FabSwingers.com forum: Do people actually meet on here?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been a member of Fab Swingers for a few months now, and I still haven't been able to arrange a meet or become verified. Please can you lovely people provide me some tips? Any help appreciated x

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Maybe writing a bit more of a profile may help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been a member of Fab Swingers for a few months now, and I still haven't been able to arrange a meet or become verified. Please can you lovely people provide me some tips? Any help appreciated x"

Well I haven't had a meet yet so probably not best placed to answer...

However it comes down to numbers. Lots of guys. Not many girls. They can have their pic.

Just be friendly, use the forums, maybe go to a social or two and it will happen - at least that's my plan!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I had my profile filled out, but recently amended it thinking less would be more? I think that hypothesis failed lol

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Your post on here has 3 times more words than your profile does.

Most women read the profile before they open a message, I would just delete without reading.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers for the advice; I've been to quite a few parties, but it seems that phones are prohibited; quite a catch 22 lol!

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

I think the tips would be included in the advice on your profile, of which you haven't given permission for us fabbers to comment on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you! I honk I just dread the fine line of enough and waffling on lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thank you! I honk I just dread the fine line of enough and waffling on lol"

*Think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How'd you mean? I think my profile is open to the public...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had my profile filled out, but recently amended it thinking less would be more? I think that hypothesis failed lol"

Well no cock pic's is a bonus maybe add a bit more to profile, try sounding upbeat and confident without being arrogant.

Difficult one that.

Also maybe a smiling pic.

You look quite angry, well maybe not angry just slightly vexed.

Lol

A nice happy face is always a welcome site.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for taking the time to advise! I guess the smouldering sexy look wasn't working haha. Will definitely look at updating my gallery; it's never really been my game to bombard with photos of my man muscle lol

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Cheers for the advice; I've been to quite a few parties, but it seems that phones are prohibited; quite a catch 22 lol!"

I don't understand the statement. I don't wander round a club with my phone but that doesn't stop me talking and if people are on here asking for their user name so I can verify/ chat again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheers for the advice; I've been to quite a few parties, but it seems that phones are prohibited; quite a catch 22 lol!"

Little pocket note pad and paper?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I suppose it is just coincidence that I've only played with couples who don't use any sites lol. I also try my hardest not to break the etiquette of the club, but I will definitely take it on board

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Great call! Might print business cards with my profile URL on it

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had my profile filled out, but recently amended it thinking less would be more? I think that hypothesis failed lol"

I am afraid that a two-line profile is only going to lead to a lack of interest - especially when one of those lines is "Curiosity killed the cat, but isn't killing the kitty a good thing?"

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"I've been a member of Fab Swingers for a few months now, and I still haven't been able to arrange a meet or become verified. Please can you lovely people provide me some tips? Any help appreciated x

I think the tips would be included in the advice on your profile, of which you haven't given permission for us fabbers to comment on.

He did.

The not commenting on the profile rule is more for those who ask something like - what kind of car should I get and then people start commenting on their profile choices. He asked for tips to help arrange meets, so telling him a 12 word profile isn't doing him any favours is OK.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Believe it or not I actually changed it last night thinking it was a witty move, obviously not. What do you suggest?

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Your profile isn't great tbh

Needs some more to make anybody be bothered with messaging you tbh x

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Believe it or not I actually changed it last night thinking it was a witty move, obviously not. What do you suggest?"

Talk about you

Who you are what makes you tick away from here

What you are looking for

What you can offer as against every other single guy

Market yourself

Be honest

Be polite

Tailor messages to a individual profile

Smile

And be patient

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you very much! Amended it now, hopefully it brings more luck

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

I just sit here knitting shreddies to pass the time!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Did you take any notice of the advice given to you last time you asked? Doesn't look like it.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

OP It is born and bred not "bread"

Sally

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