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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just an enquiry really - do u get any same sex couples in the swinging clubs ?

my other half (who is also male) is into big men and big women so we have talked about it but never done anything as we assume that we wouldn't be allowed in / wouldn't be welcomed once we were in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wot ya go to lose give it a try one night see how the land lies, what does Delboy say Oh Yep "HE WHO DARES WINS" or in this case "THEY WHO DARE MAY GET LUCKY " good luck lads

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

I suppose it depends on the club really. As a TV i only go to clubs that operate an overt TV-friendly attitude. No point in going if everyone there is straight and nobody wanted to play with me.

One of the clubs i go to is really pro TV so you get a lot of bi couples there and lots of bi males. Whilst i can't remember offhand if there were any m/m couples i don't think it would be frowned upon, certainly not by me 'cos i'm greedy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I suppose it depends on the club really. As a TV i only go to clubs that operate an overt TV-friendly attitude. No point in going if everyone there is straight and nobody wanted to play with me.

One of the clubs i go to is really pro TV so you get a lot of bi couples there and lots of bi males. Whilst i can't remember offhand if there were any m/m couples i don't think it would be frowned upon, certainly not by me 'cos i'm greedy!

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we have been to sauna, sauna in northwich on a trannie friendly afternoon. the girls there did very well from what we saw

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"wot ya go to lose give it a try one night see how the land lies, what does Delboy say Oh Yep "HE WHO DARES WINS" or in this case "THEY WHO DARE MAY GET LUCKY " good luck lads"

he'd get lucky without a doubt the handsome bugger. oh how i wish he wasn't so picky - we could have SO MUCH fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just an enquiry really - do u get any same sex couples in the swinging clubs ?

my other half (who is also male) is into big men and big women so we have talked about it but never done anything as we assume that we wouldn't be allowed in / wouldn't be welcomed once we were in "

Think if you look at some site they have certain nights for it. Have to check with club though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just an enquiry really - do u get any same sex couples in the swinging clubs ?

my other half (who is also male) is into big men and big women so we have talked about it but never done anything as we assume that we wouldn't be allowed in / wouldn't be welcomed once we were in

Think if you look at some site they have certain nights for it. Have to check with club though"

yeah there are places round here that have mixed days and same sex days. what i am asking is how would a same sex male couple be treated if they turned up at what is generally perceived as a mixed couples night ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah there are places round here that have mixed days and same sex days. what i am asking is how would a same sex male couple be treated if they turned up at what is generally perceived as a mixed couples night ?"

I think if you were refused entry you'd have a cast-iron discrimination case...

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

As do the men that are charged more then women, but I have yet to see someone brave enough to take that case on!!

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

I reckon that you`ll be accepted but only as two single guys, even on a bi-night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

chameleons on a monday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn = Thought this was F/F couple thingy lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a bi night they are great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah there are places round here that have mixed days and same sex days. what i am asking is how would a same sex male couple be treated if they turned up at what is generally perceived as a mixed couples night ?"

The club I use (La Chambre in Sheffield) wouldn't permit entry to a same sex male couple on Saturday nights, as that night is reserved for mixed sex couples and single girls only.

And although this may seem unfair (a same sex female couple would be allowed in), it makes sense when you think about it. Who would you be wanting to play with? The other members are wanting to play with other mixed sex couples and girls. Also, if the club changed their admittance policy, this would open the floodgates for 2 straight single guys to 'couple up', to enable them to pester couples/ladies who don't want to play with them.

As other posters have said, you would be very welcome on Bi Nights.

You would also be welcome on Fridays (everyone welcome on Fridays!), but most of the guys who attend on Fridays are straight.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i think i'll have to try a few of these places on my own first

i wouldn't know where to start though

so if any of you see a man wandering round looking all confused and bewildered like a kid that's lost his mum in a supermarket then take me to customer services

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And although this may seem unfair (a same sex female couple would be allowed in), it makes sense when you think about it. Who would you be wanting to play with? The other members are wanting to play with other mixed sex couples and girls. "

(Oops - still learning how to use the boards - though 'delete' might let me edit. Obviously not...)

I'm pretty new to this but actually (as a single bi fem) I am pretty open to who I play with. I wouldn't just restrict myself to mixed sex couples and girls. And I am actually quite interested in playing with a MM couple where at least one is bi (in fact I think my profile states I like bi guys).

I'm not saying it's for everyone, that it makes admittance-management easy or that you'll ever find it in a club but there are Fems out there who are interested in MM couples. It's just a bit niche is all.

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

Goto the Bisexual night at Cams on a Monday.

On a bank holiday Monday, its heaving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just an enquiry really - do u get any same sex couples in the swinging clubs ?

my other half (who is also male) is into big men and big women so we have talked about it but never done anything as we assume that we wouldn't be allowed in / wouldn't be welcomed once we were in "

i have never heard of a club that does same sex couple memberships, however if you went to a club on a bi night theres nothing to stop you both joining and going in together on two singles memberships

You would need to find a club that did a bi night type of thing tho as two men playing together on 'normal' nights would not be acceptable

Same really but theres another sexist rule for you lol

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