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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Considering scenario's for Mrs C's first meet with someone else. Either fully open beforehand where Mrs C is fully involved with choosing someone and fully involved in the run up to the meet, then fully aware who she was meeting. Or with her consent, I Mr C do all the ground work before hand, knowing Mrs C's likes and ground rules, arrange the meet and Mrs C is blindfolded for the entire meet and the other male never speaks so she would never know who it was. What have other couples done?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done both. Both fun. So long as the Mrs is OK with your choices then all is good

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Since you aren't meet verified in over a year, maybe a more conventional meet would work better as a first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are consent issues here, you need to film a video clip of your lady expressing consent for the scenario or even some form of written consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since you aren't meet verified in over a year, maybe a more conventional meet would work better as a first?"

Agreed. We have done both and it worked out very well but you have to know exactly what each other wants and hope you get it just right which is tricky so why not start slow.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Considering scenario's for Mrs C's first meet with someone else. Either fully open beforehand where Mrs C is fully involved with choosing someone and fully involved in the run up to the meet, then fully aware who she was meeting. Or with her consent, I Mr C do all the ground work before hand, knowing Mrs C's likes and ground rules, arrange the meet and Mrs C is blindfolded for the entire meet and the other male never speaks so she would never know who it was. What have other couples done?"

before I even agreed to a meet under these circumstances I'd want proof of her consent so I knew it wasn't some sick joke being played out on her.

that consent could be easily proved by having a picture send to me the day of the meet with her holding up a piece of paper with the date of the meet written on it and the words I consent.

with out that I would not even consider a meet sorry op I'm a consent freak I'm afraid and would never proof of her agreement to play in such away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Considering scenario's for Mrs C's first meet with someone else. Either fully open beforehand where Mrs C is fully involved with choosing someone and fully involved in the run up to the meet, then fully aware who she was meeting. Or with her consent, I Mr C do all the ground work before hand, knowing Mrs C's likes and ground rules, arrange the meet and Mrs C is blindfolded for the entire meet and the other male never speaks so she would never know who it was. What have other couples done?"

Which one does she prefer?

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