FabSwingers.com forum: Family

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's people's views on telling family they swing? any of you done it? Would they disagree, be shocked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no. this is my other life. one that has none of life's stresses. I keep them totally separate

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

My sister knows. My Dad knows I make new friends via the internet.

He has met one Fab friend but wouldn't have a clue

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By *eanus 2000Man
over a year ago

Marlborough

Hi all this is my first forum reply.

I have no problem telling anyone that asks that I'm involved with swinging. My 86 year old mother can't get a handle on it and probably never will and my brothers and sisters don't give a hoot one way or another. As far as I'm concerned swinging is nothing to be ashamed of and if anyone has a problem with it then it's their problem not mine.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Hi and welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my brother knows... often speak about it.

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By *eanus 2000Man
over a year ago

Marlborough

Thanks very much, that's what people don't realise about swinging that everyone is as a rule very friendly.

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By *ubbsWoman
over a year ago

southend

My kids n family know im on here...im not ashamed n if they didnt like it..tough its my life...my daughter is on here aswel lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's people's views on telling family they swing? any of you done it? Would they disagree, be shocked?"

Would they disagree- yes

Would they be shocked- no

Would we tell them- no

Do we care about their opinion on the matter- no

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My kids n family know im on here...im not ashamed n if they didnt like it..tough its my life...my daughter is on here aswel lol xx"
wow, that is quite rare, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My kids n family know im on here...im not ashamed n if they didnt like it..tough its my life...my daughter is on here aswel lol xx"

Oh dear, you know what kind of messages you're about to get don't you .... best get your filters up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My kids n family know im on here...im not ashamed n if they didnt like it..tough its my life...my daughter is on here aswel lol xx"
hello... yous sound great fun! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My kids n family know im on here...im not ashamed n if they didnt like it..tough its my life...my daughter is on here aswel lol xx

Oh dear, you know what kind of messages you're about to get don't you .... best get your filters up! "

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By *ubbsWoman
over a year ago

southend

Not at all x

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By *ubbsWoman
over a year ago

southend

"My kids n family know im on here...im not ashamed n if they didnt like it..tough its my life...my daughter is on here aswel lol xx hello... yous sound great fun! x"
tyvm we are all very open n talk bout everything together x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not at all x"
does she know you're on here? how do you avoid each other?

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By *ubbsWoman
over a year ago

southend

"My kids n family know im on here...im not ashamed n if they didnt like it..tough its my life...my daughter is on here aswel lol xxwow, that is quite rare, surely?"
no not really theres alot of us on here...obviously we dont play together n neva eba meet same guys..she goes for ppl her age n i go for my age.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My kids n family know im on here...im not ashamed n if they didnt like it..tough its my life...my daughter is on here aswel lol xxwow, that is quite rare, surely?no not really theres alot of us on here...obviously we dont play together n neva eba meet same guys..she goes for ppl her age n i go for my age....."
how you mean, 'a lot of us on here'?

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By *ubbsWoman
over a year ago

southend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brother and sister no and mum has a idea lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't tell anyone I,m on here, it's none of their business. I am a private person. XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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Really? anyone else think this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wtf would you tell?!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wtf would you tell?!!!"
We would yes lol

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

I really feel no need to discuss our sex life with our family.

However, they have met several of our swinging friends at our wedding reception and have no idea lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I really feel no need to discuss our sex life with our family.

However, they have met several of our swinging friends at our wedding reception and have no idea lol"
lucky no one slipped up then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My kids know we make friends online thats it x

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By *ubbsWoman
over a year ago

southend

"Not at all xdoes she know you're on here? how do you avoid each other?"
age differences x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sex life is private and personal. I have no desire to discuss it with anybody. It's just not my style.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My family don't know and don't need to know. If they somehow found out i wouldn't hide it but I'm not about to go shouting from the rooftops that I'm a swinger just yet

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum knows I am on sites like this, but whenever I have a meet I just say I'm going to see a friend.

The other day she saw some condoms in my draw and was horrified since I must have been screwing all kinds of women. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My mum knows I am on sites like this, but whenever I have a meet I just say I'm going to see a friend.

The other day she saw some condoms in my draw and was horrified since I must have been screwing all kinds of women. lol"

"Don't worry mum, I screw men as well"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i really have no need at all to tell my family i do this

Seem odd to me that people would

saying that in pretty sure my kids know, they are 22 and 23 and not stupid, they have said a few thing in the past thats made me think they have worked it out, ive been single for 9 years yet buy sexy underwear etc they aren't daft enugh to think i buy it to sit at home alone in my room, ive never confirmed it nor would i ever, i just leave their minds working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My mum knows I am on sites like this, but whenever I have a meet I just say I'm going to see a friend.

The other day she saw some condoms in my draw and was horrified since I must have been screwing all kinds of women. lol

"Don't worry mum, I screw men as well"

lol lol Yeah - I keep that bit quiet! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't share because I think is my own life! Is my own secret and they wouldn't understand.x

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We would never tell our families and friends and hope they would never find out. This is our secret life and they would never understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My family and friends know i do online dating, but nothing more. They wouldn't understand, and I can't be doing with all the grief i'd get off them. My mum already worries and thinks i'm taking risks by meeting people in real life that i've met online, she'd spontaneously combust if she knew everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have much contact with family but my friends know. Two of my best friends are on here and we go to clubs together with our long suffering other halves

Beard has told his brother. He couldn't care less

Red xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have much contact with family but my friends know. Two of my best friends are on here and we go to clubs together with our long suffering other halves

Beard has told his brother. He couldn't care less

Red xx"

Please note we only suffer until we get into the playrooms

Beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am pretty sure my family know I have sex with my wife, I have never felt the urge to discuss favourite positions etc with any of them, nor do I feel the urge to tell them sometimes there are more than 2 of us having sex.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I never told my family when I had sex with someone I met in a niteclub. I can't see why I would want to tell them that I had sex with someone I met in a swinger's club

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By *oggingslutWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

my family im in contact with all know, my aunty swings as does her daughter... sex is natural and its too taboo in this country

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

My eldest daughter knows now as I explained we run events at the 'club' we go to and she told me she's known for ages as saw Inked in the paper when he was papped at swingfields

We have a bit of a laugh about it as she is 19

Actually saw my brother on here when he split with his gf too so he knows too

A few of Inked's family and friends know but for

us strictly on a need to know basis ... x

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm single with two grown children. They know I have friends that I meet for sex, I'm not a nun! They don't get told details, they don't need to know and neither of them are the slighted bit phased by it.

I've heard a few stories regarding accidents in clubs and I've been to a couple of events where an ambulance has been called and I don't want my children to find out what I do from a nurse in a hospital in another part of the country.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

My daughter knows....I'm not ashamed I'm not hurting anybody ....

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By *eanus 2000Man
over a year ago

Marlborough

Nail on hit head!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My daughter knows....I'm not ashamed I'm not hurting anybody ....

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same for me my daughter knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's people's views on telling family they swing? any of you done it? Would they disagree, be shocked?"

Our sex life is our business. Don't think my family would like to know about our sex life

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

our kids both found out a while ago and it didnt phase them in the least lol, hasnt caused an issue

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

There are a good few things we don't discuss with family as its our business, not ashamed or anything like that, just that we don't think they are interested in every detail of the minutia of our lives ....this includes what I had for breakfast, what my bank balance is and details of my sex life. Guess I am not an exhibitionist ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can just imagine me going to visit my mum she asks over a cup of tea what we been upto

"Well mum we had a random couple on line, had a few drinks n a chat n we all decided to have sex with each other. How was your weekend?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My kids n family know im on here...im not ashamed n if they didnt like it..tough its my life...my daughter is on here aswel lol xx"

What's ur daughters profile

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

most of my family know we dont talk about it though. they just found out.

i dont know or care what people think.

i was a bit worried when my son found out but we still get on ok.

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By *laskan lovers 1984Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

"My family and friends know i do online dating, but nothing more. They wouldn't understand, and I can't be doing with all the grief i'd get off them. My mum already worries and thinks i'm taking risks by meeting people in real life that i've met online, she'd spontaneously combust if she knew everything. "

Very much this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just internet dating

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By *unnynbugsCouple
over a year ago

Neath

Bugs told her mother who replied with as long as your happy that's fine just don't bring it up again.

I wouldn't dream of telling my mother as she's too straight laced. I have told some work collegues and very close friends however

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By *xx1Man
over a year ago

"My sex life is private and personal. I have no desire to discuss it with anybody. It's just not my style."

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found out about this site through my cousin, we openly talk about it, but we keep it between us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well Mrs Heat just whatsapped her mum saying she hopes we get an invite to the party as the hosts look kinky... cat out of the bag!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Punks brother knows he just said good on you not bothered one little bit ,as for me supposed family non there business at all but don't suppose they would be shocked but are very narrow minded

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Most of my family and close friends know

Dads response "good on you if I was single I'd be doing same"

Mums response "well what a progressive girl you are just stay safe"

My best friends response "where do I sign up and why did you not tell me sooner"

Sisters respnse "I wouldn't do it but you're not me so crack on".

Brother in laws response (via on fab pm) "wanna fuck? I always fancied you"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most of my family and close friends know

Dads response "good on you if I was single I'd be doing same"

Mums response "well what a progressive girl you are just stay safe"

My best friends response "where do I sign up and why did you not tell me sooner"

Sisters respnse "I wouldn't do it but you're not me so crack on".

Brother in laws response (via on fab pm) "wanna fuck? I always fancied you" "
Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's people's views on telling family they swing? any of you done it? Would they disagree, be shocked?"

My family has no idea about this and I wouldn't tell them

I come from a Christian upbringing and they would freak.

Its my life and my body so my choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well my parents don't know but my uncle is on here and we only knew that as we bumped into him at a swinger party I was shocked at first but hey we all adults now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Told a few of my many siblings. Youngest (gay) brothers comment was 'when are we taking him to Kestrels/Abfabs bi night'.

So far avoided, some things I could never unsee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's people's views on telling family they swing? any of you done it? Would they disagree, be shocked?"

No but my sister knows i promoted swinging sites and she has used them!

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By *ylvanSeathMan
over a year ago

Finchley

My sister and her boyfriend are very open about using this site. I would probably be too but I'd prefer to open that avenue of interpretation for my parents. "You and your brother are on the same online swinging site you say?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, wouldn't dream of telling our family about our regular sex life so why would we tell them about this side of our sex life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope they dont know lol

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