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Are many In a relationship but the only one swinging

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By *inkyChrissy99 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I was just wondering how many in here are in a long term relationship but its only them thats swings?- not there partner too.

Is it sustainable? Or even realistic to think I can do this long term?

I do have her consent- she is letting me explore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a swinger and might dip my toe in soon. At the moment my man is exploring his sexual side on a single profile.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

I think there is a difference between swing and just wanting sex.

Loads of singles on here say they are swingers but there partner does not participate(or know) they "swing"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When questions like this are asked I somehow feel they are looking for an a number as the answer?

I'm going to guess,117.

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By *ockman3858Man
over a year ago

didcot

I am a swinger u wife was but stopped I am allowed to go to the greenhouse sauna

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play. She doesn't any more.

We have a couples profile but a mixture of reasons have put her off. She's done everything she fantasised about and the pushiness of bi women trying to convert her made her cross.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us hubby has no interest in being with other woman right now so it's just me who plays . We would usually have straight mmf fun . It works for us and has done for years but who knows what the future will bring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm the only one that plays in our relationship.. hubby has no interest atm to play.. (I'm trying to change that haha) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had some wild, wonderful experience's as a swingle, but now in a vanilla, but sexy relationship, I'm not sharing nothing, not me or him, this is totally exclusive, but................it's early days lol. 5 months, and I don't want any other man. Just..... can't. ......keep......off......the.......forums.....

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By *inkyChrissy99 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Quite a few then, thats encouraging xx

Do you talk about your play too, or where you are going openly etc? I'm very vague as my Mrs doesn't want details.

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By *LUFFER200Man
over a year ago

North Devon

I am in a long term relationship and my partner is happy for me to play with couples and single women and is willing to confirm this. We have regularly visited Temptation in Cancun and she has been happy to let me play both openly and behind closed doors with others. Unfortunately meeting swingers in the UK is proving a little more difficult. Not tried the UK club scene yet as wouldn't feel comfortable as a single guy. Open to offers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both play, hence us being here as a couple. We do not choose to meet as singles (just our preference). Master does not want to engage with women as in full penetration, neither do I with men. We just want girl on girl action, and play with bi men and TV TS

Kinky

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By *ussetdevilCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

We go to clubs and on here as a couple but only I play as he doesn't want to... We share all and he can be there or not but so far it's working fine...

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By *unkkMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

I have been swinging as a single for many years. Wife has no interest in it, I have asked her many times. Swinging to me is having sexy fun with no emotional ties! Call me old fashioned but making love with the wife is totally different to shagging in an orgy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes .

Its all well and good swinging.

But what if your partner doesn't know. You go with a couple. Fall for one of them,

Continue to meet up regular.

The partner of the couple still wants to swing .

And you are dying every time you know a meet is taking place.

But your not involved.

Hope it does not sound that complicated.xx

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By *eendeeCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

We have been married 26 years nearly we have both swung both together for over 10 years in clubs parties and meets and both have had seperate meets me a few times Mrs Dee once but at the moment just me (mr Dee) meeting or wanting to meet without much luck due to Mrs Dee suffering with blackouts and poor health with permission I might add and she's willing to confirm this and obviously it's worked brill as we are confident and relaxed in our marriage and sexual fun X

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By *inkyChrissy99 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Sounds like if I am open and honest this can work. I'm aware there is a fine line though- I have to be careful so she knows shes still the one and its just sexual fun i'm having xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few married ones here, myself included, were there the partner is simply not interested in sex anymore and quit frankly its best to keep the sexual activities confidential for a number of reasons.

Whether it's swinging or simply sexual explorations etc most people in those shoes choose to play solo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We swing together only. Its a bit of fun for us both to expand our experiences playing apart isnt nearly as much fun.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"I have been swinging as a single for many years. Wife has no interest in it, I have asked her many times. Swinging to me is having sexy fun with no emotional ties! Call me old fashioned but making love with the wife is totally different to shagging in an orgy!"

Wife ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally depends on the dynamic of the couple?

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