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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi All,

Maybe this is a little bit of a none starter as well it doesn't effect most users of Fab, but as an openly bisexual male, why does a large portion of Fab have a issue with it?

I say this fully understanding that different people have different sexual choices but the amount of STRAIGHT guys asking me to fuck them is unreal!

If they are that ashamed of their sexual choices or are they are worried women will say no to them?

Any rant over! Sometimes is just nice to shout into the void

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been an openly bi male on here. Seems to close more doors than it opens. Think that's the main reason OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It massively does, though I'd rather be honest and open then lie!

Disappointing though as being sexual open minded means you know how to please


"Been an openly bi male on here. Seems to close more doors than it opens. Think that's the main reason OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people would prefer honesty.

Personally, I'd prefer to exclude those who'd exclude me because of my sexuality anyhow

Let's face it; my sexuality is the least of my issues

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking at your profile babes, I think your only issue is not meeting me yet


"Most people would prefer honesty.

Personally, I'd prefer to exclude those who'd exclude me because of my sexuality anyhow

Let's face it; my sexuality is the least of my issues "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've become openly bi. Don't meet guys on my own. Don't go behind her back.

But the prevailing undertones is that I do those things and therefore am a potential health risk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fucking undertones!!! Don't they know just because we're bi doesn't mean anything, other than we are more careful!!

Great profile by the way


"I've become openly bi. Don't meet guys on my own. Don't go behind her back.

But the prevailing undertones is that I do those things and therefore am a potential health risk.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm bisexual. It makes me indecisive as I can never choose. Do I get spelt bread or Rye bread? Do I choose a latte or an Americano? Does my head in.

Fab-wise and sexually speaking, I'm not really interested in negative people so their opinions and stances and assumptions don't affect me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well bloody said pal. Though you do live an an amazing part of the UK where an I'm guessing here, being a bisexual male doesn't mean your a social lepper.


"I'm bisexual. It makes me indecisive as I can never choose. Do I get spelt bread or Rye bread? Do I choose a latte or an Americano? Does my head in.

Fab-wise and sexually speaking, I'm not really interested in negative people so their opinions and stances and assumptions don't affect me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just don't like the thought of 2 men having sex.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Well bloody said pal. Though you do live an an amazing part of the UK where an I'm guessing here, being a bisexual male doesn't mean your a social lepper.

I'm bisexual. It makes me indecisive as I can never choose. Do I get spelt bread or Rye bread? Do I choose a latte or an Americano? Does my head in.

Fab-wise and sexually speaking, I'm not really interested in negative people so their opinions and stances and assumptions don't affect me.

"

Brighton is very openly LGBTO friendly - loads of rainbow stickers on shops, a street all set up for gay stuff and Pride and stuff. Seen cross dressers shopping and no one looks twice. It's a very tolerant city.

Although none of it affects me. I just have sex with people who want a bisexual man.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Some people just don't like the thought of 2 men having sex."

Especially if one has a drippy botty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people just don't like the thought of 2 men having sex."

Because that's all bi/gay men do right?

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By *gentlovedayWoman
over a year ago

Tranmere

Personally I'd happily watch may learn something x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a frustrating thing OP, but we've reached a point of not losing any sleep over it.

If potential meets have issues with bi men, they're probably not for us anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a shame but hay ho.... just hang in there and be proud i say. Its odd that there is a stigma around people that are bi...

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Its a shame but hay ho.... just hang in there and be proud i say. Its odd that there is a stigma around people that are bi... "

Its pretty much bi men, although a number of straight women also feel they are so irresistible that all bi women wont be able to leave them alone. We use people's attitudes as a filter. This includes the many men who claim to be bi when they message us, despite their profile saying they are straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say it's down to personal choice, we don't get hung up on the face that people don't want to meet us because we are both bi.

I have to say though the number of messages we have received when we've opened out filters to single men, the amount which say straight on their profile but they are bi in messages is quite laughable, they are the majority of messages we receive. However we could also say the same for couples where the male is apparently straight!!

Not sure if it's embarrassment, dear of losing meets or what. But we value honestly above anything else, on the profiles though

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Hi All,

Maybe this is a little bit of a none starter as well it doesn't effect most users of Fab, but as an openly bisexual male, why does a large portion of Fab have a issue with it?

I say this fully understanding that different people have different sexual choices but the amount of STRAIGHT guys asking me to fuck them is unreal!

If they are that ashamed of their sexual choices or are they are worried women will say no to them?

Any rant over! Sometimes is just nice to shout into the void "

I don't know beats me,I've heard a lot of guy's say that they don't fancy men,wouldn't kiss them and will only do oral if there's a woman there for backup I suppose. Some like a woman telling them to do it,they may not see themselves as being bisexual then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no issue whatever! In fact I am happy to meet one - especially with my bi fb! We have had a few great meets with bi guys and always specify bi guys when we postca meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own, we like bi men, if people won't meet us because if that then we don't really care.

Same if guys won't admit they are bi on their profile it's fine, we don't care, but they won't be meeting us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Come to Manchester, always happy to help someone learn


"Personally I'd happily watch may learn something x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people just don't like the thought of 2 men having sex.

Because that's all bi/gay men do right? "

Probably not 24/7. They stop for a sleep now and then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own, we like bi men, if people won't meet us because if that then we don't really care.

Same if guys won't admit they are bi on their profile it's fine, we don't care, but they won't be meeting us "

Yep, people are different and not everyone is going to like/enjoy what others do?

Life is short, just be honest and hopefully meet people who want to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand your point though you are a couple so a clear take it or leave it attitude is something you can comfortably say lol

I think I'd much rather prefer to be in an area where being a bi male is something people want on the menu rather than not


"Each to their own, we like bi men, if people won't meet us because if that then we don't really care.

Same if guys won't admit they are bi on their profile it's fine, we don't care, but they won't be meeting us "

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