had , it's clear that a large number of single men join FABtbinking it's going to be Instashag and are sadly disappointed at the lack of progress for the effort they put in .
It's better , and kinder , to realise this fact straight away as the OP has discovered .
One of the main reasons for wasted effort and angst is the lack of profile reading and the failure to write to the right , suited to you, people on FAB.
Your message here illustrates that perfectly :
You've clearly looked at our profile and assumed the male wrote our reply . It was in fact ONE of the females .
There is no " wife " , there are in fact TWO women on this profile involved in a full time relationship with our saga insured , geriatric 50 year old . It's all on our profile in black and white !
A perfect example of profile reading fail ! Only write to the people you think would be interested in you after research ! One targeted message is worth 1000 shotgun blasts and far less angst involved wow your a strange one lol.and na you were still being a dick wheather male or female.how can telling someone its never going to happen be constructive criticism.anyway i dont really care its not like i know the guy so peace out ."We' re not strange , we're peculiar , or eccentric ! | |||
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"So , here 2 weeks and mystified as to why that horde of couples , women and female couples are not fighting each other to invite you to their houses to leap all over your cock ? We're not surprised , and to save you much angst , it's NEVER going to happen, no matter how long you stay here ! FAB is not a free for all clinger fest dear boy and never will be ! calm down u have one pic of the wife and i guarantee u that at 50 im guessing u would have a harder time here on your own than the op would.the op is taking it on the chin and is listening to feedback and is being polite enough.why not cut him some slack and offer something constructive ? .
Ah but it IS constructive ! From what we've seen and the zillions of messages we have had , it's clear that a large number of single men join FABtbinking it's going to be Instashag and are sadly disappointed at the lack of progress for the effort they put in .
It's better , and kinder , to realise this fact straight away as the OP has discovered .
One of the main reasons for wasted effort and angst is the lack of profile reading and the failure to write to the right , suited to you, people on FAB.
Your message here illustrates that perfectly :
You've clearly looked at our profile and assumed the male wrote our reply . It was in fact ONE of the females .
There is no " wife " , there are in fact TWO women on this profile involved in a full time relationship with our saga insured , geriatric 50 year old . It's all on our profile in black and white !
A perfect example of profile reading fail ! Only write to the people you think would be interested in you after research ! One targeted message is worth 1000 shotgun blasts and far less angst involved wow your a strange one lol.and na you were still being a dick wheather male or female.how can telling someone its never going to happen be constructive criticism.anyway i dont really care its not like i know the guy so peace out .
We' re not strange , we're peculiar , or eccentric ! "they all mean the same thing . | |||
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"So , here 2 weeks and mystified as to why that horde of couples , women and female couples are not fighting each other to invite you to their houses to leap all over your cock ? We're not surprised , and to save you much angst , it's NEVER going to happen, no matter how long you stay here ! FAB is not a free for all clinger fest dear boy and never will be ! calm down u have one pic of the wife and i guarantee u that at 50 im guessing u would have a harder time here on your own than the op would.the op is taking it on the chin and is listening to feedback and is being polite enough.why not cut him some slack and offer something constructive ? .
Ah but it IS constructive ! From what we've seen and the zillions of messages we have had , it's clear that a large number of single men join FABtbinking it's going to be Instashag and are sadly disappointed at the lack of progress for the effort they put in .
It's better , and kinder , to realise this fact straight away as the OP has discovered .
One of the main reasons for wasted effort and angst is the lack of profile reading and the failure to write to the right , suited to you, people on FAB.
Your message here illustrates that perfectly :
You've clearly looked at our profile and assumed the male wrote our reply . It was in fact ONE of the females .
There is no " wife " , there are in fact TWO women on this profile involved in a full time relationship with our saga insured , geriatric 50 year old . It's all on our profile in black and white !
A perfect example of profile reading fail ! Only write to the people you think would be interested in you after research ! One targeted message is worth 1000 shotgun blasts and far less angst involved wow your a strange one lol.and na you were still being a dick wheather male or female.how can telling someone its never going to happen be constructive criticism.anyway i dont really care its not like i know the guy so peace out .
We' re not strange , we're peculiar , or eccentric ! they all mean the same thing ."Na, I'm not dead or the other, have to live real life too. Learned a lot from those comments
Its hard to understand some people here, they write up something and they do or suggest something else, some claim that pics are not mine! ( judging me just like they've met me zillion times)
BUT I won't give up
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"So , here 2 weeks and mystified as to why that horde of couples , women and female couples are not fighting each other to invite you to their houses to leap all over your cock ? We're not surprised , and to save you much angst , it's NEVER going to happen, no matter how long you stay here ! FAB is not a free for all clinger fest dear boy and never will be ! calm down u have one pic of the wife and i guarantee u that at 50 im guessing u would have a harder time here on your own than the op would.the op is taking it on the chin and is listening to feedback and is being polite enough.why not cut him some slack and offer something constructive ? .
Ah but it IS constructive ! From what we've seen and the zillions of messages we have had , it's clear that a large number of single men join FABtbinking it's going to be Instashag and are sadly disappointed at the lack of progress for the effort they put in .
It's better , and kinder , to realise this fact straight away as the OP has discovered .
One of the main reasons for wasted effort and angst is the lack of profile reading and the failure to write to the right , suited to you, people on FAB.
Your message here illustrates that perfectly :
You've clearly looked at our profile and assumed the male wrote our reply . It was in fact ONE of the females .
There is no " wife " , there are in fact TWO women on this profile involved in a full time relationship with our saga insured , geriatric 50 year old . It's all on our profile in black and white !
A perfect example of profile reading fail ! Only write to the people you think would be interested in you after research ! One targeted message is worth 1000 shotgun blasts and far less angst involved wow your a strange one lol.and na you were still being a dick wheather male or female.how can telling someone its never going to happen be constructive criticism.anyway i dont really care its not like i know the guy so peace out .
We' re not strange , we're peculiar , or eccentric ! they all mean the same thing .
Na, I'm not dead or the other, have to live real life too. Learned a lot from those comments
Its hard to understand some people here, they write up something and they do or suggest something else, some claim that pics are not mine! ( judging me just like they've met me zillion times)
BUT I won't give up
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"Hey Swingers, I'm new to swinging but not to sex, I am looking to meet people, messaging them (no pushy, no copy paste stuff), winking them, fabing their pics but no luck!! Is it because people don't like my type/race or am i doing something wrong seriously? Please look at my profile and suggest me any thing to make it happen. I really wanna clear my fantasy list and die... "It has ONLY been two weeks!! | |||
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