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By *antescarlet OP   Couple
over a year ago

newbury

Can anyone give us some pointers in how to aproach a bi-lady on here, because we have tried and not much luck....Trouble is we find it hard to aproach someone when thinking that we never want to be disrespectful but do wish to be naughty and play with a lady that is looking for the same things and some people don't even have the curtoasy to reply ...apologies for misspeling but english is not perfect

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Can anyone give us some pointers in how to aproach a bi-lady on here, because we have tried and not much luck....Trouble is we find it hard to aproach someone when thinking that we never want to be disrespectful but do wish to be naughty and play with a lady that is looking for the same things and some people don't even have the curtoasy to reply ...apologies for misspeling but english is not perfect "
it's not discourteous to not reply to a message op. You've met with a bi female so do what you did when you contacted her it obviously worked for you

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By *antescarlet OP   Couple
over a year ago

newbury

We know but as we respectfully decline mesagges of other people, maybe shouldn't expect the same curtoasy.We have been doing the same and other ways of aproach people but it is probably just dificult to find what we are looking for.they don't call them unicorns for nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read forums u will see same advise which is read their profiles fully approach them with knowledge of what they are looking for ,make sure you are compatible and be polite and have a pic of both of you to prove your not s man posing as a couple then cross fingers and hope x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We know but as we respectfully decline mesagges of other people, maybe shouldn't expect the same curtoasy.We have been doing the same and other ways of aproach people but it is probably just dificult to find what we are looking for.they don't call them unicorns for nothing "

If you read read the fab guidelines, it says that not replying is not discurteous/rude, it's a form of saying that you're not interested. Women get a lot of messages, so it would be impossible to reply to all messages, as we are here for fun too, not just to write 'no thank you' continuously. As another poster has said, you've met someone before, so perhaps continue with the same approach. It just takes a lot of patience. There are a lot of couples looking for a bi female. I'm sure if you persevere with it, you will get a bite at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone give us some pointers in how to aproach a bi-lady on here, because we have tried and not much luck....Trouble is we find it hard to aproach someone when thinking that we never want to be disrespectful but do wish to be naughty and play with a lady that is looking for the same things and some people don't even have the curtoasy to reply ...apologies for misspeling but english is not perfect "

Most people read the profile before deciding to respond to a message. You might want to ensure that it is appealing and informative to your target audience.

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By *antescarlet OP   Couple
over a year ago

newbury

Thank you for the suggestion.we might have to put a bit more effort into our profile.will do some more research on the guidelines and see what the future holds

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By *antescarlet OP   Couple
over a year ago

newbury

Will have to have a read through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being on 8 weeks and already having a meet is very good going so like someone said patience plays a big part on here. Seeing only a pic of the male half in public pics would also make people believe it just a male pretending to be a couple maybe get photo verified.

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By *antescarlet OP   Couple
over a year ago

newbury

I guess we are lucky then and yes patience is a virtue but as new to this site and we just feel like kids at a candy store

We very much apreciate the suggestions and thank you

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

You looking for single bi women and female couples, purely looking at raw numbers they are the least common numbers wise so you'll going to have more trouble than say looking for single men with an age range 18-99!

There's no way around that I'm afraid and other than taking good advice re profile etc above you'll just have to accept with what you are and aren't looking for you're limited more than some others but will still have some success

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