FabSwingers.com forum: Proiles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As a couple we often peruse alone but, we both check the profiles of people/couples who wink or FAB our pics.

We are all busy people with a real life away from playing and have a very honest profile and recent pics (public and private and face pics we'll share if there's mutual attraction).

So - why are there still so many time wasters and people outside of our "looking for" still messaging us ?

Have applied filters to profile but, it'seems still happening - any advice to narrow reply response ?

Thanx in advance dudes a dduettes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't understand why if you have filters that this can still happen tbh. If I was you I'd make sure you have saved the settings or that they haven't changed for some random reason.

That been said I'm no expert lol

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

Apply all filters and do your own searching and messaging that way it will cause you less angst

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

"As a couple we often peruse alone but, we both check the profiles of people/couples who wink or FAB our pics.

We are all busy people with a real life away from playing and have a very honest profile and recent pics (public and private and face pics we'll share if there's mutual attraction).

So - why are there still so many time wasters and people outside of our "looking for" still messaging us ?

Have applied filters to profile but, it'seems still happening - any advice to narrow reply response ?

Thanx in advance dudes a dduettes

That's just the site in general. Get used to it. It will always happen.

Unless of course you block all the unwanted from messaging you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I ask why is it such an issue? Not asking in a sarcastic way just genuinely would like to know? Just a simple "delete" is the answer. Or if like us you appreciate that someone finds your profile and pics appealing a "thanks, but no thanks" reply normally does the trick. I have read your profile and as you stated it does tell us all we would need to know, however not everyone sees in themselves the things that you state you don't like. Maybe just try to be a little less irritated and more appreciative towards the messages you receive then "delete"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So - why are there still so many time wasters and people outside of our "looking for" still messaging us ?

Have applied filters to profile but, it'seems still happening - any advice to narrow reply response ?

Thanx in advance dudes a dduettes

But you have not set your age range filter to stop people outside your age range to message you

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

Just a comment on the "endless messages".

We messaged a couple for over 18 months before we could mutually meet.

They are now our best friends and the play is awesome. So.....

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