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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If a woman I message has a face pic on public pics then I attach mine. If she doesn't then I'll offer to send one if she's interested in my profile. Am I being unreasonable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who knows!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman I message has a face pic on public pics then I attach mine. If she doesn't then I'll offer to send one if she's interested in my profile. Am I being unreasonable?"

What's unreasonable about it?

I prefer a face pic with first message..

I'd attach one if I was doing the sending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman I message has a face pic on public pics then I attach mine. If she doesn't then I'll offer to send one if she's interested in my profile. Am I being unreasonable?"

No sounds perfectly fine to me pal

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I would have said send yours but use the auto remove facility.

S

We never send face pics as we work for U.N.C.L.E

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not unreasonable no. I don't think there is much point in sending a face pic if you don't even know if they would be interested anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman I message has a face pic on public pics then I attach mine. If she doesn't then I'll offer to send one if she's interested in my profile. Am I being unreasonable?"

Don't understand what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well I see quite a few comments from women who ignore/delete without a face pic, but don't have one on themselves. I wondered it it was some sort of etiquette thing that I'm missing..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman I message has a face pic on public pics then I attach mine. If she doesn't then I'll offer to send one if she's interested in my profile. Am I being unreasonable?"

My profile says to send a face pic with your first message unless you have one in your public pics so if you asked me if I wanted a face pic in your message, I'd stamp my feet, scream and

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would have said send yours but use the auto remove facility.

S

We never send face pics as we work for U.N.C.L.E

S"

Ok thanks, I use the auto remove anyway..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a woman I message has a face pic on public pics then I attach mine. If she doesn't then I'll offer to send one if she's interested in my profile. Am I being unreasonable?

My profile says to send a face pic with your first message unless you have one in your public pics so if you asked me if I wanted a face pic in your message, I'd stamp my feet, scream and "

Yeah, but you have a face pic up so I'd automatically send one..

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"If a woman I message has a face pic on public pics then I attach mine. If she doesn't then I'll offer to send one if she's interested in my profile. Am I being unreasonable?"

I think its totally unreasonable to see the face of who's fucking you that's why I blindfold my victims

errrr sorry I mean lovely sex partners and I never send a face picture on grounds of it being totally unnecessary for sexual enjoyment .

I'm not having much luck with this approach but I'm hanging in their as i'm sure my luck will change very shortly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I'm sure it will be unreasonable to some, even messaging at all seems unreasonable to some! I don't demand a face pic with a first message, I really don't need to see the face of a load of people I'm not interested in, just of those I might be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trouble is how does someone know if they are interested if they don't know what you look like? A lot of guys say they will send a face picif we are interested, and we think how on earth could we possibly know if we are interested without seeing the face?

Yes we insist in face pic at first message in order to avoid wasting time chatting to someone where there is no attraction. We abide by our own rules in that if the first message comes from us we will send a face pic. We also send a face pic in return to anyone we are interested in.

No we don't have full face pics on our public pictures. Don't see how that's relevant to the privately sending of face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman I message has a face pic on public pics then I attach mine. If she doesn't then I'll offer to send one if she's interested in my profile. Am I being unreasonable?

I think its totally unreasonable to see the face of who's fucking you that's why I blindfold my victims

errrr sorry I mean lovely sex partners and I never send a face picture on grounds of it being totally unnecessary for sexual enjoyment .

I'm not having much luck with this approach but I'm hanging in their as i'm sure my luck will change very shortly "

Yes but you have a more psychological and holistic approach to sex, where I suspect you use the brain the biggest sexual organ. For men who have what it takes to turn a woman on without revealing what he looks like, may well get away without showing a face pic in a timely manner. However most men just want sex, therefore their potential partner really needs to know if they can fancy that person.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"If a woman I message has a face pic on public pics then I attach mine. If she doesn't then I'll offer to send one if she's interested in my profile. Am I being unreasonable?

I think its totally unreasonable to see the face of who's fucking you that's why I blindfold my victims

errrr sorry I mean lovely sex partners and I never send a face picture on grounds of it being totally unnecessary for sexual enjoyment .

I'm not having much luck with this approach but I'm hanging in their as i'm sure my luck will change very shortly

Yes but you have a more psychological and holistic approach to sex, where I suspect you use the brain the biggest sexual organ. For men who have what it takes to turn a woman on without revealing what he looks like, may well get away without showing a face pic in a timely manner. However most men just want sex, therefore their potential partner really needs to know if they can fancy that person."

its was very much a tongue in cheek post with a hint of truth thrown in around sex being a mental thing just as much if not more so than a physical thing

face picture on its way to the both of you

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"The trouble is how does someone know if they are interested if they don't know what you look like? A lot of guys say they will send a face picif we are interested, and we think how on earth could we possibly know if we are interested without seeing the face?

Yes we insist in face pic at first message in order to avoid wasting time chatting to someone where there is no attraction. We abide by our own rules in that if the first message comes from us we will send a face pic. We also send a face pic in return to anyone we are interested in.

No we don't have full face pics on our public pictures. Don't see how that's relevant to the privately sending of face pics. "

Exactly this. Renders the first message pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep getting my messages deleted when I attach a face pic, I didn't think I was a bad looking guy until I came on here, I must be rats??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems reasonable enough. However, if someone you are interested in specifically requests one with a first message, would you not be well placed to consider it? You can always tick the little box that removes pics when the message is read?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman I message has a face pic on public pics then I attach mine. If she doesn't then I'll offer to send one if she's interested in my profile. Am I being unreasonable?"

Even I don't have face picture in my profile! If I wanted to get a message across will attach my face picture,regardless if he has face picture or not.The reason is I want the person to she who they will be chating with,simple us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep getting my messages deleted when I attach a face pic, I didn't think I was a bad looking guy until I came on here, I must be rats??"

Maybe isn't you ,is your profile.Sometimes I find the guy,interesting but their profile put me.I believe we must to put effort in every thing we do.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - you sound very reasonable. I think you're question was how to aprouch ladies?

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