FabSwingers.com forum: Club visit with new fb

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is my first visit to a club with a guy I have been seeing from fab for a few months on my own..do you think it's best to aim for meeting couples or singles for a first club meet? Also do you tend to discuss beforehand what both of you want from the club visit and boundaries, etc. Would appreciate some thoughts please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning. I think if going with someone you should both discuss before what you are both hoping to get from the experience. In the past I have chatted with guys before but then again on the way there....helps get you both in the mood and remember the boundaries. Sure you will have a great time. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Morning. I think if going with someone you should both discuss before what you are both hoping to get from the experience. In the past I have chatted with guys before but then again on the way there....helps get you both in the mood and remember the boundaries. Sure you will have a great time. X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely discuss lots before going. I don't think you can plan who you'll meet there, unless setting up a specific meet off here. Relax and enjoy! Xx

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

My experience is I'm going with someone so we're together anyway. No need to plan meets. We met people there anyway. Just relax and be yourselves. And take drink!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Another thing is that I am unsure how will feel watching him have sex with another couple...wouldn't benfussed if he gave/received oral with a guy but unsure about him giving oral or sex to another lady!

Part of me thinks it could be a turn on but this is a grey area for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another thing is that I am unsure how will feel watching him have sex with another couple...wouldn't benfussed if he gave/received oral with a guy but unsure about him giving oral or sex to another lady!

Part of me thinks it could be a turn on but this is a grey area for me!

To be honest I think that's why the club scenario can be great-you can try things out in a neutral, safe environment, without feeling any pressure either way. If you try things and don't like them just continue to communicate and work out what would work better another time.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's only a fb why would seeing him give oral of have sex with another woman bother you? Or do you have feelings for this guy? Not meaning to sound or be rude but that was just first thing that hit me reading through the posts. If you have any doubts then I suggest you discuss before getting involved in anything as it could be awkward if he does do something you are uncomfortable with bit best of luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If he's only a fb why would seeing him give oral of have sex with another woman bother you? Or do you have feelings for this guy? Not meaning to sound or be rude but that was just first thing that hit me reading through the posts. If you have any doubts then I suggest you discuss before getting involved in anything as it could be awkward if he does do something you are uncomfortable with bit best of luck"

That's a good point you make. I am not sure myself and will definitely discuss before going out to club! Thanks

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