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By *inkyboots84 OP   Woman
over a year ago

east yorkshire

hi i met my partner on a swinging site 3 years ago. Our sex life was amazing i moved to a different town to be with him and lost loads of weight i was a size 20 now a 12/14!

i know that we both work hard but that doesnt stop me wanting to rip his clothes off on a evening lol

i have tried so much and nothing there is always a excuse

its 2 late or he is 2 tired am brgininng to think that he doesnt find me attractive anymore x

arghhhhhhhh help

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"hi i met my partner on a swinging site 3 years ago. Our sex life was amazing i moved to a different town to be with him and lost loads of weight i was a size 20 now a 12/14!

i know that we both work hard but that doesnt stop me wanting to rip his clothes off on a evening lol

i have tried so much and nothing there is always a excuse

its 2 late or he is 2 tired am brgininng to think that he doesnt find me attractive anymore x

arghhhhhhhh help "

Communication is the only thing that works. Sit him down when he isnt tired or busy and explain how you feel. How we feel is never wrong, we just feel. Maybe if he is understanding you can come to some sort of agreement. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes relationships just run their course with no big reason as to why. I agree with the above poster, talk to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just talk things through.

Hope it works out for you x

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Talk, and talk NOW.

I wish I had done that a year ago with my wife and maybe we would still be together and not just friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You won't know what the problem is unless you talk and ask him. Or does he read these forums??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk, he could be depresed, he could be stressed.There coiuld be a number if things effecting him not directly relating to you or your relationship.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

When my son was a baby we where both tired all the while. But what we did was put an evening aside for us. My son would go to bed and one of us would cook we would both get tidyied up and make a nigh of it.

We would all love sex all the while but sometimes its not possible. Talk to yuor partner and see what comprimise you can come up with.

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By *inkyboots84 OP   Woman
over a year ago

east yorkshire

thanks every1 for advice

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Sex drives can go up as well as down! Others have mentioned some possible reasons,it is also possible he is just in that calmer more coupley phase of a relationship.It is also a possibility he prefers BBw's ,but unless you talk to him,you cannot move forward.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes as bt says its good to talk you never know you maybe worried about nothing so good luck and hope you sort things out

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over a year ago

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By *inkyboots84 OP   Woman
over a year ago

east yorkshire

just want to say thank you for advice xxx

tonight i made a lovely dinner and we did talk

lets just say i understand now and i have a massive smile on my face

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

Aww ! So nice to see a happy ending to a story like this.

Good on you - and him - for sorting it out.

Live long and prosper

Jane x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Ahhhh fab news,see like the ad said,it's good to talk!

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