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SINGLE MALE Attending My First Club !

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By *ohnnyDepth30 OP   Man
over a year ago

London Bridge

Really wanna go to a club just hesitating about going alone I'm a bit nervous .. would be great if someone would kindly show me the ropes and be my wing woman for a night .. thanks SIRJACKHAMMER

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Really wanna go to a club just hesitating about going alone I'm a bit nervous .. would be great if someone would kindly show me the ropes and be my wing woman for a night .. thanks SIRJACKHAMMER "

Do you go to pubs and nightclubs on your own? If you do, it's exactly the same only in a swingers club someone, somewhere, may be shagging.

It's a simple as that.

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

Been ab Fabs by myself, was good, met some nice people.

Just go, it's really no biggie.

Be friendly, easy going and have no expectations and be up for a laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's natural to be nervous, remember its everyone's first time at some point, don't go in with expectations as this can lead to disappointment, it really is just like a night at a pub (where people have far less clothes on and maybe have sex over the pool table ).

Don't be pushy, expectant and don't drink too much and talk to people, are the best bits of advice we can give.

Oh yes and have fun

(Nearly had a typo of have GUN there which is not the best advice)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take a big breath and be brave!! What do you think is going to happen to you?

Seriously nothing in it for a woman to take a random she doesn't know to a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry and just go for it. Think of it this way - what's the worst that could happen and are your fears justified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What usually happens is that as soon as you walk in, everyone knows you are a newbie, so the women dive onto you and tear your clothes off and the men all grab your privates and squeeze them.

Thats a lie, what happens is you go in, get shown around (most clubs give you a tour on your first visit), have a drink, have a chat with the nice people there (again, if you are new a lot of clubs will introduce you to people there), and then if things click you get giggedy giggedy with people. If things dont click, then you watch everyone and see if someone invites you.

Bear in mind that everyone is new in a club the first time, thats to be expected. Just go, have a good time and you will wonder why its taken you so long. Remember, everyone at a swingers club are swingers. Dont be forceful, be respectful and you will enjoy it

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