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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi All, I'm struggling with replies to my profile and would like to hear your thoughts on it as Im thinking of knocking it on the head a trying a club instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi All, I'm struggling with replies to my profile and would like to hear your thoughts on it as Im thinking of knocking it on the head a trying a club instead."

Nothing thwre really. A blurred bottom. Generic text. Nothing of interest.

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Your profile is very generic and doesnt say much about you.

And a photo of your bum?

Your profile is very bland, i would skip over it if i were looking for a meet.

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Your profile is your selling point, the odds are already stacked against you so you need to do everything you can to make things happen.

A few nice photos, sell who you are.

Get to a club or local social and get yourself known on the scene. A decent verification can make the world of a difference.

The odds are something like for every single woman

500-1...your in the 500

For a couple its 200-1 so guess where you are.

Now with 98 percent of profiles looking nearly exactly the same as yours, see why your not getting meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably best knock it on the head mate

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Probably best knock it on the head mate "

oooooohh harsh very harsh get back in your box and chill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always welcome tips on my profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably best knock it on the head mate "

Harsh......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably best knock it on the head mate

oooooohh harsh very harsh get back in your box and chill "

Get back in what box? He asked we replied, let us know if that's ok or if not let us know exactly what we should say that would meet with your approval

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably best knock it on the head mate

Harsh......

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Sorry we've clearly got this wrong (silly us for having an opinion)

op do your best chap don't give up hang in there, hope that helps but maybe don't give the option when making a post by saying should I give up, unless your after the sympathy vote

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Probably best knock it on the head mate

oooooohh harsh very harsh get back in your box and chill

Get back in what box? He asked we replied, let us know if that's ok or if not let us know exactly what we should say that would meet with your approval "

some thing constructive would be more in line with what the op asked not a put down no one likes a put down do they the prove of that is how quick you respond when it was you on the receiving end .

but hay I guess you can dish it out but not take it hay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok so as others have said your profile is your selling point.

You are in a majority group so you need to really stand out.

Lots of info, descriptions.

Be creative, be yourself, but your best version.

Have you got a niche, maybe something that would appeal to a specific kink/fetish?

It's not easy on here even for couples to find the RIGHT match, so for single males we can imagine its tough but persevere.

Above all don't get disheartened by lack of replies, no reply to messages, its just how it is.

We try to reply with a short "no thanks" to all who have clearly bothered to read our profile as it shows they have taken a real interest because there's lots of impolite folk on here (as in life).

We are amazed by how many guys reply to our polite no thanks with a "thanks for the no thanks" type thing.

Costs nothing to be nice and polite to polite people, though we have low tolerance for impolite types.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the constructive comments and the tips.. tbh I was expecting the others as well.. I'm surprised its was only one... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably best knock it on the head mate

oooooohh harsh very harsh get back in your box and chill

Get back in what box? He asked we replied, let us know if that's ok or if not let us know exactly what we should say that would meet with your approval

some thing constructive would be more in line with what the op asked not a put down no one likes a put down do they the prove of that is how quick you respond when it was you on the receiving end .

but hay I guess you can dish it out but not take it hay "

We can take it so do your best That's if you have anything worthwhile to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably best knock it on the head mate

oooooohh harsh very harsh get back in your box and chill

Get back in what box? He asked we replied, let us know if that's ok or if not let us know exactly what we should say that would meet with your approval

some thing constructive would be more in line with what the op asked not a put down no one likes a put down do they the prove of that is how quick you respond when it was you on the receiving end .

but hay I guess you can dish it out but not take it hay "

Oh and as he was considering knocking it on the head how is us not agreeing with him not being constructive

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"i always welcome tips on my profile! "

No you don't. You snapped at one person who commented on your profile on another thread that you hijacked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably best knock it on the head mate "

That's hardcore

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

On the main forum page just enter profile help in the

"Search forum subjects box"

read and take note, also take a look at the people who asked for help to see any improvement in finding a meet ..enjoy fab

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