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By *rax OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I'm looking to talk to someone about their club experiences. As a single man I have heard that there is a long waiting list to join many of the clubs. I have a feeling that I should just contact clubs directly and see what the score is. I also feel that as I would only be able to attend clubs on selected nights that it may just be full of other single men. As I'm straight this isn't really for me! Haha.

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

No waiting list at Club Atlantis Evolution in Burslem, Stoke-on-Trent.

Just bring your own alcohol and two forms of ID on Friday nights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No waiting list at Adam and Eves in Eccles, Manchester. And no restriction on when you can attend either xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I always thought there were waiting lists for single men too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Citycelts in Leicester just turn up and pay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look @ the clubs local to you and look on their websites x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There does seem to be problem in London as the ratio of men to women is very different a lot of London clubs do have some exclusions in place and clubs I have attended do have a lot of men

On the one night I got in I found 6 men to one women must be said men did not conduct themselves well towards the end one women was swamped by horny guys had to get out of there myself very seedy so I can see why men would be controlled in some clubs not fair but just

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By *rax OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

This is one of my concerns that the women in clubs will be swamped by single men. All I would like to do is say hello and introduce myself without any pressure. The clubs that I know of in my area are chams and xtasia. Are there any others in the wolverhampton/West Midlands area?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The clubs I've been to there has never been too many single guys. That being said I've stopped going now as it's not so much fun on your own, need to find a lady to go with then they are great!

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

I think we mentioned to you before that xtasia hold ffff nights, which if you put your name down in advance I think you can get in. You may also be able to join on the night.

B

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

No waiting list to join as a member at kestrel or Abfab or attend any day or night except Friday evening guestlist is limited to ensure its not too cock heavy

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"There does seem to be problem in London as the ratio of men to women is very different a lot of London clubs do have some exclusions in place and clubs I have attended do have a lot of men

On the one night I got in I found 6 men to one women must be said men did not conduct themselves well towards the end one women was swamped by horny guys had to get out of there myself very seedy so I can see why men would be controlled in some clubs not fair but just "

That is because there are fewer women in London than there are in other parts of the country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There does seem to be problem in London as the ratio of men to women is very different a lot of London clubs do have some exclusions in place and clubs I have attended do have a lot of men

On the one night I got in I found 6 men to one women must be said men did not conduct themselves well towards the end one women was swamped by horny guys had to get out of there myself very seedy so I can see why men would be controlled in some clubs not fair but just

That is because there are fewer women in London than there are in other parts of the country"

But what the London ladies lacks in numbers some make up in enthusiasm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is one of my concerns that the women in clubs will be swamped by single men. All I would like to do is say hello and introduce myself without any pressure. The clubs that I know of in my area are chams and xtasia. Are there any others in the wolverhampton/West Midlands area? "

Chams as far as I know there is a waiting list but better to contact the club direct to see what's happening at the moment.

Xtasia you can apply for membership online and you'll get an email back to say if you've been successful or not.

Somebody else did mention the FFFF nights at Xtasia but as a single male to go to that you'd need to either be a member already or been approved for membership.

There are a couple of other clubs in the area so worth looking in the club section and checking out their websites etc.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"There does seem to be problem in London as the ratio of men to women is very different a lot of London clubs do have some exclusions in place and clubs I have attended do have a lot of men

On the one night I got in I found 6 men to one women must be said men did not conduct themselves well towards the end one women was swamped by horny guys had to get out of there myself very seedy so I can see why men would be controlled in some clubs not fair but just

That is because there are fewer women in London than there are in other parts of the country

But what the London ladies lacks in numbers some make up in enthusiasm! "

Gee thankee, Sire

[hope he was talking about me too]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There does seem to be problem in London as the ratio of men to women is very different a lot of London clubs do have some exclusions in place and clubs I have attended do have a lot of men

On the one night I got in I found 6 men to one women must be said men did not conduct themselves well towards the end one women was swamped by horny guys had to get out of there myself very seedy so I can see why men would be controlled in some clubs not fair but just

That is because there are fewer women in London than there are in other parts of the country

But what the London ladies lacks in numbers some make up in enthusiasm!

Gee thankee, Sire

[hope he was talking about me too]"

The magnificent Josie one of London's finest.

Never in the history of human endeavour did so many owe so much to so few! (With apologies to Churchill and British patriots).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chams does have a waiting list, but if you are extra nice they may allow you to join. best days to ask is Sunday-Thursday. And go in and ask so they know you are genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No waiting list to join as a member at kestrel or Abfab or attend any day or night except Friday evening guestlist is limited to ensure its not too cock heavy "

That's a relief as I'm doing a Friday night there soon. First visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chams does have a waiting list xtasia apply online retro club Dudley not Sure and valhalla in dudley does non member nights I believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chams does have a waiting list xtasia apply online retro club Dudley not Sure and valhalla in dudley does non member nights I believe "

Retro is in Walsall lovely in our area I would personally only go to chams or xtasia.

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By *rax OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Thanks for all of your advice. Quite a few things to look into and see where it all takes me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There does seem to be problem in London as the ratio of men to women is very different a lot of London clubs do have some exclusions in place and clubs I have attended do have a lot of men

On the one night I got in I found 6 men to one women must be said men did not conduct themselves well towards the end one women was swamped by horny guys had to get out of there myself very seedy so I can see why men would be controlled in some clubs not fair but just "

Welcome to "pack mentality" where single blokes bolster their already bad reputation and feel they should get their monies worth.

Clubs should get an A5 leaflet printed (oooo's of them ) and hand one to each single bloke that enters. On that leaflet should be a list of do's and don'ts and top the list should be:

Following couples and women around.

One complaint and your out!!!

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