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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi we went pleasure s in Kent had a good time we used the play rooms down stairs but was showed the dark room when we arrived and as we spoke to people over the night they said we should try it its going sound silly but how dos it work do u go with a couple to it or just make your way there and see who's in it

thanks

Jake and Charlie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe the idea is U dont see anyone lol...like dating In the dark...only with swinging lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We just so new and its only up road from us we know its a small community and try to do the right thing so nt to up set any body

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

You'll soon get the feel of it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

please some help from people that are in the know

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By *imandkirstyCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

we went in pleasures dark room but we went in with another cpl. While in there the girl in the cpl we were with got jumped on by another fem LOL.

I think you could go in just the two of you and start playing with each other and see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we used the dark room in another club went in as a couple first time and was joined by other couples and female and second time just the girls were playing in there i suppose its whatever your comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when in the dark room and its all quiet.

listen for a slight buzzing noise.

that will be the geek in the corner wearing night vision googles and having a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the dark room at Abfabs, its just so erotic. Basically go in and enjoy what happens and what you are comfortable with. All your senses are hightened so its incrediably erotic. A touch feels so much more somehow, you just need to let your mind drift and enjoy the sensations. If you get hung up with the "what if he/she is really ugly" then its not for you. I always think that if the guy smells nice, you can feel their clothes, and to me they all look like George Clooney.

Ive only ever let a guy touch my boobs and backside. My OH has touched women with his fingers. I would never have sex with anyone in a dark room, I need to see condoms and the thought that they might not put one on would put me off too much. Ive had sex with my other half though and it was incrediable.

Its never completely dark, you tend to get the guys' watches illuminating the room a tiny bit, but its never enough to see actual faces, just dark shapes. Noise heightens the arousal too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks ppl for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had lots of fun in the darkroom at ABFABS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not for us - we would like to see who we play with

just the way we are

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales


"..I would never have sex with anyone in a dark room, I need to see condoms and the thought that they might not put one on would put me off too much. Ive had sex with my other half though and it was incrediable. "

We've never played in a dark room, so please don't think this is a silly question, but could you not feel if a guy had a condom on with your fingers before allowing him near you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..I would never have sex with anyone in a dark room, I need to see condoms and the thought that they might not put one on would put me off too much. Ive had sex with my other half though and it was incrediable.

We've never played in a dark room, so please don't think this is a silly question, but could you not feel if a guy had a condom on with your fingers before allowing him near you?"

Yes you could and im sure its totally fine, but just the fact of it being in my head and worrying if after he inserted and thrust a few times, he slipped it off. That could happen in a fully lit room I know, but because Id be worrying, it would spoil the whole erotic nature of it for me

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