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"We have been on here almost a week! But no real meets nd no nice conversations! Well wish to know wats wrongwith us or wat we can do better!!" Contrary to popular opinion, this site isn't just full of everyone shagging everyone else. It takes time, patience, and effort to build a rapport with others. Unless you just want single blokes, and then many are less fussy. Cal | |||
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"A week isn't very long......a bit like my cock really come to think of it. Anyone got a fortnight cock or, the gods forbid, a month cock? What is known as a monthter cock, I guess. " What you need to do Steve is tell folk you ve a body part that's 15"'s long and an anagram of pensi... It's only when you later get into the bedroom and get naked you tell them it's your spine ..  | |||
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"We have been on here almost a week! But no real meets nd no nice conversations! Well wish to know wats wrongwith us or wat we can do better!!" You can post in the the introductions thread, maybe look for any socials around? | |||
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It's not Instashag | |||
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unless it's a unicorn then good luck | |||
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"A whole week? Really? Shame on you! Seriously though, if you were expecting to be knee deep in pussy within a few days, you really need to manage your expectations! Do your own searching and send out decent messages and make it clear in your profile not just what your looking for but also what you can offer! Why would someone want to meet you? This advise is to all, though couples and single females expect to be flocked with offer without making any real effort yet single men are told to work for it, so it is up to you really what path you choose "Oh and playing the race card is really not cool, you have to work on here to reap the benefits  | |||
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"A whole week? Really? Shame on you! Seriously though, if you were expecting to be knee deep in pussy within a few days, you really need to manage your expectations! Do your own searching and send out decent messages and make it clear in your profile not just what your looking for but also what you can offer! Why would someone want to meet you? This advise is to all, though couples and single females expect to be flocked with offer without making any real effort yet single men are told to work for it, so it is up to you really what path you choose "Well u wud say that coz tats wat most ppl wish to do!! Its nthin lik tat for us but if u dnt get a single reply back aftr trying to communicate for ages is rude!!! N wat ever u jst mentioned has already been done! And yea we are a couple! M not just lukin for a cunt for my dick as well | |||
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"We have been on here almost a week! But no real meets nd no nice conversations! Well wish to know wats wrongwith us or wat we can do better!!" How many potential contacts have you emailed and did they respond ?. Have you considered posting a meet in the meets section. You still have to make a significant effort to market yourself on fab. | |||
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"This is a joke right?
It's not Instashag "It's not???
Fuck this, we're off! | |||
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"Well u wud say that coz tats wat most ppl wish to do!! Its nthin lik tat for us but if u dnt get a single reply back aftr trying to communicate for ages is rude!!! N wat ever u jst mentioned has already been done! And yea we are a couple! M not just lukin for a cunt for my dick as well" Heh? | |||
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"A whole week? Really? Shame on you! Seriously though, if you were expecting to be knee deep in pussy within a few days, you really need to manage your expectations! Do your own searching and send out decent messages and make it clear in your profile not just what your looking for but also what you can offer! Why would someone want to meet you? This advise is to all, though couples and single females expect to be flocked with offer without making any real effort yet single men are told to work for it, so it is up to you really what path you choose
Well u wud say that coz tats wat most ppl wish to do!! Its nthin lik tat for us but if u dnt get a single reply back aftr trying to communicate for ages is rude!!! N wat ever u jst mentioned has already been done! And yea we are a couple! M not just lukin for a cunt for my dick as well"Sorry I've been here for 7 years and have earned my stripes, I don't do text speak from anyone! So I suggest you learn some etiquette and not just blame the first thing that comes to mind! It is so easy to blame others than to blame yourself! | |||
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"A whole week? Really? Shame on you! Seriously though, if you were expecting to be knee deep in pussy within a few days, you really need to manage your expectations! Do your own searching and send out decent messages and make it clear in your profile not just what your looking for but also what you can offer! Why would someone want to meet you? This advise is to all, though couples and single females expect to be flocked with offer without making any real effort yet single men are told to work for it, so it is up to you really what path you choose
Well u wud say that coz tats wat most ppl wish to do!! Its nthin lik tat for us but if u dnt get a single reply back aftr trying to communicate for ages is rude!!! N wat ever u jst mentioned has already been done! And yea we are a couple! M not just lukin for a cunt for my dick as well"I'm sorry I have no idea what you just wrote. Your profile basically says the female wants bi play while the male watches. Single bi females meet couples to play with both of them. If they just want to play with the lady they meet another single female. They are not sex toys or performing seals, just there to provide a free sex show for the male. | |||
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Welcome to the forum!
and erm good luck (your profile looks nice, don't give up, be patient)
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Welcome to the forum!
and erm good luck (your profile looks nice, don't give up, be patient)
(and ignore the wolves)"I give up! People love to blame others for their lack of failure, carry on as you were! because it was obviously working for you! | |||
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and erm good luck (your profile looks nice, don't give up, be patient)
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I give up! People love to blame others for their lack of failure, carry on as you were! because it was obviously working for you! "Would you like to explain what's working for who? | |||
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"We have been on here almost a week! But no real meets nd no nice conversations! Well wish to know wats wrongwith us or wat we can do better!!" A week??? It takes longer than that. It's not a site for raving nymphos despite what some might thing | |||
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"I'm not prejudiced as to meeting an Asian woman or couple. I am open to all. " You can say that again.  | |||
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"A whole week? Really? Shame on you! Seriously though, if you were expecting to be knee deep in pussy within a few days, you really need to manage your expectations! Do your own searching and send out decent messages and make it clear in your profile not just what your looking for but also what you can offer! Why would someone want to meet you? This advise is to all, though couples and single females expect to be flocked with offer without making any real effort yet single men are told to work for it, so it is up to you really what path you choose
Well u wud say that coz tats wat most ppl wish to do!! Its nthin lik tat for us but if u dnt get a single reply back aftr trying to communicate for ages is rude!!! N wat ever u jst mentioned has already been done! And yea we are a couple! M not just lukin for a cunt for my dick as well"If this is a sample of how you generally communicate it's you that will appear rude. Be calm. We're all just people here and remember that when you send a message. Also, it's not rude not to answer. No answer means no thank you. An answer means, carry on communicating and see if you like each other. Please listen to what others are saying here, you did ask for feedback. | |||
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"If you wrote to us it would be an instant delete. Text speak is unbelievably lazy and the idea for the women to put on a show is unlikely to work. Once you know someone then that can work but the number of women who'd be up for that is very limited. I'd also suggest sorting out your spelling errors in your profile" Spot on. | |||
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"Also, some people just won't meet Asians. Not necessarily because they are racist, but some have had bad experiences with "rude and disrespectful" Asian guys. Others are only attracted to "black men", or French girls... or whatever it is that floats their boat. Cal" If someone puts a blanket ban on 'Asians' we tend to feel it's a bit ropey. | |||
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"We have been on here almost a week! But no real meets nd no nice conversations! Well wish to know wats wrongwith us or wat we can do better!!" I have been on close to a year now and still no luck s don't give up yet. I have not! As for all the rejections it's there loss! | |||
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"We have been on here almost a week! But no real meets nd no nice conversations! Well wish to know wats wrongwith us or wat we can do better!! I have been on close to a year now and still no luck s don't give up yet. I have not! As for all the rejections it's there loss! "If they don't want to meet you it can't be there loss by not meeting you as your not what they want | |||
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"I really appreciate all the time given by everyone here! I do appreciate healthy criticsm! Will surely consider all the inputs given and will work them out and put in my profile as soon as I get time! For my background I do belong to the texting arena! For you it might be rude but i read so many profiles with this language so thought of doing same with mine! By the way I can surely say that its not that bad because of so many responses! Regarding spell checks and other issues il try to improve but I am not lazy and just to clarify i am not just looking to sit while girls play around! I posted so because i got offered such things which led me to believe that this might be a thing to attract attention! Thanks again! Have a good day every one" up to point i think foxy does have a point... its not the way i would have put it but lets see if i can do it in a way that you can take it in.... people like to immediately put down their lack of success down the the thing they can't control (in your case, being asian) because it then leaves you blameless... its allows you to put it all on everyone else, whilst leaving you all innocent... and you know what.... that may be THE reason why people say no.... but I am Guessing it may be a million other reasons, and they are much much closer to home...... i tend to leave any advice i give down to "time, patience and basic common sense" so is 1 week really giving it time? is 1 week really show you have given it patience? and as for basic common sense... why should in this case a single fem be wanting to pick you guys over all of the other people?, what screams "wow!!! i have to meet them!!!!" sometimes you have to be able to "help yourself" to help yourself!!!! I think you thought people would just lie down and knickers would just drop off..... the reality is that it tends to be a lot more involved with that! you get a one chance to make a great first impression..... I have never been a believer that a 1st post "moan" and excuse screams to people "we are fun fun fun!!!!"....... (that one goes under basic common sense) slow down, sit down, and rather than just thinking about the end, think about the journey that gets you there....... | |||
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"I really appreciate all the time given by everyone here! I do appreciate healthy criticsm! Will surely consider all the inputs given and will work them out and put in my profile as soon as I get time! For my background I do belong to the texting arena! For you it might be rude but i read so many profiles with this language so thought of doing same with mine! By the way I can surely say that its not that bad because of so many responses! Regarding spell checks and other issues il try to improve but I am not lazy and just to clarify i am not just looking to sit while girls play around! I posted so because i got offered such things which led me to believe that this might be a thing to attract attention! Thanks again! Have a good day every one up to point i think foxy does have a point... its not the way i would have put it but lets see if i can do it in a way that you can take it in.... people like to immediately put down their lack of success down the the thing they can't control (in your case, being asian) because it then leaves you blameless... its allows you to put it all on everyone else, whilst leaving you all innocent... and you know what.... that may be THE reason why people say no.... but I am Guessing it may be a million other reasons, and they are much much closer to home...... i tend to leave any advice i give down to "time, patience and basic common sense" so is 1 week really giving it time? is 1 week really show you have given it patience? and as for basic common sense... why should in this case a single fem be wanting to pick you guys over all of the other people?, what screams "wow!!! i have to meet them!!!!" sometimes you have to be able to "help yourself" to help yourself!!!! I think you thought people would just lie down and knickers would just drop off..... the reality is that it tends to be a lot more involved with that! you get a one chance to make a great first impression..... I have never been a believer that a 1st post "moan" and excuse screams to people "we are fun fun fun!!!!"....... (that one goes under basic common sense) slow down, sit down, and rather than just thinking about the end, think about the journey that gets you there......." Wise, wise words. | |||
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"Well u wud say that coz tats wat most ppl wish to do!! Its nthin lik tat for us but if u dnt get a single reply back aftr trying to communicate for ages is rude!!! N wat ever u jst mentioned has already been done! And yea we are a couple! M not just lukin for a cunt for my dick as well Heh? "Yeah that's we thought too... | |||
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"I really appreciate all the time given by everyone here! I do appreciate healthy criticsm! Will surely consider all the inputs given and will work them out and put in my profile as soon as I get time! For my background I do belong to the texting arena! For you it might be rude but i read so many profiles with this language so thought of doing same with mine! By the way I can surely say that its not that bad because of so many responses! Regarding spell checks and other issues il try to improve but I am not lazy and just to clarify i am not just looking to sit while girls play around! I posted so because i got offered such things which led me to believe that this might be a thing to attract attention! Thanks again! Have a good day every one" You keep mentioning MY PROFILE we thought it was both of your profiles...just saying | |||
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"We have been on here almost a week! But no real meets nd no nice conversations! Well wish to know wats wrongwith us or wat we can do better!!" Come to Aberdeen and I'll show you a good weekend lol | |||
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"I really appreciate all the time given by everyone here! I do appreciate healthy criticsm! Will surely consider all the inputs given and will work them out and put in my profile as soon as I get time! For my background I do belong to the texting arena! For you it might be rude but i read so many profiles with this language so thought of doing same with mine! By the way I can surely say that its not that bad because of so many responses! Regarding spell checks and other issues il try to improve but I am not lazy and just to clarify i am not just looking to sit while girls play around! I posted so because i got offered such things which led me to believe that this might be a thing to attract attention! Thanks again! Have a good d You keep mentioning MY PROFILE we thought it was both of your profiles...just saying " We picked up on that too but infairness the profile doesn't read like that and he is the one speaking here therefore concluded it wasn't a biggie, lol. 'My' (he) opinion of course. | |||
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"We have been on here almost a week! But no real meets nd no nice conversations! Well wish to know wats wrongwith us or wat we can do better!!" Kuti and kuta | |||
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"I am not here to be picked on! Offcourse I was upset! English is not my first tounge and I will make errors here and there but that doesnt change how WE as a couple feel about the swinging scenario! But yes if you are chatting or mailing mostly it will be me ( male counterpart) replying! You might say or feel as you feel! Its a free world and you have rights to you're opinion but then again don't push it on others!" A tough introduction to the forums, happens to all of us. Just had a reread of your profile and have to say it comes accross much more approachable and friendly, a good profile in my opinion. Good luck on fab and pretty sure you'll get your first meet and be up and running so to speak. | |||
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