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why is it so hard to meet people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What can I improve or do to get a meet any suggestions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having had a look at the large number of similar threads you have launched, dating back many months and the advice you were given then, maybe step away from messaging from the relative safety of the impersonal keyboard and get yourself along to either one of the many north west socials advertised on here or to one of the clubs, there are loads. Perhaps you'll have more joy face to face than just via a website message system. Just a thought.

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By *asteregg01Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Your profile says you like to be watched and you like to meet people....i think clubs are your best bet then.

As the poster above said, if you've been on this amount of time with no luck, dont keep posting threads about it. DO SOMETHING

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go your local butchers as meet usually better there than supermarkets .

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Or just give it up as a bad job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate these " how do i get meets threads " everyone gives out advice , then it buggers it up for us single guys that alreadg have it sussed , chat rooms. , go to a club , get yourself noticed and dont be a dick , its simple ,.. When you message some one its bloody obvious Why youre msging them , you dont have to spell it out in detail , be respectful , be witty , and be yourself .... Im off to write me latest veri. Good luck i guess. .....

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I hate these " how do i get meets threads " everyone gives out advice , then it buggers it up for us single guys that alreadg have it sussed , chat rooms. , go to a club , get yourself noticed and dont be a dick , its simple ,.. When you message some one its bloody obvious Why youre msging them , you dont have to spell it out in detail , be respectful , be witty , and be yourself .... Im off to write me latest veri. Good luck i guess. ....."

I hardly think it buggers it up for single guys as more often than not the advice given is not taken....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate these " how do i get meets threads " everyone gives out advice , then it buggers it up for us single guys that alreadg have it sussed , chat rooms. , go to a club , get yourself noticed and dont be a dick , its simple ,.. When you message some one its bloody obvious Why youre msging them , you dont have to spell it out in detail , be respectful , be witty , and be yourself .... Im off to write me latest veri. Good luck i guess. ....."

Just too many of these threads....simple answer is "it's not difficult if you can actually be bothered to put a smidgin of effort in!"

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Read the profiles and send a message only to those where you fit THEIR criteria. Nothing more annoying than some guy trying to 'negotiate'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effort !! And patience, I get meets and I ain't an oil painting but I'm not daft and I'm not pushy , don't moan, put your back into it

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I found that a casual conversational style on my profile was more engaging than lists and bullet points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only as hard as you make it for yourself. Fab has all the tools you need to meet people. If you're not making best use of them then you've only yourself to blame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perseverance is the key I'm no Brad pit but I get regular meets and it doesn't take a rocket scientist to tell u why it's down to attitude and how u portray yourself

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

With the club scene you have in the north west it should not be too difficult if you use your imagination to come into contact with a variety of people and social events

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