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"Be prepared too be inundated with messages and fake profiles. There are also those that will arrange to meet, but never turn up. Go with your instinct, if it sounds or look to good to be true, it most likely is just that and will leave you dissapointed. On the other hand, it can also be so much fun when you meet the genuine swingers. Visit a club and meet genuine folk tgat way Good luck! " Yeah, I've been considering a club, but I'd need to go it alone. Although I have read that the staff look after you if you're single and also, not to drink too much! Thanks so much for the advice! | |||
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"Personally I always feel safer if I have seen a face pic before a meet, and maybe meet in a public place the first time round for a coffee or something. Very nice profile by the way " Right back at you! | |||
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"Personally I always feel safer if I have seen a face pic before a meet, and maybe meet in a public place the first time round for a coffee or something. Very nice profile by the way Right back at you! " Aww thanks, shame I'm just outside your age range, I'm in Lambeth quite a lot. Would have loved to take you for a coffee | |||
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"Hello Everyone! I'm pretty new to all this and just wondered if you had any advice on what to look out for on the site or any thing I should be aware of as a newbie. I gather a lot of it is common sense when it comes to safety and such. Any advice would be massively appreciated! " Maybe considet replacing your orofile pic with something more discreet. Your very pretty and will get lots of mail anyway. Other than that and whats already been said its a good profile but a meeting in public for a coffee or a drink usually also s out the timewasters and for safety reasons is sound advice. Good luck though and if you want a date for a club when I'm in the area let me know | |||
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"Hello Everyone! I'm pretty new to all this and just wondered if you had any advice on what to look out for on the site or any thing I should be aware of as a newbie. I gather a lot of it is common sense when it comes to safety and such. Any advice would be massively appreciated! Maybe considet replacing your orofile pic with something more discreet. Your very pretty and will get lots of mail anyway. Other than that and whats already been said its a good profile but a meeting in public for a coffee or a drink usually also s out the timewasters and for safety reasons is sound advice. Good luck though and if you want a date for a club when I'm in the area let me know " My face is the best bit though, if I put a body one on, I might not get any mail! Haha! | |||
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"Great profile pretty lady...if only I were a couple of years older I could message you ! " You get a lot of this on the forum OP, people you're not interested in trying to get round your filters. | |||
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"You will be swarmed by single males and couples very soon..... Insist on a phone chat, would advise you meet in public or at a club. Don't give out too much personal info. Make sure you aren't followed home. Tell someone where your going. Have a speed dial on your phone to someone who will come and get you (same person who knows where your going). Have a "if I don't call you by so n so I clock, come and get me". Look for verified people on here. I'm very careful when we meet anyone, I really look after miss and think far too few people take safety lightly. " ... can only agree and some very good advice ... well said ... | |||
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"Do your research on the club you wosh to visit. We love Vanilla Alternative. Great people that will look after you. Maybe a Saturday with couples only if you di not want a bunch of horny single fellas following you everywhere hoping you would throw them a 'bone' " A lot of clubs, including VA, which I agree is very welcoming and considerate of its guests comfort and safety, put on 'Newbies' nights every so often when there'll be a particular emphasis on introducing you to others, keeping an eye on you etc. Maybe attending a social would be another way of breaking the ice with less pressure perhaps - have a look in the 'events' section of the forum for those and Newbie nights. You could also potentially meet nice people happy to accompany you to a club first time that way. Ms G Ms G | |||
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"Hello Everyone! I'm pretty new to all this and just wondered if you had any advice on what to look out for on the site or any thing I should be aware of as a newbie. I gather a lot of it is common sense when it comes to safety and such. Any advice would be massively appreciated! " Prepare to be mail-bombed | |||
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"Hello Everyone! I'm pretty new to all this and just wondered if you had any advice on what to look out for on the site or any thing I should be aware of as a newbie. I gather a lot of it is common sense when it comes to safety and such. Any advice would be massively appreciated! Prepare to be mail-bombed " So many penises in my inbox! I don't mean that in the literal sense either! Haha! | |||
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"As already said filtees are your best friend. Certainly cuts down the amount of mail I receive. XX " Yeah, it's done now! Soooo much better! X | |||
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"Hello Everyone! I'm pretty new to all this and just wondered if you had any advice on what to look out for on the site or any thing I should be aware of as a newbie. I gather a lot of it is common sense when it comes to safety and such. Any advice would be massively appreciated! Prepare to be mail-bombed So many penises in my inbox! I don't mean that in the literal sense either! Haha! " Yes you will get a high amount of cock shots. Personally I know what ones like as I have one. Lol XX | |||
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"As already said filtees are your best friend. Certainly cuts down the amount of mail I receive. XX Yeah, it's done now! Soooo much better! X" | |||
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"Hello Everyone! I'm pretty new to all this and just wondered if you had any advice on what to look out for on the site or any thing I should be aware of as a newbie. I gather a lot of it is common sense when it comes to safety and such. Any advice would be massively appreciated! Prepare to be mail-bombed So many penises in my inbox! I don't mean that in the literal sense either! Haha! Yes you will get a high amount of cock shots. Personally I know what ones like as I have one. Lol XX " Haha... I just had a peak! You look great in a skirt. I'm pretty jealous! | |||
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"You could come to a social to meet some people " I'm planning on it! It's all very exciting! | |||
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"Filter the fuck out of your mailbox until you get your head round it. I had my filters on lockdown for months when I started on here and just contacted people myself. It's probably why I stayed." Haha... noted! Thanks! | |||
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"Don't let the idiots get you down and don't judge everyone by their actions there are lots of genuine nice people on here. Hope you find what you want on this site" Ahh thanks for that! X | |||
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"If it's a couple you are chatting with on here, make sure you speak to the woman on the phone. Before arranging a meeting. Welcome and good luck xxx " Yep that should eliminate most of the couples that contact you. XX | |||
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"You will be swarmed by single males and couples very soon..... Insist on a phone chat, would advise you meet in public or at a club. Don't give out too much personal info. Make sure you aren't followed home. Tell someone where your going. Have a speed dial on your phone to someone who will come and get you (same person who knows where your going). Have a "if I don't call you by so n so I clock, come and get me". Look for verified people on here. I'm very careful when we meet anyone, I really look after miss and think far too few people take safety lightly. " What he said. Possibly try a club. And don't let any possible bad experiences on here grind you down. And as Lady T said be careful about pics. Our own advice would be to pace yourself. Seem to see a lot of people getting on fab and blasting it for a few weeks then disappearing. That's just our view point. | |||
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"You will be swarmed by single males and couples very soon..... Insist on a phone chat, would advise you meet in public or at a club. Don't give out too much personal info. Make sure you aren't followed home. Tell someone where your going. Have a speed dial on your phone to someone who will come and get you (same person who knows where your going). Have a "if I don't call you by so n so I clock, come and get me". Look for verified people on here. I'm very careful when we meet anyone, I really look after miss and think far too few people take safety lightly. What he said. Possibly try a club. And don't let any possible bad experiences on here grind you down. And as Lady T said be careful about pics. Our own advice would be to pace yourself. Seem to see a lot of people getting on fab and blasting it for a few weeks then disappearing. That's just our view point. " Yeah, I've decided not to go too mad! Totally fine if people want to, but I want to be choosy and take my time! I'll certainly be trying a club! | |||
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"The best advice I can give you is that I like receiving tit pics. " Check your inbox! | |||
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"The best advice I can give you is that I like receiving tit pics. Check your inbox! " Oh I do too | |||
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"The best advice I can give you is that I like receiving tit pics. Check your inbox! Oh I do too " Me too!! | |||
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"I always have a person I text to let them know I'm safe. But I always send a derogatory message ie. 'Small dick. Very disappointed'. If someone is holding you against your will they will either read what you type or type it for you, it will be a positive message. My friend knows if is positive there is something wrong. " I like this | |||
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"What have I started? Sorry OP. " You just had to bring tits into it, didn't you! | |||
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"Joking aside, I've read through some of the thread and the advice has been really good. Here's something I'll say from my own experience: when you plan meets with people you haven't met before, don't go massively out of your way. There is always a good chance the person won't show up or something might get cancelled. The less you have riding on a meet, the less you'll be dissapointed if it goes wrong. I know it's a bit cynical, but I've seen it go wrong and the upset after. Most of all, stay safe and have fun -Courtney " Ahh thanks for that... You're totally right, of course! I've had it happen with normal dates and it's completely rubbish. | |||
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"Joking aside, I've read through some of the thread and the advice has been really good. Here's something I'll say from my own experience: when you plan meets with people you haven't met before, don't go massively out of your way. There is always a good chance the person won't show up or something might get cancelled. The less you have riding on a meet, the less you'll be dissapointed if it goes wrong. I know it's a bit cynical, but I've seen it go wrong and the upset after. Most of all, stay safe and have fun -Courtney Ahh thanks for that... You're totally right, of course! I've had it happen with normal dates and it's completely rubbish. " This is good advice, a good guy on here will travel to meet you in a public place. Anyone trying to talk you into doing things differently does not respect your safety. | |||
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"Well it is nearly Tits Thursday, after all (I may have made that up) " You're fun! welcome to fabs. Only thing have to add is, know your boundaries and always remember them. People have strong agendas here and many will push and push without consideration. It is a seductive place, and you're here to experiment - but remember what was your original desire. It's ok to break your own rules or to do things simply to please others, but make sure that doing so is your own decision, not the result of someone's pressure and manipulations. Enjoy! | |||
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"Oh thanks everyone... Massively appreciate the advice! Tits for everyone! X " Sounds good x | |||
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"Oh thanks everyone... Massively appreciate the advice! Tits for everyone! X " Oh my.... | |||
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"...before leaving them alone to cope with wobbly legs and a slight case of breathlessness " What happened to afterplay Mr Shoots&leaves? | |||
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"Hello Everyone! I'm pretty new to all this and just wondered if you had any advice on what to look out for on the site or any thing I should be aware of as a newbie. I gather a lot of it is common sense when it comes to safety and such. Any advice would be massively appreciated! " Maybe when someone write's a nice message with a question for you, yoy could at least look at there profile, or even reply with yes or no but thanks, instead of just deleting. Thanks. | |||
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"Hello Everyone! I'm pretty new to all this and just wondered if you had any advice on what to look out for on the site or any thing I should be aware of as a newbie. I gather a lot of it is common sense when it comes to safety and such. Any advice would be massively appreciated! Maybe when someone write's a nice message with a question for you, yoy could at least look at there profile, or even reply with yes or no but thanks, instead of just deleting. Thanks. " You'll get plenty of these messages to....just ignore and block,for some reason they feel they are entitled | |||
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"Great profile. Beautiful pic. X You'll do just fine." Ahh thanks! | |||
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"Personally I always feel safer if I have seen a face pic before a meet, and maybe meet in a public place the first time round for a coffee or something. Very nice profile by the way " Spot on. Exactly this. I'm a genuine single female too and the above advice is exactly how I do things for myself. Had a few great meets and so glad I'm as careful as I am on here. | |||
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"Hello Everyone! I'm pretty new to all this and just wondered if you had any advice on what to look out for on the site or any thing I should be aware of as a newbie. I gather a lot of it is common sense when it comes to safety and such. Any advice would be massively appreciated! Maybe when someone write's a nice message with a question for you, yoy could at least look at there profile, or even reply with yes or no but thanks, instead of just deleting. Thanks. " Guys such as yourself need to fully read profiles before messaging and respect the wishes a woman has for her own body. Saves wasting your own time. Site rules also state deleted messages means thanks but no thank you. Would be great if everyone respected site rules. No one on this site is owed anything. Thank you and have a great day. | |||
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"Hello Everyone! I'm pretty new to all this and just wondered if you had any advice on what to look out for on the site or any thing I should be aware of as a newbie. I gather a lot of it is common sense when it comes to safety and such. Any advice would be massively appreciated! Maybe considet replacing your orofile pic with something more discreet. Your very pretty and will get lots of mail anyway. Other than that and whats already been said its a good profile but a meeting in public for a coffee or a drink usually also s out the timewasters and for safety reasons is sound advice. Good luck though and if you want a date for a club when I'm in the area let me know My face is the best bit though, if I put a body one on, I might not get any mail! Haha! " You have a very pretty face, your profile looks good and I'm sure you are a very sexy... You'll have us queuing up around the block. Welcome to fab and enjoy the experience x PS Plus size women are sexy too xx | |||
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