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"I've searched old posts for previous threads on this, but didn't find any---hopefully I'm not repeating old news and have put this up in the right place. My doc has suggested that I be fit with the Mirena coil for medical reasons, I've found info online, but I'm wondering if anyone can give me any real life experience of how it has affected them mentally/emotionally? I have a history of depression and anxiety, and am concerned the coil would impact this negatively. Any responses here or privately would be greatly appreciated." I had it for years. The very first time it was fitted I remember feeling a bit miserable for a couple of days with no reason to, then I figured it out that the only thing different was the Mirena. Other than that, no problems with mood other than the normal ones all humans are supposed to have occasionally. | |||
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"I've searched old posts for previous threads on this, but didn't find any---hopefully I'm not repeating old news and have put this up in the right place. My doc has suggested that I be fit with the Mirena coil for medical reasons, I've found info online, but I'm wondering if anyone can give me any real life experience of how it has affected them mentally/emotionally? I have a history of depression and anxiety, and am concerned the coil would impact this negatively. Any responses here or privately would be greatly appreciated." Hi I've had a Mirena since my daughter was born 11 years ago. No problems and actually find it really convenient for contraception and lessening the monthly flood.. I also have a history of depression and it has not made that worse. Good luck. | |||
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"I've searched old posts for previous threads on this, but didn't find any---hopefully I'm not repeating old news and have put this up in the right place. My doc has suggested that I be fit with the Mirena coil for medical reasons, I've found info online, but I'm wondering if anyone can give me any real life experience of how it has affected them mentally/emotionally? I have a history of depression and anxiety, and am concerned the coil would impact this negatively. Any responses here or privately would be greatly appreciated." I have the same coil which your doctor has recommended. I'm so glad I've got it. Never ever had any issues nor any problems with it. Took a couple of years for my periods to completely stop but even before they stopped, i only ever had light spotting. Lasts for 5 years too! Really is the best thing I've had done. Highly recommended it. | |||
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"I've tried every method of contraception going. The mirena coil made me bleed constantly and I had it taken out in the end. The implant gave me terrible mood swings. Neither had a notable impact on my mental health, but I have a long history of anxiety/depression and am on a cocktail of drugs for it, so maybe my medication blocked it? I don't know. I'm waiting now to be sterilised, as no contraception seems to agree with me, and i'm sure I don't want any more kids. " Tbh, if I had my time back, I would get sterilised in my 30s. Every hormonal contraception had negative effects for me. Thankfully my partner has had a vasectomy, so birth control is no longer an issue (condoms with others obviously). | |||
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"From a mans perspective. Buy condoms!!! The mrs has tried them all and had problems with them alllllll. Implant made her an emotional wreck, crying over nothing and basically being down in the dumps. Coil made her fanny smell that bad she could smell it through her clothes, cause was some imbalance in the bacteria, hence she lost all confidence and sexual deviance. Were back to condoms and life cudnt be more bliss... Comdoms r the way!!!" Thank you mans perspective!! Its great to know that birth control/side effect isnt just a womans responsibility. Ive no kids so cant have coil ideally, and your feedback on that is really helpful too.... that imbalance is an abso killer! The only downside of being off the pill is that im uber horney all the time. Er...did i say downside | |||
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"From a mans perspective. Buy condoms!!! The mrs has tried them all and had problems with them alllllll. Implant made her an emotional wreck, crying over nothing and basically being down in the dumps. Coil made her fanny smell that bad she could smell it through her clothes, cause was some imbalance in the bacteria, hence she lost all confidence and sexual deviance. Were back to condoms and life cudnt be more bliss... Comdoms r the way!!! Thank you mans perspective!! Its great to know that birth control/side effect isnt just a womans responsibility. Ive no kids so cant have coil ideally, and your feedback on that is really helpful too.... that imbalance is an abso killer! The only downside of being off the pill is that im uber horney all the time. Er...did i say downside " hy cant you have the coil cos you have had no kids? | |||
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"I had the mirena coil and hated the bloody thing, told the Dr if they didn't remove it I was prepared to do it myself! I have never suffered from depression, I am usually very level in my moods, but while I had it and for about 6 months after removal my mood swings were impressive, as were the headaches, muscle aches and a general sense of feeling wrong in myself. I could go on and list physical symptoms but that wasn't what you asked for." i removed my own myseld | |||
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"From a mans perspective. Buy condoms!!! The mrs has tried them all and had problems with them alllllll. Implant made her an emotional wreck, crying over nothing and basically being down in the dumps. Coil made her fanny smell that bad she could smell it through her clothes, cause was some imbalance in the bacteria, hence she lost all confidence and sexual deviance. Were back to condoms and life cudnt be more bliss... Comdoms r the way!!! Thank you mans perspective!! Its great to know that birth control/side effect isnt just a womans responsibility. Ive no kids so cant have coil ideally, and your feedback on that is really helpful too.... that imbalance is an abso killer! The only downside of being off the pill is that im uber horney all the time. Er...did i say downside hy cant you have the coil cos you have had no kids?" I've never had kids and i have the mirena coil. It's a myth that you can't have it unless you have had kids because you are too tight. When they fit it they use a small dilator to open your cervix slightly to insert it. Even if you have had kids they sometimes need to do this. Your own personal physiology has more bearing on whether you can have it. | |||
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"From a mans perspective. Buy condoms!!! The mrs has tried them all and had problems with them alllllll. Implant made her an emotional wreck, crying over nothing and basically being down in the dumps. Coil made her fanny smell that bad she could smell it through her clothes, cause was some imbalance in the bacteria, hence she lost all confidence and sexual deviance. Were back to condoms and life cudnt be more bliss... Comdoms r the way!!! Thank you mans perspective!! Its great to know that birth control/side effect isnt just a womans responsibility. Ive no kids so cant have coil ideally, and your feedback on that is really helpful too.... that imbalance is an abso killer! The only downside of being off the pill is that im uber horney all the time. Er...did i say downside hy cant you have the coil cos you have had no kids? I've never had kids and i have the mirena coil. It's a myth that you can't have it unless you have had kids because you are too tight. When they fit it they use a small dilator to open your cervix slightly to insert it. Even if you have had kids they sometimes need to do this. Your own personal physiology has more bearing on whether you can have it." correct, they had to dilate my cervix cos i hadnt had kids too. x | |||
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"From a mans perspective. Buy condoms!!! The mrs has tried them all and had problems with them alllllll. Implant made her an emotional wreck, crying over nothing and basically being down in the dumps. Coil made her fanny smell that bad she could smell it through her clothes, cause was some imbalance in the bacteria, hence she lost all confidence and sexual deviance. Were back to condoms and life cudnt be more bliss... Comdoms r the way!!! Thank you mans perspective!! Its great to know that birth control/side effect isnt just a womans responsibility. Ive no kids so cant have coil ideally, and your feedback on that is really helpful too.... that imbalance is an abso killer! The only downside of being off the pill is that im uber horney all the time. Er...did i say downside " To say the least i felt like i had lost my woman after we had our first child and she had the implant then coil. She didnt want to touch me at all. Oh and forgot the implant had basically dried her up, she was never horny or wet.. It got that bad that i signed up to momsnet, to post of my experience and to warn others. | |||
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"I had the mirena coil fitted at the beginning of march and on the whole it has been great. I haven't noticed any difference in mood apart from being slightly less tolerent of fuckwits. To be honest that's probably a good thing because I've always been too nice and not wanted to upset or offend anyone. It did take a long time to settle down and i had loads of spotting etc. The last 2 months have been great. No spotting and my periods are now very light and only last 3-4 days. Before having the coil i bled very heavily for over a week and was anaemic." My experience has been the same. I am on my second coil and even though I have a long history of depression I don't believe the coil has had any effect in that regard. In fact I have come off of my antidepressants since I had the coil fitted. D | |||
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" Apparently there are non hormone coils about now. " Non hormonal coils have been around for decades, they are made from copper. They work by preventing a fertilised egg from implanting and also release small amounts of copper ions which is harmful to sperm. The hormonal coil lasts for five years and reduces/stops periods. The non hormonal coil lasts for 10 years but makes periods much heavier for a lot of women. | |||
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"In terms of mood the mirena is probably the best option for hormonal contraception there is as the hormones are only locally released into the womb rather than all over the body such as with the pill or implant " This is what my doctor told me. It's the only hormonal contraception they will give me due to dangers of blood clotting from other types. But it's also the only hormonal contraception that hasn't messed with my emotional state, the injection affected my terribly. As everyone has different stories all I can say is try it. If it's not for you its easily removed x | |||
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" Apparently there are non hormone coils about now. Non hormonal coils have been around for decades, they are made from copper. They work by preventing a fertilised egg from implanting and also release small amounts of copper ions which is harmful to sperm. The hormonal coil lasts for five years and reduces/stops periods. The non hormonal coil lasts for 10 years but makes periods much heavier for a lot of women." Ah. Didn't know that. When C was getting her second coil fitted she was asked how she was enjoying not having periods. When she replied that they never stopped she was told that she was one of the lucky ones. Yeah, right. | |||
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"I've had the mirena coil for around 15yrs now. I got it because the pill throws my depression into overdrive. Not had any problems mood wise with the mirena. It hurts like hell when it's fitted, not helped by the fact I haven't had kids. Not had much trouble once it settled down. I still get very light periods but without it I'd be dreadful. Overall I'm pleased with it. " I'm sorry to hear it was painful for you. It shouldn't. All you should feel is discomfort and the idea is to take painkillers half an hour before your appointment and you shouldn't feel a thing. If it was beyond uncomfortable to the point of being painful I would suggest that was due to the person inserting it rather than the coil itself. | |||
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"I've had the mirena coil for around 15yrs now. I got it because the pill throws my depression into overdrive. Not had any problems mood wise with the mirena. It hurts like hell when it's fitted, not helped by the fact I haven't had kids. Not had much trouble once it settled down. I still get very light periods but without it I'd be dreadful. Overall I'm pleased with it. I'm sorry to hear it was painful for you. It shouldn't. All you should feel is discomfort and the idea is to take painkillers half an hour before your appointment and you shouldn't feel a thing. If it was beyond uncomfortable to the point of being painful I would suggest that was due to the person inserting it rather than the coil itself." This is not necessarily the case, a retroverted uterus can make it impossible to insert an IUD without sedation. | |||
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"From a mans perspective. Buy condoms!!! The mrs has tried them all and had problems with them alllllll. Implant made her an emotional wreck, crying over nothing and basically being down in the dumps. Coil made her fanny smell that bad she could smell it through her clothes, cause was some imbalance in the bacteria, hence she lost all confidence and sexual deviance. Were back to condoms and life cudnt be more bliss... Comdoms r the way!!!" Contraception isn't the issue though...I wish it was as simple as that! | |||
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"I've had the mirena coil for around 15yrs now. I got it because the pill throws my depression into overdrive. Not had any problems mood wise with the mirena. It hurts like hell when it's fitted, not helped by the fact I haven't had kids. Not had much trouble once it settled down. I still get very light periods but without it I'd be dreadful. Overall I'm pleased with it. I'm sorry to hear it was painful for you. It shouldn't. All you should feel is discomfort and the idea is to take painkillers half an hour before your appointment and you shouldn't feel a thing. If it was beyond uncomfortable to the point of being painful I would suggest that was due to the person inserting it rather than the coil itself." It was agony and I love pain. Had pain killer and sorry about the spelling mysoprostal? It was easier with that. Had a good 4 now I think and it doesn't get easier. | |||
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"No problems for me with the marina coil in regard to depression. I weaned myself off anti depressants about 9 months ago whilst I still had the coil in. I had to have it removed 2 months ago due to it being dislodged again (twice now) from large cocks lol. So had it taken out as that was painful. Not sure whether to go for another yet x " Not sure I've even been jealous of someone having their coil dislodged lol | |||
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"No problems for me with the marina coil in regard to depression. I weaned myself off anti depressants about 9 months ago whilst I still had the coil in. I had to have it removed 2 months ago due to it being dislodged again (twice now) from large cocks lol. So had it taken out as that was painful. Not sure whether to go for another yet x Not sure I've even been jealous of someone having their coil dislodged lol " Hahaha Theres a first for everything | |||
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"No problems for me with the marina coil in regard to depression. I weaned myself off anti depressants about 9 months ago whilst I still had the coil in. I had to have it removed 2 months ago due to it being dislodged again (twice now) from large cocks lol. So had it taken out as that was painful. Not sure whether to go for another yet x Not sure I've even been jealous of someone having their coil dislodged lol Hahaha Theres a first for everything " Don't have to be on here long to learn that | |||
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"I keep thinking about changing from the mini pill but reading some stories on here really put me off other contraceptive! I came off a few years back and lasted 2 months until the PMS and period pains convinced me it was a bad idea " I felt the same when they took my coil out!!! It had to come out while they did a little op. Had to wait ages to get it put back. Had 2 failed condoms in the same week plus all the pain and pms. Begged them to put the damn thing back lol | |||
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"I've searched old posts for previous threads on this, but didn't find any---hopefully I'm not repeating old news and have put this up in the right place. My doc has suggested that I be fit with the Mirena coil for medical reasons, I've found info online, but I'm wondering if anyone can give me any real life experience of how it has affected them mentally/emotionally? I have a history of depression and anxiety, and am concerned the coil would impact this negatively. Any responses here or privately would be greatly appreciated." I have the mirena fitted and to be honest I love it. I suffer with depression occasionally but wouldn't say it's to do with the coil or that it's any worse having it fitted. | |||
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"I've searched old posts for previous threads on this, but didn't find any---hopefully I'm not repeating old news and have put this up in the right place. My doc has suggested that I be fit with the Mirena coil for medical reasons, I've found info online, but I'm wondering if anyone can give me any real life experience of how it has affected them mentally/emotionally? I have a history of depression and anxiety, and am concerned the coil would impact this negatively. Any responses here or privately would be greatly appreciated." I had the marina. I suffered mild depression but the main effect I had was pain during sex. It bloody hurt! The doctors kept gobbing me off until I demanded they remove it. They did and I was pain free again! | |||
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"I had to have mine removed in days and opted for the depo injection which was another new set of problems. I can't take the normal pill because of meds I take for epilepsy reduces it's effect. " The mirena and depo release the same hormone,dr tried to push me into having it....i refused but didnt realise until i went to the clinic to discuss alternatives...i had the depo when it first came out and went through hell...so glad i stuck out for what i wanted and not what drs favour,my body doesnt like extra hormones at all.x | |||
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"I've to get mine changed but I really don't want to....will have to eventually but dreading it x" I had mine changed under sedation. Ask your gp if you cam have the same. X | |||
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"From a mans perspective. Buy condoms!!! The mrs has tried them all and had problems with them alllllll. Implant made her an emotional wreck, crying over nothing and basically being down in the dumps. Coil made her fanny smell that bad she could smell it through her clothes, cause was some imbalance in the bacteria, hence she lost all confidence and sexual deviance. Were back to condoms and life cudnt be more bliss... Comdoms r the way!!! Thank you mans perspective!! Its great to know that birth control/side effect isnt just a womans responsibility. Ive no kids so cant have coil ideally, and your feedback on that is really helpful too.... that imbalance is an abso killer! The only downside of being off the pill is that im uber horney all the time. Er...did i say downside " Hi have I read this right you can't have the coil cause you haven't had kids? Have you been told that makes a difference? Ive got a coil & I've not got kids. I'm 45 & not in a position to have kids due to health reasons! | |||
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"I've to get mine changed but I really don't want to....will have to eventually but dreading it x I had mine changed under sedation. Ask your gp if you cam have the same. X" I'm not fussed about the procedure....it's the after effects lol x | |||
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