FabSwingers.com forum: Getting back in the swing.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Issue. Its been nearly a year since I last had sex and I just can't seem to get back into the swing of...well swinging. I get horny. I play with myself but I can't bring myself to met with anyone. Thinking I could go buy some nice new under wear and that I should just do it to kinda break the slump I'm in at the mo ...I know I'll enjoy it when I do. Any ideas?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe meet up for a social with someone and see if the meeting up process gets you going again.

With a social there's no pressure to play if your not feeling it.

By *haunMan
over a year ago

Halton

"Maybe meet up for a social with someone and see if the meeting up process gets you going again.

With a social there's no pressure to play if your not feeling it. "

Or (after looking at your list of interests) consider a social event / evening at a local club.

So you are not focusing on a one to one meet (regardless of it being a social) just going along to a social place with like-minded people.

Being in a club environment and chatting may spark a little curiosity again.

And more often than not.. if you are in a club watching other people have fun, it can be a huge turn on.

Providing a live visual stimulation that you don't get from self satisfying at home.

But sometimes people go through these cycles, maybe take a break away, and come back when you are ready.

Just do what you think feels right for you. One of those occasions where you go with your gut feeling rather than thinking it through to much.

xxx